Is a little silly. You're not generally getting naked and intimate with a bartender. An interaction with one of these special ladies is not something that can be compared to any other service industry interaction
I see alot of guys bragging in post about how great their DATY skills are.
Ladies are there realy that many guys who are great at DATY, or are alot of these guys just bragging with little to back it up?
You wouldn't believe it.
Let's just say, it's a perk
That even though its a job, sometimes it can be fun. Like being a valet. You're working your butt off, and most cars stink of smoke, are dirty, minivans and Prius', and just kind of suck or are 'just a car' but every now and then a Ferrari shows-up and you get to drive it.
I don't understand your response. Do you mean most are good or bad?
Thanks!
The truth is -- that aspect Charlie mentioned is phenomenal. And when I say phenomenal, I mean 90% of my clients, if not more. It is not the occasional Ferrari. It's like a whole dealership of Ferraris.
I don't know if I'm just very very VERY lucky to have such...skilled...clients, or this is the universal experience. I feel it must be pretty universal. I mean, it just seems like everyone knows how to send you to the moon and back, just about.
Where do you guys LEARN this stuff? I mean, does it just come naturally?
I didn't want to say this because I feel like I'd lose business, and that's why I was vague. I mean, why would you want to pay for someone who is clearly having an unforgettable time? Clients would start charging me! It's not supposed to be about me, and I almost feel guilty about it Correction, I do feel guilty.
There is that I came to this, you know, not in my very young years. I was relatively inexperienced. I was married to a guy who thought that aspect was "dirty" and would never do it, or much of anything else. I didn't really know what it was like to be with someone who was "into" it.
So this opened up a whole new world for me. Maybe that has something to with it.
I know three guys who reviewed me are my absolute faves for oral, among other things.
Who knows? Maybe you're also talented at daty.
Yes, I agree it's not planned sometimes it just happens👌🏻.
Y'all dudes can just relax.
Intimacy makes everything better. If you want the absolute best time to be had, don't be timid and shy away from asking us how we like it.
It really makes us warm up to you, and in the long term, there are definitely perks for both sides.
Ask my regular TeaLove
He was a real game changer for me.
I'm pretty sure LonelySailor4Fun will tell y'all the same thing. Mutual interest = Mutual satisfaction.
Most of the time, it isn't even about how you look, it's how you are as a person.
Amber, thoughts like this provide insight into why you are one of the best ever! To me, maybe the very best!!
Just spending a couple of hours together made it easy to see why you are an ATF to so many!
Take care,
D.
Some guys really know what they're doing. Some guys think they know what they're doing. And even if I don't O, that doesn't mean that I don't enjoy the attention.
serious about their hobby. 
Definitely better overall than men I've known otherwise. Also, so very coachable about the little things. Not sure why that is, but it's 100% the case.
....put their face near a pussy (those who use their whole face, actually try to nibble on the clit, try to push the clitoral hood back farther than it should go, go at your clit like they're trying to suck a tapioca ball in a boba tea through a skinny straw etc). That being said always believe you're in that 10% or at least I'll make you believe that.
'K Bye.
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From my experience, some women like their clit liked hard, and some don't. I start off licking it softly, and if she starts to grind her pussy into my face, then I take that as a sign that I'm on the right path. I also like to go in as deep as I can, my tongue with the tip curved up in the form of a g-spot stimulator, to see whether I can actually hit an erogenous zone inside her vaginal channel. My nose will be slightly pressed up against her clit and acts like a finger every so often touching on the inward stroke of the tongue. I have seen leg shaking convulsions with verbally appreciative exclamations, so if you gals are all acting, you get my Oscar vote.
curious if you mind DATY with someone on first visit i.e. do you expect a client to try without prior meetings?
btw, i tend to avoid it until later visits
nothing like BOTH people in the room making an effort to enjoy it.
maybe if some providers didnt lay there like a deaf mute corpse it would change. jus sayin
There are some who are truly unteachable. I'm vocal about what I like and don't. I've encountered quite a few actually get annoyed/offended at my telling them how I like it because they think they're such pussy experts but they have zero clue. Aside from paying attention to body language (if she's giving you physical cues) if she does give you verbal hints ACTUALLY DO WHAT SHE SAYS and don't fuckin' argue with me/her.
This face when I stop you because you're doing something painful to my vagina and i'm trying to teach you what I like is not needed thanks (see gif). Ohhhh other ladies have liked it like that? Yeah well I don't.
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Hey baby, just let me do my thing - its going to blow your mind! Really, you haven't had it like this!
Guys don't stop for directions, they sure as hell aren't going to stop DATY.
LOL
I got spoiled early by a girlfriend who orgasmed with serious contractions, so it was obvious when it happened. Haven't seen that since. Sometimes some minor contractions. Sometimes nothing. With civvies and pros.
So, when I didn't see the contractions, I assumed they were faking. But I came to wonder: Maybe women react differently? Maybe if one experiences sex more than once a day, the result is different?
My conclusion: If she lets it go on, it's good. If she lets it go on for a loooooooong time, it's very good.
If she gets very wet, it's good.
Ladies, am I on the right track
There are variations from wow to volcanic. All of them are good, right? Like pizza. It's all good. Contractions can be little or strong, short or longer, and they also can originate or end in different places throughout that whole...er...region. It is possible to climax w/o contractions. It is possible to have contractions w/o climaxing. It's possible for it to be involuntary apart from sex; for instance, if a woman is frightened, that whole area can contract.
I think the same goes for degree of wetness. Some soak the bed, others hardly any and everything in between. That can depend on the time of the month, hormonal changes, stress, dehydration, medication, other factors. I wouldn't take it personally if things weren't oceanic.
I like oral best when it is combined with a lot of other things -- verbal, stroking, other foreplay, etc. The only thing I don't like about it is going from 0 to 60 mph. It's nice to have a build. Also don't like it to go very very long. It can be too much after a bit. I guess some can handle more, some want less
I think you are right -- most women will clue you in or tell you out right what they want
Thanks, great to hear your perspective.
Long tongue, short tongue, wide tongue or fat tongue? Does size matter?
I never really understood this either....Its like asking a bartender if they are having a good time at a party. Who cares? This is pay-for-play. Do you treat them badly, no. On the other hand,I don't do a song and dance to get the bartender to smile.
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Is a little silly. You're not generally getting naked and intimate with a bartender. An interaction with one of these special ladies is not something that can be compared to any other service industry interaction
Back at you. Whatever it takes to keep up your illusion, brother.
If, when she is with you, work does not feel like work, you'll have a better time. That applies to bartenders as well, I guess
The worst day at golf beats the best day at work...or something like that.
My goal at a party isn't to make the bartender happy, its to get a drink. If you want a provider to have an O, then maybe they should be paying you.
1) If you want to learn how to pleasure a woman orally, great - you have someone with experience to teach you.
2) If you want to extend your session, great, good way of doing it.
3) If you genuinely like DATO, awesome. I like 69, it just feels good.
"That being said always believe you're in that 10% or at least I'll make you believe that.
'K Bye." quote - TrulyMsMocha
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