When you get emotions for a provider or a provider get them for you how do you handle that problem or is it a problem?

I met one provider and always had a good time she moved out to state and I believe is retired.

I would guess if your in the business for a while your going to come across someone whose company you enjoy.

Having the opportunities to meet and get to know these terrific ladies will very likely lead you to ATFs who's company you really enjoy......an issue for both providers and the ladies they admire.

Of course doing so in the context of the hobby is unique but just like in any human relationship, the best way to deal with those feeling and each other is the big C word.....open communication between one another.

on an emotional and / or intellectual level as well as physical

see her often. Not too often to wear it out, or to wear on the lady

treat he well. Show appreciation

be open to possibilities

BUT

*remember* that as long as the envelope is not happening, it's business - not personal.

Of *course* it *feels* personal - it's supposed to lol

but who says you cannot mix business and pleasure?

business and genuine friendship, even if it must be limited by the boundaries inherent in the biz?

Heck - one of the people on my emergecy speed dial, who has keys to my place, is a provider friend.

Provider friends have visited me in hospital. And have accepted comfort and friendship from me as well.

it can be very good. Just don't get carried away and ruin it....

One percent of the time. The horror stories are abundant.
Don't we pay them to go away?

but as someone who has had more than enough experience with this please feel free to PM me.

I have a guy who has feelings..cause he gets upset when I say I have another appt. He says Dont tell me Im not the only one LOL. He is serious too! Hes been there since day one Ive been available and I fond of him as well. I have other like this too and I like them and they like me and we just have fun and enjoy each other. If things get TOO serious I tell them I am here to be paid to leave LOL Now take those pants off!