Question for the ladies. Do you prefer when a gentleman shows up dressed for success or wearing casual street clothes? I have a 9-5 where I have to look professional but I am much more comfortable dressing down. I'm a firm believer that attractiveness is 50% confidence and I personally am more confident when I'm wearing clothes that I feel more comfortable in.  
So tell me, as a provider, are you disappointed when you open the door and a guy is wearing jeans, a tshirt, and a baseball hat? Thoughts?

C"MON MAN.. This shit ain't hard...

I was 22 when I started hobbying and this question never crossed my mind once...

If you are staying in, wear whatever you are comfortable with. If you are going out with her, dress for the place where you are taking her..

Are you taking her to MickyD's or are you taking her to an expensive Steak House.. I hope its latter...

But C'MON MAN..

And when in doubt, always dress like Borat...

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hatever makes you feel really comfortable is what you should wear. I definately love a man in a nice fitting suit of quality, not JUST a suit. But, than again, some of my most favorite memories is the guy in the track suit or the jeans and the white t-shirt. Seems like the time went too fast and I felt like I was with a buddy. Whatever outfit makes you shine and able to relax (lol, NOT SPANDEX)
please wear it. We can feel when you are comfortable and that in turn makes us comfortable

have to agree..this new generation of hobbyists worry about all this silly shit..half of them worry about what shirt they are going to wear and forget about cleaning their ass..the ladies do have their priorities..shirts aint one of them..

I'm just bored tryin to make conversation with the girls bud. Wasnt really looking for fashion tips from some old dude, but thanks for the l lol.  
I'm just bustin balls man. I was talking more like what a chick would rather see a dude in when he shows up for the one hour romp as opposed to what to wear to McDonalds!

Alight. Truth be told, I was fishing for a provider who is into dudes who like me

I bet you walked uphill both ways to school, right?  
Relax bud.  
Now you see why I wrote "question for the ladies"

the better you look to me!  Self-confidence is the sexiest thing anyone can wear & I, for one, love sexy!

This is a terrific question, thank you for asking!

I like my gentlemen to show up happy. Whether this be suit, or casual - happiness is key. If you come to spend time with me, and don't feel like comfortable - it's going to show through in your mood, your confidence (which you're right - confidence IS important) and your attitude overall.  Now - those clothes don't usually stay on too long, but if you start an appointment feeling less than confident in yourself - it's usually harder to break out of.  

That being said, there IS a difference between casual street clothes and not appropriate. For example I had a client show up once literally wearing sweat pants, and a t-shirt covered in oil and grease. This was VERY unattractive, and definitely threw off the whole mood of the appointment.  

So I guess my point is - show up happy and comfortable - just make sure you're clean and presentable  

Xoxo
Shelby

LOL - Definitely NOT Spandex!!

.... Unless it's dressing like Borat!!

I like gents to feel comfy in whatever they're wearing and in the mood to have a good time. It's true that it's important to come dressed cleanly, and appropriately for the evening if we'll be going out, in the same way that a gent would expect a lady to be. Thus far I've never had any issues with this, and I've had equally great dates with men who arrived both dressed casually and in a full business suit.  

But if you show up in nothing but a lime green man-thong... I might not open the door hehe!

For the feedback ladies!

businessman look would also serve the same purpose.

You don't like green?  

I would dress impeccably for you, lovely Mackenzie.

Unless I’m hosting, I always dress similar to everyone else at her location.  I would research her location before I come.  There are so many times when I was waiting for my appointment at ladies’ blue collar apartment, I can see guys would come out with suit.  I can tell he’s not living there or belong there.  I would dress the low profile and not getting any attention to me.    This would apply for car as well.  If you’re driving a Lamborghini to her average apartment, you would get the neighbor’s attention. Everything I do is around safety.