Yes, it is something that I have thought about more than once.
The only evidence, other than online, woud be condoms as I have had a vesectomy and there would be no reason for me to have them. I have to start requesting that my providers have something we both like so I can do away with that. I guess my hobby bank account would be something else, and would be a giveaway that I either had "a women on the side" or a drug issue (I guess it is good that it is women?). Don't really see a solution to that one though. Used to just keep a shit-ton of cash around but that is stupid and have just recently opened a hobby account
Why can't you just take a pack of 3 condoms with you to a session (whichever ones you like.) use one or two, and dump the rest in trash can at her incall.
No need to keep condoms on you, as it would be hard to explain to your wifey why you have condoms around... For, foreroticreview, I would recommend you strawberry flavored... For, va22207va, try watermelon flavored.. :
Hey - already admitted that it was stupid! And something to mitigate this week for sure....
And we won't get into how you may or may not know how various condoms taste. Will leave that horseplay to the hoons over on the General Discussion Board. :-
Great post and definitely something to think about. I have just recently been thinking about getting a prepaid hobby phone that would be kept off and in locked drawer at work. Lately I have been listing the agency number under a different name in my Contacts folder and then deleting the contact and the call history after my dates.
I'm not a fan of hobby phones. I think it immediately leads to suspicion and could create more problems than it solves. My view is that it's better to delete your phone history, and should not have an issue as long as providers don't call at unexpected times (which they should not do)
I'm not a fan of hobby phones. I think it immediately leads to suspicion and could create more problems than it solves. My view is that it's better to delete your phone history, and should not have an issue as long as providers don't call at unexpected times (which they should not do)
the problem with that is what if she checks the bills online and sees "out of town" numbers being called? There is no way to delete what numbers are dialed on the statement.
For those that are married and or have kids, I suggest the following: 1. For sure, get a hobbie (throw away) phone and keep the call history and contacts cleared. Memorize your lady's phone number. 2. Keep the phone out of the house, family car and ect. This one is hard to hide especially if you pass for usually all your personal affects from the office, gym, and ect. are sent back to your home address. 3. Do not leave a paper trail with addresses, directions, and etc!! 4. If you have home PC that is shared by the family, I recommend don't use it and buy a laptop for yourself. Install BitLocker, the average joe cant break into it. There are several softwares on the market that protect your privacy, do your homework for theres alot that are bogus. 5. Dont do it from work, especially if you have a sensitive job, your IT dept monitors everything that comes in and out. 6. Use cash for everything, condoms, gifts, and etc. Be sure to throw away the reciepts and unused condoms before going home. 7. Password protect everything, with strong passwords (special characters, upper and lower case letters, numbers, no sentences or words).
The above list is NOT FOOL proof, but is a good start
then just get the cheapest one you can find (I can get one for $10-$20 plus another $15 for the minutes) and just toss them after each encounter. I think of it as insurance so nobody finds a phone. If you find it a pain to keep getting a new phone number, then just keep the sim card and get the same phone/carrier each time. Just hide the sim card at work when not in use (tape it under a desk) or in your car trunk (lift up the molded/formed carpeting in the trunk. Nobody will find it unless your car gets in a major accident.)
If you are a once a week hobbier, then again find a place in the car trunk/spare tire wheel well/etc to keep it. If no car, think about just having a spare pay-go phone for use by anyone in the family. Then get another one with the same sim card. Throw the second phone away after activating the card. Store the card at work when you have no need of it, and only use it when you swap out the legit one to check email/text/etc. Nothing should be written down on paper (at least until you are out of the house and will not be returnign until after the date). You should already have a hobby email account. Just email yourself any of her contact info, directions, etc. Even the cheapest pay-go phones can access emails like Yahoo, hotmail, etc. for the info you emailed yourself. Sage (Who has done his part to keep the phone sales at AT&T and Virgin higher than normal)
just open an acocunt with one of the "free' online only outfits - yahoo, live, hotmail, etc., then keep data in an email - just composs one with all the relevant data/info, then save it as a draft (or have multiple drafts - ) - and remember your password.
To store you phone, get a box of candy (one of those with candy in plastic compartments, let it age, get moldy, but keep it in a private drawer at work like its just an old box you forgot about - then store you hobby phone taped under the plastic - if you are gone and someone finds it, on look and they see old moldy/melted candy and pitch the box)
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