Looking at this girl's website. Currently, she charges $400. Her P411 website says she give 50$ off for p411 members, but it is not indicated on her personal website. Should I let her know beforehand about the p411 discount or do I just give her  the discounted price after the session?

If she's an independent I'd safely assume she puts her own site together (at least controls the content) if someone updates it for her or w/e), basically nothing would be on it without her okay. When I put things on my website I expect and hope guys will read it and if they are certain clients eligible for certain discounts that if they take them then "it is what it is" or I wouldn't offer. If she hasn't asked just inform her you are an p411 member......so....if she sees the $350 she won't be surprised. And if she's still miffed well then she shouldn't offer the discount expecting no one to ever partake in it. I don't list the discount given on my site (I do on p411 for example though) but if they see one applies to them after reading my FAQ's they simply ask what it is. If they've contacted me thru p411 or included that in pm/email they are a member I make them aware of the discount if they choose to take it.

So, she probably did, at one time, have a discount available only to P411 members. But if she did not list this same discount on her website, she may have forgotten to take the P411 discount down. Before you short her, let her know you have seen the P411 price. She will probably still honor it and take the mistaken discount down immediately. Can't speak for her specifically, but my P411 discount is $50 off and it is listed and offered on my P411 page and my website.

if I were not a P411 member and had not seen her on that website, I would not have gotten a discount? lol. Why is that? You don't think it is messed up?

no, it's not messed up because:

a) it's her right to do whatever the heck she wants to

...and...

b) a guy being on P411 means he's already been screened, and if he has provider okays there it's even better for him and for the provider, so it makes screening easier on her end and should make her less nervous.....less hassle means it's completely fair to lower her consideration

heinous

And ask her if the discount still applies.

If you are not a member then forget it.

I do the same thing. Discount for P411 members, but only list it on P411. I don't list it on my regular site because it's for P411 members. So... in reality other guys don't need to see it. Nothing against them, but why tease them with a discount they cannot use.

But be sure to tell her in advance. Just contact her either thru P411 or with your P411 ID and say "I would like to use the discount you listed on P411." Pretty simple and keeps everyone in the know.


Kisses,
Vanica Love

a crappier performance (ie no GFE) if I ask for a discount. Then, I have to go tell everyone how crappy she was and so on, which I don't like to do... Man, a no win situation, I think...ahha