Its kind of hard to get approved for an account when your so fresh, but Ive also seen threads of people talking about ad sites they go to besides TER. Just wondering specifically about this website. Or a good start for someone new. Thanks

Any one is essential, all 3 are great, but established history on TER with reviews by longstanding estabkshed reviewers is best.

only seen one phony looking ad on P411 not so on BP where you see many

P411 has a terrific screening system and I rely on it heavily when touring in the US - TER comes as a close second as it gives me complementary info.

Don't worry, it is actually quite quick to get approved on P411 once you have managed to create a reputation - thanks to just a few gentlemen who don't mind you not being on there.  

I would be much more in favor of seeing someone if they had even one review from a hobbiest that I knew had been around and I trusted their feedback.  

P411, just tells me information about you and maybe makes me feel for comfortable that your not going to rip me off, but a trusted review is going to make me pull the trigger to come see you much quicker than anything else.