I am probably being silly but here goes:

I don't get to participate in the hobby very often.  When I do, and I have a nice experience, there is a spring in my step for a month.


There is a PV provider, formerly of Hallogen now independent that I usually see.  She is lovely but a shade reserved.  Lots of non full service options are simply not on the table.   No kissing, no BJ no dirty talk.  Even when doing a friendly hug (Clothed) she pulls her hips.  A BJ? I would be thrilled if she just kissed it a little.  But she is very pretty.

She at times shares space with other girls, one of whom has caught my attention big time in a TER review.  

My regular girl handles the phones.  Would it be rude to enquire about the other girl.  I am loathe not to identify myself because it does give me some credibility.

How do I say “If I’m going to see you again I want you to be more giving.  Otherwise I want your friend.  She probably does not offer those things either but at least it would be fresh territory”

I like to be polite!

Well, most providers are not available ALL the time and suggesting another provider when busy is common. So jealousy and such may not be a factor. But if I were you, I would not mention that you are unsatisfied with her. Just say you saw some reviews on her friend and wanted to give it a go out of curiousity. If she is as classy as you say, she will probably think nothing of it and give you the thumbs up.
Good Luck,
Vanica

These girls are in a business. I have had the same scenario before. You know what you usually get by being polite to your FAV? She will tell you "oh you will really like her" and move on with the business.

Warning: If the other beauty is anything like your ATF, who gives no BJ period and no kissing etc, don't you think her friend may offer the same limited menu?

It's just me, but I would have moved on already, and not bother with an associate of the same ilk.

Life is too short, If the young ladie won't do what you want move on. There are a lot of providers out there that will work hard to please you with a true GFE. That what the hobby is all about "you enjoying yourself and giving back a little to the ladies. HAVE FUN

In this business I have learned that variety is a spice of life...With me running Dream Divas and the number of girls I deal with on a day to day basis, I  have learned that a client has the right to see who he wants to see especially when he is spending his money...I have regulars who see the other ladies in the agency, Hell, I have even participated in some of the sessions....But truly that defines a provider with class...One who respects clients right to choose and accepts that sometimes things do run their courses....

...that you like and does everything you want etc. don't forget to reward her.

I still feel funny seeing someone who shares an incall with another provider -- particularly if both happen to be there at the same time.  Sounds like you need to do a couple of things:  First, check out the review section and get yourself a blowjob from someone else.  Then call lady #1 and politely ask her about the other lady you'd like to see.  If she's helpful, you're golden.  If not, well, at least you got what it sounds like you really wanted anyway.

P.S.  And just look at all the friendly help you're getting from some of the finest ladies here already!

Thanks to everybody who replied.  I realize how silly I am being. My regular girl may be beautiful to me but I am a routine customer to her.
I feel comfortable now, enquiring about the other lady.  In fact it might be fun to ask a few intimate questions about her.  "How much does she shave""How big are her nipples", that sort of thing.
Thanks again! If I like the new girl I will share!