We all need to play safe, stay happy and just leave the drama elsewhere. If a lady confides in you about anything at all keep that to yourself. It is unfortunate when a guy tells me other providers names. There is a reason we all have stage names. We all need to take more care and concern with each other.

Discreet pleasures!

I tend to forget those " real " names pretty quickly after learning them.....lol  
Getting older does have its advantages , I guess.

Sunday on an extended date the gentleman drop 3 different ladies real first names and when my face was like "huh" he said... " oh, you know them by ***,***,***".... then he asked for my real name HA-HA-HA- I think the F* NOT!

Why are these providers giving up there personal information? I never ask and can't recall the last time a provider gave it out freely.

How do these men even know the names of providers. I have never asked nor expected that a provider would provide their real name.  Maybe they are "puffing" as you indicated to bolster their image.

I take pride in respecting people's privacy and discretion and if ANY of my information leaks during our session, I expect the same in return. I never repeat or discuss anyone's information UNLESS, someone allows me to share it with a provider to verify a reference. Other than that, I treat identities golden. I feel if a gentleman is giving me his info is because he trust that I will practice confidentiality... and if I ever reveal who I am... please respect my privacy in return.  

Great message BUT and a very big BUT; it works both ways.  Once,  I made the mistake of giving my "real" first name to a provider that  then went on to share it with everyone that contacted her for screening.  Lucky for me I was on the same page as "JULIA" and had given a fake real name.  It still creeped me out and had me thinking that other personal info was very likely floating around.  We sometimes forget our conversational slips of the tongue.

What part of STFU do these people not understand?!