I just saw someone whom I like very much: She’s pretty and loves to cuddle.  But there is a problem:  she says my penis is painfully large.
I am not bragging.  I have NO WAY to know how large I am compared to others.  After all, I pay attention to women’s breast size, but I never look at men’s penises.  No one has complained before, but I have another friend who tells me that I have a very large head. And I have had problems with normally sized condoms, and find magnums much more comfortable.   So maybe yes, maybe no.
This 21-year old has been having sex since 17, so she should have enough experience and corresponding expansion.
We met for two hours today, and though she had three or four climaxes, I had none.  As soon as I began intercourse, she said that she felt pain, so I withdrew.  Masturbating did not work, so it’s frustrating as hell.  And it’s confusing for I do not know what to do.  I mean, I like her, but I do not want to spend all my time pleasing her, with my needs unsatisfied.
I see no option but to give her up.  Suggestions?  This is no joke.  I am perplexed about what to do

See another provider. Sometimes they see way too many clients in one day. When that happens and you are late in the day their pussy is sore. Others will arch their backs so you can't penetrate them deeply for doggie style or lap doggie.  Sometimes we are not a match for their pussies because we just too big in girth and/or length. I always carry lube and make sure to lube the condom with lots of lube. Even the thick ladies can have trouble, they don't always have big pussies. If they are having a good time they will climax pretty quickly, just make sure to take your time and be gentle. It is also helpful to put some more lube on before going for the gusto. That way you can pump their pussy deep and hard to have a strong climax and leave smiling like a king, lol.

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I got  a large head. I found out when the lady who measured my head when I ordered the cap worn in my high school graduation. Recently I bought a skull cap on line to keep my head warm when I go out running. It did not not fit. That pissed me off.

Chop of a little bit of your dick or go see someone else... Black and Decker has some good saws on sale for Christmas..LMAO....

Only so much that can be done.  More lube.  Different positions, finding what works best for her.  Have her bring you close to the edge with a BJ before the sex. Go slowly and gently.

I have noticed the guys who are perceived to be big always end up getting pussy for free at work, gym, or church. They fit a certain profile, build like Ray Louis or tall around 6'2" (i know one who has 12 ladies on the side for free) with a muscular build. One short guy told me he works on his arms so he can have an advantage otherwise the ladies would not give him any play. The ladies will share intel and pass him (African Guy I know) around. In the hobby world it is the opposite "He has a big dick stay away from him".  My African buddy stopped seeing escorts. He told me that many complained he was too big and they were worn out when he saw them.

I'm being very serious when I say that I was turned on when I read your thread. I understand that you enjoy the young lady that you are with, but I'm very interested in meeting you. PM sent.

I'll tell you the truth, I swear!  

BUT. If you are doing P4P to have your sexual needs met, and they're not being met, well... You two aren't a good match. The point of this is to satisfy you, not give you blue balls. Now, I could see if you had to fuck her the full one hour and only booked a one hour, but if it's only a few minutes of intercourse, I'd say find someone with the ability to handle you.

Thank you. I wanted to send this fool the same kind of message I just did not have the fortitude. w]What a creep.

See her if you want to walk away with not having been satisfied. And you are paying. You ARE paying so you most definitely should be getting off.  

and it  involves going under the knife.  If, as you say, you are someone who pays attention to women's breast size, then you must know that some ladies, who feel that their boobs are too big, opt for breast reduction surgery. Likewise, you should look into penis reduction surgery. Then you can have your cake and fuck it too.  

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wtf are you two talking about. nothing wrong with his post???

for being above average in size?  

This lovely lady posted on the Washington ad board stating she will be visiting our area in January:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=254654

She's 21!  Choose an older women.  Many women right before menopause LOVE larger dicks (combination of experience and estrogen jump before the crash).  After that, it's use it or loose it,  to keep the natural lube coming.  Of course some gals chose to use hormones.  I find a long warm yummy warm up does the trick.   K