As the titles states, there is always two sides to a story. Because TER is about confidentiality, then I have to limit my information. If a provider tells you something, then please do not make your final evaluations based on what the provider has told you. Yes, she is so nice to you. But do not forget that you're paying her for sex and you do not know jack shit about what's going on in her personal life and everything else. You only get to see her when your PAYING for her time. So, during that hour, some information may be exchanged and rumors spread. Do you see her regularly if you don't pay her for her time? That is my question to you. So, why would you believe everything a provider has told you?

She is there to make you feel good, mentally and physically. When you ask her how everything is going and she's telling you "not so great and ..... because ......" then great. Just take it as is and do not make any final evaluations based on assumptions. Especially when it deals with another person. Things turned sour with me and this one particular provider but it was a while ago. She's now spreading rumors about me and some guys (hobbyist) are dumb enough to believe it. That's totally insane.

In my first paragraph I emphasized professional time and personal time. You pay her for her professional time and do not know her personally. Despite the things she have told you while your with her for that hour. You do not know the other side of the story so why believe everything she tells you? Because she was so nice to you during that hour? Its her job to do that and do not forget that. You'll be surprised at her personal lifestyle and choices if you actually knew her personally. You may even be disgusted. She post ads but those ads are an illusion or the opposite to her personal lifestyle. All you get to see is her professional side and hear things that you think may be true.

I've "talked" to the other guys because I will not be discredited about who I am. You can believe me or not believe me but I am a very nice and generous guy. I'm really fair and treat these ladies really well. There's a reason why some of these ladies invite me to their personal lifestyle because of who I am as a person. However, do not forget that I am a straightforward guy and I didn't get this way for not being who I am. I do not sugarcoat things and will tell you (provider) if you have deficiencies. You can either fix it or you don't. If you don't, then that's your choice. You only learn if someone evaluates and criticize your errors. If you cannot take criticism, then that's your choice. But I'll be damn if you're spreading rumors about me.

Some of you may think this thread is pointless, has no purpose, and does make any sense. However, it does make sense for the few guys that I've actually "spoken" too. It also make sense to that one particular provider that may read this. You know who you are.

Sounds like a bunch of crying!

If you are so straight forward why post under your alias? If you have nothing to hide why hide who you are? It's confusing and contradicts what you are saying.

Everyone has issues. Many providers and hobbiests have things going on that brought us here. This is a place for fantasy. If I wanted drama and stress I would deal with work and a civilian relationship

And it would seem that some of his advice had been proffered to you just a few days ago on another board, namely the part about hearing both sides of the story.

He is speaking with direct knowledge, and not gossiping either, unlike your thread.

People, not all, lie here. My view is if its a ladies business model to lie, community is served by knowing by pm or ptherwise.

You are not doing yourself any favor by posting half-assed post (for lack of a better word)

Unless you provide us with "Who, What,Where, When and How", from your real handle (not alias), your post has no credibility.  I sort of have an idea what you might be talking about, but speculating on what I believe, might be just inviting more gossip - which I clearly don't want to do.  

I know that there are restrictions on how much you can post in public, when the a good chunk of conversation has happened in private, but in that case why post anything at all?

things can (relatively rarely) go wrong. a few providers (or their more fanatic WK clients) can try to run you off by spreading disinformation. most effective is to wrap the lie around a kernel of truth.

it is good to have an occasional story like yours to remind us all that things can get crazy. the best remedy is to step back and move on. the other side has more 'skin' in the game. the ladies, since its their livelihood. WK fans, because they are competing for time slots and other favors.

peace. the best thing you can do is give it a rest. that is easier to say than it is to follow, but there it is.

IMHO These types of threads should be automatically deleted...  

Posting under an alias, anonymous rhetoric that should be left for your friends in your head, serves no purpose...

I only believe in moderating something that exposes personal info..

If OP, whoever he is, wants to make an ass out of himself by posting asinine shit, he has all the right to.. Don't you think?

Is this the same provider who tried to blackmail you in your last rant? LMAO.

What amazing clockwork..

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CurlyW - for sure, but this shit is getting stupid...  

I'm all about the 1st amendment, however when people post vague stuff like this and we post that it is "asinine" as you put it, all it does is cause a stupid soap opera about nothing... so for me, I would rather it just be deleted

If I posted on all my "WTF" moments, I would probably not have time to fuck....

To put it as blunt as I can,  

I come to this board and hobby so I don't have to deal with the idiosyncrasies of female drama... at my age I know this is close to impossible to completely avoid, but I try..

Here's a feel good moment for you...

Enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBmFwKH5bVY

the provider's sob story, I won't get into it aside from saying that you missed the finer points of equality and objectivity by relaying your pillow talk. Just because you didn't name the players doesn't make you any less of a gossip queen and had you named the provider or hobbyist I would be calling you a white knight.

People really talk that much and personally know each other from here?! Enough for there to be a rumor mill between provider to hobbiest, then hobbiest to provider, and so on? What a clownshit crazy (pardon me), backwards dimension to this microcosm. Can we just try to keep the fun in this place A LITTLE?

as I've enjoyed and learned from his reviews in the past.  But the fact of the matter is that there are two sides to the story, and his very odd "rant" here only serves to confirm the other side of the story, which is that our friend here (OP) has gone off the deep end.

Being one of the guys that he has "contacted directly", I'm surprised he chose to post anon rather than just drop it and back off like I suggested.

For anyone wondering about the back story to this sad anon rant, it's just another tired version of hobbyist falls for provider, provider tries to handle it professionally, and then hobbyist gets very sketchy.

First and foremost, I don't mix love into this hobby. It's strickly fucking. If I wanted love, this ain't the place to do it. Sorry, but your confusing me with someone else. And I may know who your talking about too. She starts with a "K" right? Or am I wrong. Either way, I'm not who you think I am.