Up in Wisconsin women who did this were calling from the State Corrections department. Looks like LE is trying the approach down here now.

It happens more than you think.. They like pleasing the SO but I have a deranged wife and only arranging she would be doing is a hit man..lol

I have had it happen twice and both times I have denied the appt. Too many other fish in the sea to risk your safety for one appt. It's just too weird because if the wife was OK with it they would be in the swingers lifestyle and would have told you so. I see couples all the time since I am in the lifestyle but it is usually the gentleman who makes the appt. I wouldn't do it if I were you. Just my 2 cents.

I have had the same situation.  A woman wants to make an appointment for her husband as a surprise for him.  I let her know I need to speak directly with the person who wants to see me.  She calls a lot.  I have spoke with her twice saying the same things over and over.  I don't book through third parties and for new clients I need to speak to them on the phone.  She says she's stuck on surprising her husband.  I don't like the idea of surprise appointments.  She calls a lot, a few times a week, not giving up.  Not sure if it is a scam or not, but I don't want to find out.  I just don't answer or return her calls anymore.

I have several times!

I also like to treat my hubby to some special fun time so I will set something up and *suprise* him too. Only thing is I will tell the girl I DONT want him to know she is an escort and ask her if she minds going along with us knowing each other from work and her wanting to hook up with us and get freaky.

I am upfront with who I am and I also do my research on what girl I would want to select as well (Yup, I check the reviews too!)

I have done this several times and each time we had a blast and I was very generous with the girl (tip wise)for going along with my request.

I ALSO set up an appt with him for an Asian Escort and I advised the *operator* who I was and what my intentions were. My hubby had a fantasy of being with an asian girl and I wanted to fulfill it for him!

I told him to be ready after work and I had a suprise for him. I picked him up and blindfolded him and drove him to Rockville. He was anxious/nervous the whole time. I walked him in the hotel room (still blindfolded) paid the girl (extra too) and kissed him good bye and let him know I would be out front if he needed me.

Again he had a blast!

If the girl is upfront and honest and passes your screening than why not?

Then again if you get that little voice that says *hell no* than go with your gut!

...which is another reason I prefer email for intial contact.

There's been something on CL about a magazine trying to do research basically through extorting providers and clients in NoVA.  I don't know if that has anything to do w/this, or even if it's true, but maybe there's some sort of connection.