I saw this on an escort's site:

"Lastly, always tip your Escort, even if it's a minor amount. Everyone likes to be told they are doing a great job and this gesture, if even $10, makes a world of difference.Well, there you have it. I promise you if you follow these simple suggestions you will never have a problem contacting an Escort, setting up an appointment..."

I tip occasionally but generally not, and there's no real rhyme or reason to it.  I don't really think about, just dropped the tip in the bathroom or someplace she'll be sure to see as I walk out.  And it's always significantly more than $10.  At this provider's level ($$$$$) $10 just seems unnecessary and a little insulting to her.  Or maybe she expects no one would give just $10 and make "a world of difference"; that's a little devious if true.

On the other hand, I remember working as a waiter and expecting a tip, only because my salary was below minimum wage and the gap was legally fulfilled by tips.  And I consistently tip service people like a ski instructor.  Other than the size of the donation (I'm not paying $$$$$ to brush up on my skiing - that's just not going to happen), is it any different?

So what's the conventional wisdom on this?  Is it universally expected and what are the rules?  And do you include it in the envelope a priori?  What's the norm?  10%, 20%, $10?  Do you hand it to her and thank her for rendering a great service, as if to a ski instructor?  Now I'm thinking I should have tip some friends with whom I had a better-than-expected time.

Don't PM me about who's site it is, that's not the point.  And don't post something indignant, that's not the point either

find the cliche' to be true: the best tip a gentleman can give a lady is a return visit.  

Hugs and Kisses,
Kell

am spoiled with gifts, champagne bottles, tips (always in the envelop and never dscussed or pointed out to me) and I am so very grateful . It tells me I am doing something right.  

On the other hand, I am known for really taking care of my special friends, although I could just "deliver the service" couldnt I .  

my point is that a special date takes place, when both parties give their best, regardless as to what is given.  

Serena x

Everyone is entitled to their opinion so if she thinks a tip is required  then she should do her best to get it but that doesn’t mean I have to agree or comply.  
While I do tip I don’t consider it mandatory and I only tip when a person goes above and beyond what’s expected. It’s always at least 15%, IMHO anything less would be insulting. I can just imagine the reaction to “Wow! That was great! Here’s $10, get yourself a cup of coffee on me!”.

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...posts, I have read on the subject.  Thank you for sharing the link.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

I've only felt compelled to tip twice...One time the provider went above and beyond to help me out. Anyone in her shoes would have just turned a blind eye. The 2nd time, a provider whom I had seen about half a dozen times, texts me and offers me a appointment at 50% discount - just because she needed to make money to cover her rent. I gave her full amount.  

It was more of a gesture of friendship, and I "never" use the term lightly, than a gratuity for a job well done.  

I firmly believe that tipping is not for highly paid individuals. Just like I won't tip my doctor, lawyer, or CPA, who make 100s of Dollars per hour, I won't tip providers.  

The fact that someone would feel entitled for getting tipped is a good testament as to where we are heading as a society.  

Really !!! You feel entitled to a tip.. 10 bucks...Really?

absolutely never expected although definitely appreciated.  Other then the donation, the only other thing expected is a smile from you at the door, on your way in and on your way out!

.....this business as independents we get to set our own rates so well more-or-less if we feel undercharged then it's our own responsibility to raise them to what we think we at the minimum deserve (tip included).  

Our situation imo is not the same as nor really comparable to a server working for 2 to 3 bucks an hr where their livelihood usually truly depends on tips/"extras".

*edit their not there lol*

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Great post Lamont but the better question is WHO THE HELL IS SHE???? Good lord she is hot! Where do you continually find these stunners to add to your posts! Well done!

She is Dorotea Zorić, second runner-up Miss Universe Croatian pageant

1) That she met the requests that I made before the appointment. Usually, no smoking prior to the session, no spearmint, answering the door naked (for repeat visits).

2) That she did her homework and made an effort to personalize the meeting (repeat visits). For example: I recently had a second appointment with an Independent DC girl. She told me that she remembered how much I loved DATO with her the first time that she got waxed and bleached just for our appointment.  

3) Some overlooked things like she did not make me wait in the parking lot for the room text, she surprised me by jumping in the shower with me, that she grabbed a clean towel and wiped me down after I Ejaculated. I truly appreciate these.

 
I usually tip 66% of the time  Nothing big but a few $20s is usually the case.

I usually tip if I get a "deal", which is dumb because it ends up equating to the usual donation  

I believe in the "appreciated but not required" approach.  I also think that people appreciate recognition, even if it's nominal (but not so trivial as to be insulting).

I rarely go to an encounter empty-handed.  I like to bring wine that I believe the provider will like based on my research, even if we do not open it.  I may provide the gift in a cute card, rather than a plain envelope.  I may bring a Starbucks or iTunes card.  I may bring artisanal chocolates.  On a couple of occasions, I've made donations to a certain charity.  I want the date to start off well, so I like to woman to know that I thought about her and brought a little something extra.  Ideally, the gift will be to her liking.  Generally, I have not tipped beyond the gift.  The exceptions have been when the session ran long by 50% or so.

I appreciate the responses on this, and feel I have a better grip on this profession.  And by "profession" I apologize to those who feel this is some kind of spiritual odyssey for all participants.  That, to me, is called a GF, which a GFE tries to emulate ;P

I'll try to summarize my interpretation:

This is a high-fee business in line with other high-fee professionals.  Those who perform at these rates thrive; those who don't find another line of work.  You don't tip a doctor for a good procedure but you certainly don't recommend a bad doctor.  The good doctor has set his/her fee based on well-known performance parameters.  If the performance is high, the fee is high.  The bad doctor will slowly lose clients and either find another profession or reduce his rates (is there a BP for Dr's?)

Now, there are certain situations where a gratuity is considered judicious: off-hours, schedule changes, personalized service, emotional connection.  I understand that.  And I understand it will be more difficult for a "trouble" client to re-book without some kind of supplemental good-will to mend things.  And I understand an introductory gift - in some countries, every time you meet someone for the first time you exchange gifts.

But I'm going to hold off on gratuties outside of those parameters.  Thanks for the advice!  And I think I will avoid the provider who started me thinking about this whole "tip" business.

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