That is, 60-65+ with a pre-existing medical issue. Have any of you ventured out in the last few months? I have considered it a couple of times but decided not to due to the risks. Six months ago I had heart surgery and I just turned 65. I just don't think I would be too reassured even if both the lady and I are wearing a mask. Yet, I am still tempted. Feel free to call me a fool for even considering it.

I am in the same boat. I am over 60 with a weak immune system.

My last new gal was in HCMC/Saigon in late January, and it will be the last until things get better on the pandemic front at the earliest.  Since then, I have only been with one long-term former escort and now sugar friend.  

I don't see how masks would help unless your idea of a date is a quickie from behind with wiping each other off with baby wipes afterwards. I think only isolation really works with escort/client or sugar relationships.  

My home relationship qualifies as social distancing anyway, and has for over a decade. She is a student, and she doesn't want to see anyone else either. She is only in her late 20s but with a doctor's warning about Covid from back home in Thailand (she got dengue once, which apparently puts her at higher risk).  She and the other gals from her home country with whom she shares a house with avoid physical contact among themselves or with anyone else.  

My GF and I have become a pod of two. We mostly do things like hiking or getting carryout to eat outside in addition to an occasional hotel date. Winter will be a challenge.  We are both naturally promiscuous, but we are satisfying that sharing porn links, reading online erotic literature, looking at porn together in bed, and sharing our sexual histories. I haven't got her to share her fantasies yet, but I suspect that there might be some kinky things in there. It is in some ways a nice thing. I have a lovely Thai gal who was a friend already all to myself.  

-- Modified on 11/2/2020 9:28:57 PM

-- Modified on 11/2/2020 9:47:49 PM

I am in my late 60s, 5 years post MI. Although I feel fine, I have limited my hobbying to two regulars working at local AMPs. I didn't feel comfortable during the sessions even though we wore masks and used disinfectant on the surfaces prior to the session. Immediately afterwards I showered, gargled, etc. For the following two weeks you kick yourself for doing this and worry you have contracted Covid. Bottom line, just not worth it anymore. I live alone and the isolation has been killing me, and I have been tempted several times, however, I have resulted to manual stimulation to curb the urge. Really sucks though.  

Stay safe.  

I'm in the same situation.  My decision is to sit it out. To much risk.

I'm 65 but in good health.. I've started to make appointments but then chickened out (or the girl canceled on me). I had one PV session which was just OK.
I keep going back and forth on the idea. Was thinking about starting in soon but discouraged by the upsurge.

If it weren't for the surgery, I might risk it. Throwing that into the mix, I wouldn't. I know it's difficult, but I believe a vaccine isn't too far away. As in the next six months and you're a high-risk group so potentially could get the vaccination sooner. there is light at the end of the tunnel.

 
If I were in your shoes, I'd save up my money and go shopping for who you would like to see. If you're a member of P411, I'd get pre-approved by providers you like. Window shopping without buying, I think it would be therapeutic. Just let the providers know you're in a high-risk group, but are getting ready for when you can go out safely and visit them after getting vaccinated. Will also show you're health-conscious and a free virtual interaction.

 
Best of luck whatever you decide.

I certainly wouldn't bet my life on it.  

 
Now I am in the same age range as you 60+, but I am in a completely different risk category. Let me put it this way, I have the immune system of a cockroach, I had shingles in my 50's, but other than that I can't remember having so much as a cold in over a decade. BUT you do have to ask yourself if you are in a high risk group the same question that the gay guys in San Francisco had to ask themselves some 40 years ago. "Is getting laid worth dying for?"

 
If you honestly believe that COVID could kill you, the vaccine is only a few months away from widespread availability, It's kind of like being in Vietnam in the 73, do you REALLY want to be the last one killed in action? lol

 
BTW you are not a fool for thinking about it, people has been dying for pussy since the caveman days, and my advice is most definitely a "do as I say, not as I do" because I haven't slowed down even a little bit this year, I still try to get laid just about every day, but even If I were to catch the virus, my odds of dying are way less than 1000-1, Would I be so cavalier if my odds were more like 50-1 or even 20-1? I don't think so.

I am 65 and I am fortunate to have favorites who I trust will not take an appointment if they aren't feeling well and who take extra precautions commensurate with the times.  

That said, if you want zero risk, now is not the time for extracurricular activities.

I’m in my 30s and not high risk, but still take it seriously.

That said, I’ve only had on average one date every two months to keep risk down.

And I’ve avoided any agency and any provider that may be higher risk with, say 10-20 appointments in a week.

If you can find someone who has fewer appointments and does providing on the side then risk goes down. I tend to calculate that women that charge a little more have fewer clients.

You may also consider asking if they’ve had Covid before. While the science is a little unclear, most indications is that would give them immunity although whether they can transmit if reinfected is an open question.

But it probably reduces odds.

All that said, I’m not sure it is worth the risk to you and others. Maybe just hold in there a few more months for a vaccine.

As another said, everytime I had a date the next week I was a bit paranoid I got Covid.

Not exactly worth it but sometimes my little head thinks more than my big head.