Lately, I have encountered too many ladies cancelling appointments the last hour or even minutes. Also, some even made me wait an hour, saw another provider who was not scheduled before me, and provided crappy services.  I think hobbyist should start listing some names that are flaky, since I do not want to waste my time booking those ladies. Thanks

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While I understand that it may be frustrating to have a provider cancel on you, I feel we should also keep in mind that sometimes things happen on the provider end that may be beyond their control, and they shouldn't be made to suffer.

Yes, but we can factor that into considering a ncns report.  I've had about a dozen or so experiences of driving and making the second call, and then getting no return call whatsoever... Ever.  Even with well-reviewed providers.

It would be nice to increase the deterrent on that, so that they realize it may impact their business generally, rather than just pissing me off.

BTW, even a cancel call with a lame excuse beats leaving me waiting in the parking lot.

for an hour. You can start here in the DC boards, and rant about your situation. You can also post that NCNS on the reviewers only board if you have access to it. I've always received PM's from other hobbyist about NCNS, flakes, poor serviced, or bad experience.

So, the original post or OP should have mentioned the provider's name on these boards. We have been using this same tactic for a while. That is what the public forums are for. Anyhow, good luck with your future appointments.

I posted about a provider that I wanted to see and feedback from seasoned guys was tremendous.  Saved me from wasting my time.  

Had a semi-well know provider NCNS and then gave me the run around about making it up.  You find out who the game players are pretty quick.

When viewed from ladies side they experience the same thing but with more volume.  My experience has been that one experiences this more with the BP types.  You may experience with the "so-called" VIP and TER reviewed ladies but not at the same rate.

I learned a while ago that when the NCNS happens simply say..... "Next."  On several occassions, when the vibe was strong that the lady is a flake, I make another appointment with a provider to begin 2 hours or so after the original appointment.  If she NSNC, no skin off my teeth.  And if she does show......well, I simply play again in another hour or so.

Soon or later, I am going to out  few providers that tried not giving FULL services that they would give to other customers, with the excuse of like I am in that period of the month, my BC isn't working, I am too sensitive right now.

For example, this one provider said no BBBJ and DATY, but when I PMed five other hobbysists, they all said they got it. Pissed!

When dealing with a well reviewed provider, your mileage should not vary if her services are listed in her profile, especially with BBBJ and DATY. I would have been pissed too.

Its funny that you should mentioned the part that a provider gave an excuse for a period of the month. I just got PM from a hobbyist that his appointment turned into a message because she had that time of the month. I would have been pissed too. There will always be some bullshit excuses. Its better if we let other hobbyist know on the boards, that way, hobbyist know about these things and not waste their money.

If my experienced varied, if I had a NCNS, or some other bullshit experienced, I would have let my fellow hobbyist knew on the same day if possible. I might even log on to TER on my mobile phone and start a thread about it when driving back to her incall. I don't wait because other hobbyist might have the same experience that I did. At least I knew I made some kind of effort to let hobbyist know. Anyhow, that is what I would do.

When people post negative things (even if they are deserved)about another member of our community it often leads to a urination contest involving the lady, the guy and friends and detractors of each.   the reviewers board is less confrontational and it often (not always but often) leads to a real discussion of the situation.


just mu thoughts. I wish there was another way but I don't see it happening on the public boards or in reviews.

The difference is, you would be believed because you are a known entity on the boards and have enough reviews to be thought of as trustworthy. I'm not saying the OP is telling tales but there are instances when I could see a provider saying no to a client for some things. Cleanliness, apparent eruptions on the skin, red marks, bad teeth, smelly breath, come to mind when assessing why some things might not be available to a gentlemen.