Are her reviews real?  Had her scheduled and did everything I could to help in the background process but she was very difficult throughout the process.  I emailed her the day of, as requested, emailed her through my TER handle, as requested.  She sent me a text asking me not to review her, which seemed strange since she has 30 reviews in the last two months, so I asked why...at that point she lashed out at me about being difficult and basically canceled by going quiet at the time we were supposed to meet.  Would have loved to see for myself, love her pics and look, but wonder if the girl I dealt with was the same girl w/the stellar reviews.  Pamela, if you're reading, would love to try again.

maybe she got spooked??? At this point  I wonder why you want to keep trying? If there was difficulty during the process it probably wasnt meant to be. Isn't it gonna be awkward???  
From what I've read, she does not have a reputation for being a flake.

If I have a bad feeling with something I am not going too proceed with an appointment, never! 300$ is not enough money too put me in a situation I am not comfortable with. I'm sorry things did not work out but it was just not meant to be. I apologize for any inconviences you may have experienced during the process....

Please Please Please do not try again. Forget it and find another girl to see. The last thing you want is to get a reputation as a stalker or to a lesser degree a persistent nag. The communication hit a snag along the way with Pam and it does not matter who's fault it is. Just be happy that she did not send you to the wrong hotel and made you sit in the parking lot for an hour. Once you have seen another hottie, then this will be a dead and buried issue.

wow.  misspamela, ive not had any reason to see any other lady, but if 2014 does not go as desired in that regard, If I don't walk away from this entirely, I would love to connect. You are Younger than my historic preferences, but stars might align as a dear friend once said, and maybe my past judgment in that regard age will prove to be wrong in regard to you:

30+ reviews in like a month...now she's in the top 50 nationwide...

That's why you were cancelled on.

People can and do reinvent themselves. Especially in business.

Thanks for responding, shows professionalism.  Hopefully in the near future and with some luck, we'll meet

Thanks, guys. Love the prophetic "especially in business" comment.  Might have a valuable lessson to share in that regard here. We will see. I think I know outcome though.

Interesting you have a $200 cancellation fee. But you left a potential client with a stiffie. Should work both ways. Maybe a doublebook

in this situation??? how is she gonna ask for a cancel fee when SHE "cancelled"?

I realize I don't have all the facts, but Pamela didn't dispute anything in the OP's post..  

Lol have you seen my reviews & the reviewers review history ? I've seen plenty of people who gave written dozens of reviews and never gave a 10 to anyone but me....i am very dedicated to what i do & that is making everyone I meet satisfied.. So once again you make no sense. Your comments are uncalled for! You hide behind an alias because you think I do not know who you are... And if I request no review it's because I have accumulated to many reviews in such a short period of time.., something I was not aiming for.  

I do not double book, unless someone does not confirm.  

lol what are y'all talking about ? I never asked for a cancellation fee & I do not require a cancellation fee unless U cancel on me... Wow  

If its giving you a handy vs "I have a bad feeling about this", we are never, ever giving you a handy. You guys act like being left with your dick hard is the equivalent to friggin auto theft or something!

I booked her through P411; I have plenty of "okays" there. She made the appointment without looking at my profile, which she did the night before we were supposed to meet, then cancelled the next morning. Maybe she decided I was too old?

But maybe she should have checked that before accepting the appointment. The only beef I have is that she left the guy hanging with no word. It's just rude.

Shame about all the cancellation issues.  I got a boner just from the pictures of this mega-hottie.  I wonder how long this thread will stay up.  I give it till Friday before it'll disappear.  Anybody want to bet a virtual dollar on it?

I'm afraid you and earthshined missed oversteerer's point, he wasn't saying that you were demanding a cancellation fee, he was pointing out the hypocrisy of how you expect to be treated and how you treated shags. That's what he meant by "Should work both ways." If shags had never showed for his appointment, he would have owed you a cancellation fee if he ever wanted to see you again. But you cancel on the day of the appointment and you don't seem to feel you even owed him an email at the time to say sorry, but I don't think I can see you. In fact I suspect that if shags had done it in the way that you did, without sending a note to say I'm sorry but I can't see you, you would refuse to see him ever again even with a cancellation fee. Not sure why he's pushing to see you again, there are too many other providers out there who understand a little something about common courtesy.

no way it could be a safety/LE/ issue right?

not that big of a deal.  no one is bashing her.

for me,  any issues while contacting a provider that make it too difficult or a hassle is grounds for moving on.

you wont get a response to your post.

I am joking around mostly, but I have seen similar threads disappear before for reasons I was not privy too.  Apparently I make a better clown than comedian, since no one gets my jokes better than me.  Don't really care if this thread disappears or not, but damn, Ms. Pamela is smoking hot babe.  Just wanted to say it again.

Lol what y'all don't know is I told him before the appointment that I was not going too see him.... I was asking him simple questions and giving him simple instructions and he was rude to me! That is why I did not see him, I am not rude and I understand plenty about common courtesy thank you very much. It seems like all y'all have way to much time on your hands, and just sit behind a computer discussing things that has nothing to do with you at all and you don't even know the whole story.  

She cancelled...it happens. Why take it personally?  It's not fair for you to assume one thing or the other about her reasons. There could be any number of reasons. No provider is required to see everyone and anyone who asks her, no matter how "approved" he is on other sites or by other people. Nor is she required to explain her reasons for declining. That's her prerogative.

- 30 reviews in short period of time.  Then cancels with no notice. How is that professional?

No one is obliged to take an appointment with a client who makes her feel uncomfortable. I would have done the same thing in your place, and my guess is 90% of other providers would have, too. Safety first.

I absolutely agree with your statement that "No provider is required to see everyone and anyone who asks her, no matter how "approved" he is on other sites or by other people. Nor is she required to explain her reasons for declining. That's her prerogative." But the problem I have is that even you start by saying she cancelled, not that she declined, but that she cancelled. And when a provider puts on her website that cancellations will result in cancellation fees, NO EXCEPTIONS, the entire statement all in CAPS with multiple exclamation points, well then I would expect her to be even more sensitive to cancellations on her own part. If I am declined up front, then I move on. But a cancellation at the last minute by going radio silent is really annoying and I actually do take it personally. I've had last minute cancellations of both the "silent" and last minute email type. I've always given the benefit of the doubt to the polite last minute emails, and with only one exception they've always turned into good experiences on subsequent visits with no issues (one did it twice in a row and I've moved on). But the silent cancellation, that's just rude and I have no interest in trying to see that provider again.  

I want to meet with ms pam and treat her like a queen.  

we agree. she IS smoking hot sexy. Always wanted to see her but unfortunately. I won't ever. NOT because of this thread.She requires work info for screening and that's not gonna happen. My loss (

Ten minutes before our appt was supposed to start you asked that I not review you. I was 2 minutes away from the address you gave me. I asked why, since you had 30 stellar reviews in 2 months, and it seemed as though every provider would WANT positive reviews to help generate more business.  Thats not being rude.  Just as I respect the position you put yourself in you have to respect the position we put ourselves in, and if a provider w/30 fantastic reviews in 2 months ask you not to review her asking 'why' doesnt constitute rudeness, its more curiousity and self protection.

I tried to see her, did the screening, but if do one little thing....no matter how small, she is very rude and will treat you like shit.  It's no wonder she has to change her name so much

I was suppose to meet her. Went through verification and when I showed up, she started asking me all these questions and ended up cancelling on me.   Beware guys.  

Add me to cancel list for no reason , maybe she likes to gather people's personal information

When you change your name again and you will you change it to Miss Cancel W/O Notice!!!!  Have a great day and hope your batteries die.

But I have not read that this happens with her
Frequently.
I was ncns by a lady before and was not as upset as some on this thread