I had a woman call me to book an appointment for a gentleman this weekend. I didn't actually speak with her, but she did call several times and left messages each time indicating that she wanted to book an appointment for her hubby. So my question to you all is ladies: has a situation similar to this ever happened to you, and if so how did you deal with it? And to the gentlemen of the board: under what circumstances would your S.O. book an appointment for you. BTW she did specify that it was for her hubby only and not a couples session she was inquiring about. *scratching my head*

Up in Wisconsin women who did this were calling from the State Corrections department. Looks like LE is trying the approach down here now.

It happens more than you think.. They like pleasing the SO but I have a deranged wife and only arranging she would be doing is a hit man..lol

I would be a little carefull of this.
looks like it could be a big setup.
the "SO" could be playing a trick to trying to set  him up. Maybe to try to prove his infedelity for a divorce or something.
That could be a option ha

I have had it happen twice and both times I have denied the appt. Too many other fish in the sea to risk your safety for one appt. It's just too weird because if the wife was OK with it they would be in the swingers lifestyle and would have told you so. I see couples all the time since I am in the lifestyle but it is usually the gentleman who makes the appt. I wouldn't do it if I were you. Just my 2 cents.

I have had the same situation.  A woman wants to make an appointment for her husband as a surprise for him.  I let her know I need to speak directly with the person who wants to see me.  She calls a lot.  I have spoke with her twice saying the same things over and over.  I don't book through third parties and for new clients I need to speak to them on the phone.  She says she's stuck on surprising her husband.  I don't like the idea of surprise appointments.  She calls a lot, a few times a week, not giving up.  Not sure if it is a scam or not, but I don't want to find out.  I just don't answer or return her calls anymore.

I also like to treat my hubby to some special fun time so I will set something up and *suprise* him too. Only thing is I will tell the girl I DONT want him to know she is an escort and ask her if she minds going along with us knowing each other from work and her wanting to hook up with us and get freaky.

I am upfront with who I am and I also do my research on what girl I would want to select as well (Yup, I check the reviews too!)

I have done this several times and each time we had a blast and I was very generous with the girl (tip wise)for going along with my request.

I ALSO set up an appt with him for an Asian Escort and I advised the *operator* who I was and what my intentions were. My hubby had a fantasy of being with an asian girl and I wanted to fulfill it for him!

I told him to be ready after work and I had a suprise for him. I picked him up and blindfolded him and drove him to Rockville. He was anxious/nervous the whole time. I walked him in the hotel room (still blindfolded) paid the girl (extra too) and kissed him good bye and let him know I would be out front if he needed me.

Again he had a blast!

If the girl is upfront and honest and passes your screening than why not?

Then again if you get that little voice that says *hell no* than go with your gut!

...which is another reason I prefer email for intial contact.

Under the radar. You are a very good woman.
Wish i could have found you in college
Wow thats awsome to hear what you did for your "SO"
A man can dream can't he

...and, frankly, I got kinda creeped out.

There's been something on CL about a magazine trying to do research basically through extorting providers and clients in NoVA.  I don't know if that has anything to do w/this, or even if it's true, but maybe there's some sort of connection.

My hubbie is 43 and im 26 and ya gotta add some spice to it at one time or another. The only downfall to being so open is when you (me) start being taken for granted.

And believe me when I say it's not always peaches and cream. You gotta take the good with the bad. I have my faults too.

But on that note I will say he has NO complaints in the sex department. Seems like I do the begging when it comes to that. I can relate to how you guys feel about getting french.....

I get it on *Special Occasions*.....

Go figure huh?

Just c'mere hon, you'll never have to beg again!!

the kids, the house ect.......Guess you take the good with the bad but Im kinda sick of the bad