When I see a lady I like to have a drink or two before, maybe a beer and a shot in hotel lobby.

Then i like to bring some wine to the room.

So that's maybe 4-5 drinks over the course of preparation and session. Not wasted, not drunk, tipsy and maybe talkative.

Question: Does that upset the ladies so long as I am nice and talkative?

Some seem to be fine and even like it.  

Hobby time is a time to relax and have fun so I figure some drinks are in order.

Another Question:

I don't do hard drugs but maybe smoke weed 3-4 times a year.
What about that, because being high you can last longer and cumming feels real good and powerful, lots of food for the mental and physical sensors.  

Not sure I can smoke often for a number of professional and private reasons but wouldnt mind smoking a joint and having some fun once every few months.  So any 420 friendly ladies out there

Some gentlemen can be under the influence of either substance and behave totally fine and sober, and can respond sexually.  Some behave like a**holes and/or cannot get hard with a few drinks in them.  

I personally do not mind a glass of wine on occasion (for myself), but any more than that makes me sleepy and fuzzy headed.  And....while I have tried the other, it is not for me.  I cannot breathe the stuff in, as it hurts my chest, and eating it makes the room spin, and more.  To each his own there, as long as it doesn't effect behavior or performance.