Washington DC

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iconaclassic 42 Reviews 545 reads
posted
1 / 7

I'm dealing with a similar situation- I went back home, and ran into this girl I had an intense crush on in high school- she's still stunning, and looks like she's in her early 20s.  Since then, we've been flirtatiously texting/facebooking, and had a few phone calls...the vibe is perfect, and she makes me feel like a high schooler, only much less awkward lol...no physical contact as of yet, but our chemistry is unreal.  For sone reason, I think that going "there" with her would be worse than hobbying

TheDollarMenu 637 reads
posted
2 / 7

Good morning my friend, I've dated, still do, many civvie women. The part about the hobby that I like most is the no strings attached, and it is less expensive. You don't need to call them, say hello, and deal with their personal lives.

The first reason why a civvie girl will cheat on her boyfriend is for the money. If she is living with some dude that can't even take her to dinner, fill up the fridge, pay the rent, have a car, or take her out, then she will cheat on him. I've been with many civvie girls that cheated on their boyfriend and they told me that their current boyfriend does not have these types of resources. There is a reason why some men have nice cars and big houses, its not for them, its for the girls that they want to show them to so they can have sex with. Yes, girls will cheat on their boyfriend if they see a guy that is economically stable.  

The second reason why a civvie girl will cheat on her boyfriend is if the guy is very good looking. If her boyfriend is taking care of her economically but looks like someone just smacked him in the face with the ugly stick, then she will cheat on him with a more good looking guy for the experience. I've been with many girls that have cheated on their boyfriend and they always told me they slept with a hotter guy, because, obviously he's hotter. So, if your a good looking guy that can go to the bar or whatever and pick up any girls you want, then kudos to you.

The third and final reason why a girl will cheat on her man is because she is simply unsatisfied with the relationship and want to get out and start a new one. Either she is emotionally unsatisfied, not satisfied with how the boyfriend treats her, or something like that. If you treat her well, better than her boyfriend, she will have sex with you.

Okay, now you know the three reasons why a girl would cheat on her boyfriend. However, you should also know this part. Dating civvie girls is very EXPENSIVE, more expensive that seeing escorts. Not only is it expensive, financially, it is also very time consuming. I will give you an example, I've dated a few civvie girls. In one month, one civvie girl called me and I had to take care of some of her "responsibilities", whatever that may be. Those types of "responsibilities" will add up and by the end of the money, you just blew a few K's, and that money wasn't even for sex, but it was for "responsibility" purposes only. If you would have spent a few K's, can you imagine how many escorts you would see in a month?

As for seeing a civvie girl, it is very time consuming. If you work, then you know that you will be tired after work. Well, you have to take time out of your schedule so you can take her out to dinner or whatever. Hang out, and do all of the "other" stuff. Do you have that kind of time? The last part, you have to deal with their personal lives. You will get an ear full and sometimes you just sit there and you have to listen. Are you ready for that?  

See, the thing about civvie girls is, you will get free pussy, all the free pussy you want. However, when they call, its always something that YOU will have to do. It's never something that they have to do, but YOU will have to do.  

The thing about escorts I like most is, I pay them to leave me the hell alone after I'm done. I don't want to deal with their personal lives. Good luck and have a fantastic weekend my friend from VA. Oh, by the way, one part I like most is when you have sex with a civvie girl, she will do basically anything you want her to do. She'll even do things for you that she won't do for her boyfriend if you treat her well. Also, you have to hear how much her boyfriend sucks ass, LMAO. Good day my friend.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 387 reads
posted
3 / 7

because of the lines that you have drawn for yourself. You are justifying your hobbying as an OK activity because you have convinced yourself that as long as you are not getting involved with the woman, or women, having strange ass every now and again is absolutely OK.  In my books you are fine, and most people on the board will pat you on the back and give you an "attaboy". However, people outside of this community will look down on you..    

Some, mostly people outside of the community, may make a case that its OK to have an affair with a women, but there's no justification for having sex with hookers.. In my books you are still fine, as long as you are not hurting anyone...

The Bible Thumpers might tell you are you are absolutely going to burn in hell for breaking your vows...

It all depends on what you want, and what is your own value system...

Perhaps some introspection on your part is due....

Just my twelve cents.. (that's two cents adjusted for inflation..)

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 320 reads
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4 / 7
Tall6969 45 Reviews 426 reads
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5 / 7

I shy away because civi unfaithfullness has too many boobie traps.  I wish I could find a civi women to have some NSA, side sex with.  But whenever the opportunity presents itself I see too many reminders of why I pay women for sex.  Unless you're considering leaving your wife one day be very careful.  IMHO the civi sex can spiral out of control pretty fast.  After a few rolls in the hay then her, or even you will start talking about so where is this going?  You gonna leave your SO and we get togther?  OR, your sex turns into therapy sessions.  I guess that would be OK if that's what you're looking for and/or are comfortable with engaging in.

Like I said, if I could find a civi tomorrow who was well adjusted, sane, and stable enough to handle the real point of our relationship which is "bucket-naked-hot-as-July-NSA-sex" then I'm in IMMEDIATELY.

Since she will not be back to DC till next summer the flame and intensity may die down.  But for now sounds like to me the distance and the fences put up by your real lives is fueling the flames.  But if you two were to ever be in each other presence for an extended time period and fuck a couple of times reality will creep in and remind you both of how much a mistake this was.  Then the guilt, then the....well you know what comes next.....more inconvenience and pain than it was worth.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 318 reads
posted
6 / 7

And sometimes the passion and intensity of civvie relationship outdoes the the excitement of finding new pay for play pussy, which only takes a few clicks, and a short trip to the ATM.  

Looking back, I don't regret my mistakes in life as much as I regret some of the missed opportunities..

Just sayin'.

Orlimar 62 Reviews 505 reads
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7 / 7

Very well said ... the most interesting addition I would make to the list is the girls who simply want to fuck multiple men.  As with guys, there are plenty of girls out there who are not satisfied with one man as a lover -- they want more.  IMHO those can be the fun ones because they only want NSA.

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