Colonel Nathan Jessep on the Stand written by Aaron Sorkin
"Jessep: You want answers? Kaffee (Tom Cruise): I think I'm entitled to them. Jessep: You want answers? Kaffee: I want the truth! Jessep: You can't handle the truth! Son, we live in a world that has walls. And those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. Who's gonna do it? You? You, Lt. Weinberg? I have a greater responsibility than you can possibly fathom. You weep for Santiago and you curse the Marines. You have that luxury. You have the luxury of not knowing what I know: that Santiago's death, while tragic, probably saved lives. And my existence, while grotesque and incomprehensible to you, saves lives...You don't want the truth. Because deep down, in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall. You need me on that wall. We use words like honor, code, loyalty...we use these words as the backbone to a life spent defending something. You use 'em as a punchline. I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom I provide, then questions the manner in which I provide it! I'd rather you just said thank you and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand a post. Either way, I don't give a damn what you think you're entitled to! Kaffee: Did you order the code red? Jessep: (quietly) I did the job you sent me to do. Kaffee: Did you order the code red? Jessep: You're goddamn right I did!!"
The best way to learn is to lay your tongue down next to a chick's tongue and double team on a third.
Alternatively you can book your ATF until she is sick and tired of ya and then one day she will suddenly grab you and finally teach you out of desperation.
Obviously most of you hobby because you are not getting it at home. With some girls charging more than most car payments for a month, you had better get some instruction, but ask sincerely before the appt., and remind her when you show up. You might be suprised. Most ladies will help you out.
Some guys who are the worst kissers are fantastic at DATY. Some guys really cannot do dog, let alone mish with appendages smaller than my thumb whereas these same guys will lose it when teabagged. Others want the strap on and whole cat-o-nines and then show up in whity-tighties and confess they just want to be held. Go figure.
That's part of how I've learned to be pretty decent at the basics...by 1) reading body language and 2) having frank discussions with women on what they like and what could be done better. That and lots of practice and willingness to explore.
My experience is there's always YMMV on chemistry and technique. Everyone has their unique twist on the basics (or sometimes they want something truly exotic) which works for them. So you always have to figure that out and apply it.
On the other subject: I personally would not want a posted review of myself as a hobbyist. There's no real motivation for me to have one. I have no business interests in it like providers and any advice I'd want, I'd ask (and have done so) the lady directly. All the ladies I have seen have been willing to write a referral for me, and that is good enough for me.
I think he's right in that mini-reviews could be abused. Excessive posting has not been a problem on this board due to the discretion of our local providers. But with so many visiting ladies, I could see this how this might quickly snowball into a problem. Btw, I also notice the provider who wanted to post a review, wanted to do it on her husband, gigolojess. Who seems like a *real* winner, especially in this post: http://classic.theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=41534&boardID=9&page=1
Judging by the response to the diary, it seems clear to me that you'll never see an honest review posted by a lady on her clients. It would be bad for her business. If she takes the diplomatic route and posts one positive review on a client, then there would be pressure to post another good review on another client and so on. It'd be tough trying to write to please everyone and if she's smart...everyone would be a 9/9. And if she does that, I'm sure someone would criticize her for not being more frank. And if she's less than complimentary on someone, look at the response to the diary.
Ladies deal with reviews because it's good for business. I see many potential headaches but no benefits they would get in taking the time and effort to write reviews.
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