Do you thing you have more married clients than single ones?  Why do you think married clients come to you instead of doing the same things with their wives?

I can only speak for myself. I am married and my wife is in her late 50's and no longer has any interest in having sex with me or any other man or woman for that matter. She has a mumber of physical and emotional problems. Shs has left that part of her life behind her. I stay married for the sake of my kids and other things that the marriage brings us. My kids are adopted and still young. If my kids were older I would be on the road to divorce. But for now jerking off for the past 5 years just does not cut it any more so I started to hobby. Not proud of what I do but for now it is the path I have chosen.

Most men still love their wives but they have no sexual chemistry.
Other men say they do it because they work so hard and dont have time/energy to date.
Its much easier to pay for play than to date and *hope for play

For the life of me I cant understand why women get mad at husbands for "cheating" when they(wife) arent interested in sex.  

thanks for the reply, I know I am not alone. Love the name as well, Ivanahumpalot also.

Something happened at  menopause and its never been the same for my wife in terms of sex.  Its a diversion that honestly keeps me from getting cranky and frustrated---at least until I can golf again

I'm single and dont even have GF yet..

But..I do this hobby because I love adult fun and its very hard to find SINGLE HONRY MILFs on civic world...lol!!

Also..I just cant imagine if my wife dont wanna have sex with me because any reasons...It will be the end of the world..

Where can I find horny MILFs on public??

Recently I asked two popular providers on separate occasions what percentage of their clients were married.  Each one said, in so many words, "about 70%."  One added that 15% are divorced.  They didn't offer explanations, but the usual ones seems pretty iron clad and plausible to me.

Why is it okay for your wife to pay $3/400 for a spa day

Why is it okay for her to have a mans hands rubbing all over her oiled up naked body for her pleasure.

Are not all that rare to find. We women are just like you, wanting hot steamy passionate animalistic sex with out all of the emotional kayos. Unfortunately it is just not that easy to find, society is not ready for us to wear our sexuality on our sleeves, but I digress I love sex and reserve the right to have it where ever and with whomever I please. I love sex with men, I love sex with women, I am even exploring sex with the 3rd sex. I just love getting off and I know I'm not the only attractive middle aged woman that feels that way. I refuse to be sexually repressed, and if I find myself in a relationship with someone I can't seem to be intimate with, I move on. No need for us both to live a lie.

Fortunately there are women out there that can leave all the emotional entanglements at the door, meet for a discrete liaison and part company on amicable terms, and MAYBE, if the sex was above average, I'll call you back.

I JUST love providers!

Thank you ladies!

Personally, I only got into the hobby because I was bored and my dating life was down the tubes.  

I have a GF now, I'm happy, and to be honest, I haven't made one appointment with a provider since we got together because quite frankly, I love her, and with things going so well, I don't need to be with any other woman in any kind of physical capacity.  I still read reviews & look at ads and stuff, but no harm in looking right?

I can't speak for married men though.  My guess is they either get bored after all those years with one person, or they just get so stressed out with work & taking care of the family that they need a release.

I would also guest 70% of hobbyist are married.

I know what you mean, my wife spend over $200 just to get her hair cut and colored.

What happens after 10 to 15 yrs of married life and she is no longer interested in "any kind of physical capacity" with you or any other man or woman. This is why we hobby. I am not saying it's right but it's what we do.

For the life of me I cant understand why women get mad at husbands for "cheating" when they(wife) arent interested in sex.

My situation is similar to everyone's, however, I thing that when a wife becomes physically, emotionally, psychologically, or whatever uninterested in sex, that's a form of cheating on the husband.  Unless, of course it is something completely beyond the wife's control.  Part of the committment to marriage is a physical realtionship just as much as fidelity.

Exactly what I was thinking when I was still married!..

Getting married for sex is like buying an airplane ticket for thee free pack of pretzels and soda...
And yet in my experience, if it is not based on full on love right away, the marriage can easily break even many years later.

instead of helping with the kids because they were wealthy and thought the nice house and car and things were all they should supply.
Sex withholding can mean your relationship is really screwed up.
Seeing a hot professional can help you get your confidence back and find out how to repair your relationship that you have neglected even by accident.
I have had to teach clients how to date their wives and help withe the kids so she even has any energy at all to have a horny thought.

Maybe guys thought their extra weight doesn't matter and she is turned off or maybe she won't execize and is out of shape and he's turned off.

Alot of guys would rather pay than do what it took at home to get his wife in the sack.
Many just don't know how to be a husband and a father at the same time plus work.
Many men do not know how to understand what their wives tell them.

Many men have told me, "that's what my wife says".
For some reason he understands when I say it.
I have also followed up with customers to make sure the dates went through and that they were able to step into the father role and pull their weight at home.
The wives went for it.

Some men and women are in failed relationships but are still raising children.
They come to me because they don't have anyone else and they need discretion and respect for their families instead of being a cheater and everyone getting hurt ( setting a bad example, breaking hearts-civvie cheating , messy divorce).
As long as there is no abuse then they can leave the wife alone and by the time homework, sports, dinner there shouldn't be time for fighting and arguing with the wife.
They can just focus on their kids and have discreet ways to meet their needs and relieve stress in stead of splitting up the family.
Some men love their wives deeply but her sex drive has expired.
He doesn't want to bother/burden her with it.
He just wants to get his needs met and go home to his beloved wife and make her happy by not pressuring her and just enjoying his love for her.

Some men think marriage means his wife is now his live in hooker who now owes him blow jobs on demand.
They get it twisted and should go to a whore if he wants to treat a woman like a whore/sex servant.

Men don't marry for sex.
So they often marry women who are not really a good match for them sexually.

He doesn't love his wife any less if he has sex with a professional.
I believe in P4P but NOT cheating and outside relationships.

Many wives won't wear the outfits/ lingerie/heels and dance and seduce.
Many married men want those things and save the sex for their wives.

It is really important for women for many women to have this.
 I can agree with the analogy and how you really need your "hair did" ( a sesssion).lol

After 20 years, I'm still deeply in love with my wife.  Unfortunately, our interactions just don't extend to the kind of bedroom play we once enjoyed.  We haven't had sex in 11 months, and before that it was a year and a half.  Somehow menopause has snuffed out any interest  on her part altogether.  While I only find time and opportunity (like when she travels) once or twice a year, the hobby provides the pleasure and comfort I would otherwise do without, unless I had an affair, which would put everything at tremendous risk, and take up even more of my time and energy.  For now, infrequent hobby excursions, or the long anticipation of those to come, will keep me sane.

The reason I jumped into this hobby was because my dating life really never took off. I am in my late 20s and have never really had any girlfriend. I guess women really don't find me desirable - physically speaking. One time a very popular provider, who ended up becoming a good friend, told me that I was just too nice a person to get past the initial hurdles of the relationship. Most women, she said, fall for mean guys, and I was just too nice with everyone. I don't know...I said. Never had a relationship, but point well taken. I will definitely not hobby if I find a girl who loves me and sex .  I just can't lie to another person, pretend to be in love, for sex. I feel that hobbying is an honest way of getting what I want without hurting myself or the other person. And since I can afford it, why not?!?!

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+1 m4g...wife had early menopause, and 2 bouts with breast cancer meant no hormone replacement. Zero interest in sex anymore. I was a good boy for over 10 years before deciding I could reconcile my continued love for her with my need for this outlet.

... how the discussion has promptly shifted from the OP's question -
"Do you thing you have more married clients than single ones?  Why do you think married clients come to you instead of doing the same things with their wives?" -
to rather:
"Why do you hobby?.." ?

My wife didn't like DATY.

Guilty as charged.

1. Forget they made marriage vows to only be with wife.

2. Wife gained too much weight and can't do certain sex positions.

3. Wife won't allow daty.

4. Wife won't do greek.

5. Wife did not give it up a few times and guy looks for fun some where else.

I hope you enjoy yourself and also that you get a great lady one day because you deserve it.

who is wise and compassionate.

Best of luck and hope you have some more fun soon.

Good thing I suck dick good enough to get out of that one.
I can't stand men to daty.
I like girls for that-Nice soft hairless lips, mouths and chins.
I would let my hubby eat some pussy if he really had to have it-geesh, just not mine.lol

I have to agree with this guy. No DATY in my house. So I have to go elsewhere for that and since Im there I might as well go for the rest of it too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'd say, "here Honey, here's your Xmas whoring money. Go get your greek on."
The cool thing about sugardadies or hubbies is that sex for money is totally legal at that point.
You can just say if you want abc I want $$$.

But your reviews say differently...