is she still around?

are you talking about Carmen?

Yes.

As far as I know she is:

http://cubanprincess.weebly.com/carmen.html

She shows activety on Preferred411 as of 6/1 but her website doesn't look like it has been updated in a while, best answer I can give. Let us know, she's a cutie.

she cancelled on me that first week of April that is the last update posted on her website and she has not returned any e-mails or calls and I have seen her several times in the past

Gents,
Carmen's MO is what your experiencing right now.  She will be avaialable for a period of time, then she takes off for a period of time.  Her calendar on her site has not changed since April, so theirs your sign.  My guess is that she will be back, but don't hold your breath waiting.

and saw her in 2009. She does seems to come and go. Great gal.