provider think about wife )
 we women are the same ..

 we have strange fantasies .. and not always share them  especially   I think here  
 where women say only  what men want to hear .. and most men  want talk
menu services roses language ..
 it is ..just ... not sexy ..
 
you spoke real man language - you like to satisfy woman and from that you aroused yourself .. same with  complete women . woman as she was born - she satisfied ONLY when she sees you enjoying  her .. woman  
love  a sex object ..
 
 who said it is different   for women ?? it is even more amplified  for us - to be in the game and fantasy then for males.. then we come stronger more wet  then we are mulitorgasmic.. then  we say - a bit of pain is sweet ( as to greeck ) and then we have fountains of squirting  
..
not on oral or cock only but mind MIND is the biggest sex organ .. and  you show it ..
Love your sexy mind  dear .. and why no one responded you  yet

My two cents:

I like to find out about the real ladies behind the escort persona. If they turn out to be married, I think that would be okay with me. I am married, and I don't hide that from them. So far, none have told me about marriages except for one very estranged one that should already have been turned into a divorce.

I usually chat with ladies about their other clients, past lovers and husbands, and general life experiences if they feel like talking about them (they usually do). In this context, knowing there is a husband in the background wouldn't ruin any illusion of exclusivity for me.  

I wouldn't want any direct interaction with the husband - I don't have a great rationale for this, it just seems creepy for reasons I can't pin down. Kind of like doing a threesome with another guy, which has no appeal to me. However, I don't think it would bother me if the husband was screening/managing unless it seemed more like a pimp or other exploitative relationship  than a marriage (e.g., using her to support his drug/gambling/whatever habit).  

I don't get off on the idea of cuckolding an escort's husband or boyfriend. I think that the thrill of cuckolding would be proportional to the sexual innocence and propriety of the woman, and cuckolding the husband of an escort scores pretty low on that measure. On the other hand, cuckolding doesn't do much for me as a concept, so I guess my views aren't worth much

A provider I see is married and I'm sure her husband knows about her work. My provider and I exchange flirty texts when setting up and confirming appointments. I just had a horrible thought that what if it was her husband handling her scheduling and I've been sexting a dude!

Could be!  

I have had some e-mail exchanges with one "provider" and the language in the posts sometimes shifts back and forth between the very flirty, and not-so-native English of the lady and more reserved, more native English of someone else. I think the latter is a new manager and possibly BF (not a husband, I expect).  

I take some comfort in knowing that she sees the e-mails too, but it is weird knowing that she is not the only one seeing these e-mails. It does take away something from the idea that it is an intimate e-mail exchange though. I guess I need to spend more time with her in person, so I am sure of the person with whom I am having a conversation

Who was reviewing email/responding that posted about. Situation got resolved. Provider still around. Key is know what you are getting and who you are dealing with.

I'll take a recommendation from you anytime.

One of my regulars in another city is married. For one date, he was waiting in the car downstairs. Freaked me out at first, as I was relatively new. Now, I know its not a problem with her. We have a great time together and talk about our families.

Another married provider related how she arranged for two of her friends to give an overnight double to her hubby. I hope the guy knows what a privileged life he leads.

Many aren't married, but have longstanding boyfriends and live-ins. Lucky bastards. They get it for free. I think being the SO/hubby of a hot provider is probably about the best life a guy could lead. Get it for free, get great recommendations and birthday presents.

And, BTW, I do NOT want the hubby or SO joining in our fun. I pay for her to pay full attention to me, and me to only pay attention to her, or her and her girlfriend. If she invited me to play with them for free, that would be another matter.

Lesbian providers are the hottest.... It's as if there is no buzz kill when you find out she is a lesbian in her normal life... Instead of the typical let down feeling ( "you mean she's a lesbian? damn no chance i'll tap dat"), you know as a provider she will BBBJ, DATY, and screw your brains out... Maybe even Greek and other taboos...

Know couple married ladies in biz. Still trying to get on dance card to see if they are hot. Mostly have heard good things. They are utr

Yoko in a Porno.. That's what I am talking about baby....

Can you send me link to Tube8..  :

Umm, after seeing a client or two in one day, the LAST thing on my mind when I get home is having yet more sex. If I saw a fantastic client that day, then I might be all revved up and ready to go. If it was a rough day (literally and/or figuratively), then I just want to collapse into bed and fall asleep. So, if your SO/GF/Wife were a provider, don't expect that you'd be getting any more sex than if she weren't! Though it does probably mean she's more open minded, and the sex you *do* get will be mindblowing

 
Jenn

There are way many more positives about having a provider as a SO/wife. Many more than negatives.

Another positive is that if I allow her to continue to meet her needs as a provider, she should be willing for me to continue to hobby as well! And be totally open about it. Hell, I would let her chose whom I should see!

And, BTW, I would hope that every guy she sees would rock her world.