It just occurred to me, why this show appeals to me so much..."hobbying" is like that, but on a regular basis- often, you don't know who's gonna be on the other side of the door, even though you've been communicating...reviews help, though lol

You have not been corresponding for months or years on end and yet to meet. At least I would hope not... I can't believe communicating with someone for so long and not meeting up for the date. I understand more in the hobby, as often times dealing with travelers and well busy with work schedules, but dating shouldn't be that difficult. I would think if you have not met up in so long then there is a reason someone is hiding behind the computer in real life compared to fantasy life is they are hiding something or playing some game. Then aging what do I know. Shaking my head on disbelief yet, nothing seems to shock me these days... Good luck to all, and hope that what is on the other side is a good time and a great experience... I have watched that show when I could not sleep at night, and and it is like watching a train wreck. You know how it is going to turn out and just can't help yourself.  xoxo C

So my curiosity has now arrived., I play UTR. No advertising and I rely on my regulars for support. I have done fine for over 1 year. The few new acquaintances I have come across, have not left reviews because I ask them not to. Am I so very wrong for not wanting the way I trim my pubic hairs online?? The reviews That have been posted are very good, why make more of it? Please advise,
Megan

Thanks to everyone that responded. Lets face it, nothing is off limits with TER reviews. Even the "good stuff" that happens, gets way overblown (is that the word I am looking for?) I have had to request that gentlemen keep something to in their mind and not reveal to everyone.
I shall take the advice and request new reviews, but at a minimum, like once a month. Is that enough to feed your interest???

Posted By: blucielo

I agree - your reviews are excellent. Respectfully, and in the spirit of candor, they do lose some relevance after 20 months. However, you have great consistency over several reviews, so that pushes out the expiration date in my mind. New clients may want to know if your appearance and/or menu changed (but I'd ask it in a nice way).

If you want to stay under the radar then you may only want the occasional review - something for the new client or two that you invite into your circle to check out.

If you're trying to expand your client base, you may lose an important part of the market if you don't have current reviews. At a minimum, I'd think it could be a disadvantage.

Fair (and funny) point on sharing your trimming proclivities on-line! Personally, I like to keep people guessing...  

I agree that updating appearance would be good. It is quite possible to gain some weight, cut hair or even get a big spider tattoo on ones butt in a 20 month time frame. I can assure everyone that none of the above have occurred. I will get some new reviews and put everyone's mind at rest xo Keep smiling,, this is supposed to be fun!!!