Backpage (BP) should  be referred to as Black's Prohibited.  In the last two days I have contacted approximately six maybe more providers and all of them  refuses to see black men. In every case not one mention "no AA" in their Ads. If your black the first thing you should be asking if she's have an issue with seeing  black men.  This  is getting out of and is  simply ridiculous!!!!!!

Women's bodies, their rules..  Your money.. Choose it where you spend it..

..... keep hope alive digging around on BP my "brotha" or uh start looking around I dunno um on TER lol.

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I am not a minority, but I often find BP girls to be short and not overly friendly until I tell them I am a TER member, then they seem to be more friendly.I would never, nor have I ever attempted to use my TER status as a bargaining chip or anything like that. I just let them know up front, becuase it tell them that I am serious hobbiest who know how to conduct myself and not someone who is going to play games with them.

The ones who see black guys typically will share incall with an African American provider. In the past few years a lot of guys have been causing a lot of drama, robbing, pimp wannabees, fake currency, trying to negotiate on prices,  trying to sneak in bbfs, too rough, black vice guys, it goes on an on. I hate to says this but is might be best to stick to your own race. Other areas in the US such us upper midwest the caucasian providers are more willing to see black guys.

I know it won't bro. I know an African American guy who use to pay $300 an hour to see some of the highest reviewed provides on this site. He has gotten cheep and see street walkers now. I know another one who pays $100 for an half hour and lets the appointment stretch to 1 hour. He see the providers for a while and then gets some of them to see him for free. He is cheap and a user. He laughs because some of the providers fall for it.

That's maybe the most ignorant ish I've read on here in a while, and that's saying something lol- DC is a semi cosmopolitan city- a melting pot, of sorts, and there are plenty of gorgeous women of all races  who are willing and able to take green from a brown hand lol- I'm from this area, and I almost exclusively dated white girls until my 20s- besides that, almost nobody in the DMV is a native, and that is exponentially true for providers, who tour from city to city smh

I really did not realize that you had to go through things like that on a regular basis. I knew that some girls did not like to see black guys, but did not realize that they were that rude to you once you showed up.  

It does make a difference if you tell them you are a TER guy. I have had bp providers tell point blank they treat TER guys better than BP guys. They also have told me they won't double book on a TER guy but will double book on a BP guy. One BP was laughing (at his frustration) when a guy got pissed and she did not answer the phone. I got to hotel first. I had a good time but lectured her that was not cool to behave like that.

You have to understand that some who post on BP grew up with racist up bringing.

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That African American guy who use to see $300 providers on TER must really got cheap to see only street walkers. It's doesn't matter if it's BP, TER etc you will always have women who want see AA guys. Nothing new, keep it moving. Black guys don't have a patent on being assholes, just as many white , spainish, Asian  guys rob and assault women also..IJS  

Then make a thread about what you seek. Include that you are AA, what you seek (Blonde/Brunette/Slender/DDDs/Spinner/BBW/ Age), budget and area in the post and let the ladies contact you if they are interested.  

True, I usually tell them I have read their reviews and that I am a TER member.

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It is true. I've been seeing a nice provider in VA and one night I visited she showed to me a fake Ben. Whoever that guy was had a great time with her for free. Some guys have been doing this and it is one of the reasons providers react this way.

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Why aren't you calling me instead?

on this issue I think you've got your head screwed on right.

Could be the fact that your screening is very rigorous. Most bp providers only screen if the guys does not sound weird.  I have seen them accept calls from everyone.  I asked point blank how do they know the guy is not bad or le, they give me a blank look.

It's sex providers are selling. Not a pizza, not a pair if shoes and not a car. If that were the case them that would be totally screwed up and worth getting pissed about. But providers still have te right to choose who they will or will not share their bodies with!  

You take offense to every little thing that I say to you, BUT when you are slapped in the face with a truly racist remark you respond with "I know you didn't mean it"

WTF is wrong with you? This is what Hound was talking about when he told you to grow a pair. If you told this fuckwad to GFY this is one time I would have supported you 100%. He did mean it exactly the way he said it, and you just took it. I am actually angry for you this time. The guy is a racist and a tool, and deserves to be smacked back into his white trash place. Where's the Hound when you need him. or the other RT?

There is a huge difference between non PC speech and outright racism, I am the former, this fucktard is the latter. I hope one day you too will learn how to tell the difference. It's not the word, it's the intent. He basically said "you niggers should keep to your own" He just didn't use those words, but his meaning was quite clear.

Are you saying white men are not pimps, rapers, robbers etc? As a matter of fact, it has been discussed here on more than one occasion that the majority of providers murdered are murdered by white men.  Yet, they do not stop seeing white men.I bet you are a liberal to who sees nothing wrong with what you posted. This is racism 101. Sure, its her choice who she sees. However, how she developed her choice is key. This hobby is a reflection of the society we live in. To be honest,  most women with this as a policy, I would not see anyways.

Not have said it better myself.  He was just slapped in the face with racism 101 and was so freakin passive. However, I'm not giving up on my young brother. He needs a lot of intellectual growth, that comes with time.  As always, your post. was on point.

and this fuckhead is definitely one of them.

This is what I was trying to get across to Turdwell. It's the intent behind the words that counts, I know a lot of white libs who will act shocked just hearing the word nigger in their presence, but live their entire lives as racists, never really interacting with "those people" except for maybe the Mexican that cuts there grass or the black woman done at the hair salon. Those are the real racists, and I bet you our "friend" above is one of them.

That said, would you clue in Rod for me, and let him know it's ok to be offended when someone says something actually offensive. and maybe teach him a thing or two about the difference between locker room humor and outright racism.

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Most girls who do this, do it because they have no clue how to screen guys, not out of racism or sexual preferences. Based on their inability to screen, which can lead to other problems, you are probably better off not seeing them.

Of course you can see right through the "closet racists" too, you just have to recognize the signs.

I like the guys who "know all about black people, because I know this black guy at work and he told me how black people like to be spoken to" lmao

There was a troll on the P&R board who used this very argument to "prove" I was a racist and he wasn't.

and then sit there and not only take it, but smile about it when some punk comes up and bitch slaps him to his face.

I sure hope that you can knock some sense into him and impress upon him that some battles are worth fighting, and others are not. This one was worth him standing up for himself, and just for the record "ROD" I would have stood with you. You deserve the abuse you get for your own behavior, but no one deserves to be told to 'stick to your own kind" because of your skin color.

but to exclude a man based soley on the color of his skin is simply racist.  You have the right to  see whom- ever you want.   Let's be clear there is a difference between attraction  and preference.  

Could be the types who are ghetto providers that listen to a prospective client to see if he sounds black. Others could have been high end providers who did some research on his number and decided not to see him for all types of reasons, maybe he did not read their restrictions. I know there are some visiting black providers who don't see black men.

Was not sure. I have tried to get the African American providers I have seen to participate in this forum but they refuse too. They don't want to get involved in the politics of the boards. If you check the reviews there are some very good African American provides with good reviews. You have to do your searches. They will want references or want to see your date-check or p411 profile.

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He has a tendency to call some a troll on views points that he does not agree with. Over the years I have posted some very controversial topics and opinions that go against political correctness or status quo of the board. Some of my opinions are right but you know how every thinks.  In the DC area I have only seen one Caucasian provider.  Another one that I wanted to see caused a lot of drama when it came with references so I decided why bother with the drama. Up in the upper mid west I have found them to be more accommodating to seeing black men.

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And, BTW, a lot of what he said on this thread is OK with me.  But he's one of the most passive people I've ever experienced.  I knew a guy who had such a passive vibe that male dogs used to hump his leg, which is a display of dominance.  I'm guessing Rod has dogs humping his leg all the time.

Just because "Rod" doesn't have the balls to call you out for it doesn't mean that I don't.

You've got a hell of a lot of nerve telling a black man. (or any other man for that matter) that he would be better off sticking with "his own kind". Just because I don't go looking for racism under every rock doesn't mean I don't recognize it when it's right in front of me, and you my friend (I mean that in the loosest possible way) are a condescending, racist, POS. Can I make myself any clearer on that point?

Being a "whiny little bitch" who can't take a little heat is one thing. Standing up for yourself when an obvious racist POS shit bitch slaps you just for being of a different color, is quite a different matter. i simply can't help you if you can't tell the difference.

Tidwit's entire scenario is his own self-serving fantasy.  And does he think you're lurking on the boards just waiting for a racist to appear so you can play "Race Cop?"  We actually have lives.
As for this entire thread, it is merely the latest in a long line of such posts.  After a while, one simply gets tired of responding to them.

It's like Jim Crowe all over again.

What would that change?

So you think blacks prefer KKK guys to the bigoted "liberal".  Whatever you say.  Last time I checked, liberals weren't the ones lynching people.   No one claims that there aren't liberals who are bigots, but it is pretty damn obvious which side is filled with racists and racist sympathizers.  

One of my hobbyist friends said that half of all blacks have herpes.  Is this true?  Maybe that is why providers won't see blacks?

It does not talk about the men but does talk about the women. I saw one at work the other day pick at her cold sore at work, lol.

I love women, all women, in my personal and hobby lives- fuck racism, for real- I'm a black dude, of mixed heritage, in a "white"profession- I like who I like, and who likes me back- being tall, dark, and handsome is awesome lol

Lauren Haze: Sex appeal with a banging body. Why aren't you calling Ms. Haze?

I take articles esp those targeting blacks with a GIANT grain of sea salt (it's yummier and healthier than reg salt). Esp considering I'm one of six girls in my fam and between us and all my girlfriends not a one of us has anything of the sort. Polls are often lifted from folks using public health care and I think that may tinge them. If I have insurance and see my private doctor my info is not accessible to polls. PP? Fogettaboutit...

Thank you for this bread and thank you for this thread… I learned a lot…well maybe not. Some racist shit was said, but before I'm 30 most will be d… and forward on we will go 'till chocolate is loved as the pure white snow. In the meantime I shall know, that where manners are shown I shall go.

The longer you're in the Hobby the more this will be water on a Ducks back to you.  And all the dumb shit in the threads below regarding Black have more Herpes and shyt.......well it's hype and the "boogie-black-man-syndrome."

No, you're not a racist at all, are you?

Thank you for proving my point. I've been around racists all my life, your type is really the worst kind as you are too cowardly to show your true colors except when it's "safe".

I bet you are the type who looks around him to see who is in the room before telling a racist joke, aren't you?  I can deal with an honest racist, at least we both know where the other is coming from, and this holds true for racist black guys as well. It's you cowardly closest racists that I have complete contempt for, and if the hood fits, wear it.

Of course he "meant" to offend.

Don't you realize "you people" are inferior in every way, but at least he didn't use the "N" word, AND he's a liberal which proves he's not a racist.

I still don't know why you take so much offense whenever someone like me says something, but when two other guys piss on your leg and tell you it's raining, you give them a pass as if it's just one big misunderstanding.

Just keep in mind when I say something about you, it's about YOU, not you as a black man, but you as clueless, spineless, etc etc. completely on your own merits (or lack thereof) and NOT because of the color of your skin.  I try to reserve racial remarks to my friends who know I am joking, like APU on this board or Inicky "the world's worst Jew" I hope maybe you are learning to tell the difference.

looks like many different studies show this.  same with aids.  

http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats12/figures/49.htm