The snow around here will ruin the best laid plans,
you have enough good reviews and board presence around here not to have to worry about what she thinks of you,
although, you might want to cross her off your bucket list!

Apparently she isn't very understanding at all!! Hopefully no other providers listen to her. You should be ok. You did nothing wrong!

Agreed, your TER reputation and reviews will overcome any of this. Legitimate providers will not blacklist you over a single event.

Later alligator,
Sky

i too have a snowstorm story

not having a sportscar to deal with and in anticipation of spending an overnight near one of my current favorites' place i thought "no way in hell am i going to cancel".

instead she cancelled on me. she was worried and didn't want me to make the effort. after all i do have this salmon swimming upstream do AND die drive.

as it turned out her wisdom was superior. i _didn't_ manage to stay overnight near her location.

now cynics might think that her concern was primarily that if i got there how could she get rid of me...? but she has exhibited enough care for my wellbeing that i rather think my safety was her motivation.

don't tell me otherwise, i've had enough jaded and cynical negativity in the hobby to last a lifetime.

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Milfhunter...don't sweat it.

You are such a nice guy that you are allowing this wench to get to you.  Don't allow her to hurt your feelings or make you feel bad for this.  You gave this lady 4 hours notice.  In my book that is more than enough.  

You have a great reputation.  Personally I can say that you have always been on time to see me.  Cancellations happen!  I have had it happen to me 1 hour prior to the appointment!  I would never send a gent a scathing email berating him because of it.  

Shit Happens.  As far as I'm concerned, you dodged a bullet with this one.  She showed her true colors being such a bitch.  Now you can focus on seeing someone nice.  

One small note: I had several appts. that cancelled due to the storm.  Communication goes both ways.  I sent emails out before the darn thing even started asking my 'friends' if they would still be able to make it.  

Don't worry about this and keep smiling.  

Best, Betty

You are messing up my day.  Yes, life isn't perfect and things get in the way at times on the best laid plans unfortunately...

We all need to be more understanding that sometimes things don't go pefect or as planned and that sometimes things happen. Let's all just show each other respect and know that sometimes things get in the way.

Darn weather that got in the way. At least you were truthful and trying to do the right thing.

As the saying goes we always learn something new everyday, so glad this post was helpful for you.

I am sorry, you are blocked, as I would otherwise suggest making things right with whatever lady and hear her side. Maybe somehow things got heated and blown out of porportion or taken out of context when emotions and feelings got involved.

I think it is great you are willing to see different perspectives. Do what you can and then move on. That is all you can do. Best wishes...