I am a P411 member (+6) and I Make my appointment request through P411.  It seems that the providers in DC are very slack about returning emails.  I realize they r busy and it's a one women show most of the time but damn! How long do u expect me to wait for u to confirm an appointment before I move on to someone else?  No, really.  How long do u guys wait for a return email before u try to find another date?

depends on when your appointment is supposed to be. Have you tried emailing her directly? Its very possible that it went to her spam folder than her inbox. Keep that in mind especially when you use P411(or any verification service)

By the way Date-check is more popular on the east coast

If you wish to see them, email the lady in question directly. Search for her on here and see if she has any alternate contact info as well.

I'll contact a few ladies at the same time.....basically whoever rings the bell first wins....and I do email back the others to let them know I got their email....

Hubris

The answer is subjective...depending on who answers.  For me, I look for very specific girls and I'll wait as long as necessary.  I'm going for the full experience so I have zero desire to just SETTLE on a second choice to get laid.  If time is of the essence, follow your email up with a call.  Be PROactive....not just waiting for a return.

I'm in a similar boat with a girl visiting next month.  I've gotten an email saying the assistant would call me to arrange...but that was a week ago.  But this is the one provider I want and I'm going to diligently pursue that...because she's worth it.  I do NOT need an immediate fix from a second choice chick.  I want my first choice and will only invest therein.

Contact multiple girls via email directly. I contacted 3 girls on Friday for a possible appointment this week.I am still going back and forth with one on the details. Other has told me that she is on vacation till 29th. The third hasn't got back to me.  Turns out that I may not be able to see either one of them, and might have to go a with someone else altogether.



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I am not going to die without sex, so when I see a provider whom I want to see I contact her or the agency; I don't have plan B's. How long I wait for a response depends on the hotness of the provider and whether there are other ladies on my short list. If I have another lady in mind, I wait for a day or 2, otherwise I can wait forever.

Just last week, my regular provider responded late and I already decided on another lady, I ended up seeing both of them -- separately, of course -- in one day. I was actually hoping that she not call back; I would have saved $$$$.

I am with the last few posters. I can have sex whenever I want so I wait for a very specific girl and if I cant have her then I just pass. My question is when does your persistence turn into pestering. How many emails and how many calls before you throw in the towel. I always try to give my self plenty of time if a girl is traveling. I didn't have that luxury this time and have been trying to get in contact with the lady since Friday for an appointment I want this Wed. So far 1 email on text and one call and nothing yet.

Based on what you said, I'd try twice on the phone.  If you can't get anything firmed up before 10am tomorrow morning, just chalk it up till next time around.

I thought it was just me.  In OK city, Tulsa and every place else I hobby I get an answer of some kind with in 24 hours.  Agencies in the DMV area answer immediately by email or text.  I don't have a lot of free time to "wait and see".  Looks like indys r off the table for me.  Hopefully, indys that read this will consider the impact to their business that this type of attention has.  How special can a service be if u can't set aside time everyday to respond to emails.  Again thanks.

Some Indies are going to leave you hanging, while others return messages fairly soon. If you get no response, look for another provider. Make sure you did provide references, etc. One well reviewed Indy won't get back with me for usually 3 to 5 days, sometimes longer. To her this is probably acceptable. If you want an Indy, you might have to play her game at the beginning. We hobby to avoid this game playing, yet it really is futile.