Newbie question.
If the providers agree, how do you get them vouch for you in White List Referrals. Do ladies use this to verify clients when making appoinments?
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And yes I for one do use it when checking references but still usually require other info to complete screening.

That is why I never asked for a referral.  to me it is like a lady asking for a review.  But maybe I am just too old school.  That is what my daughter would tell you.

I have requested ladies for WL referrals and ladies have requested me for a review.  What is wrong in my opinion is pestering a lady for a referral, or lady requesting a certain score.

BTW, for what its worth, TER referrals are limited to the lady's profile being active on TER. If, for some reason, she decides to get delisted or TER decides to delist her, the referral will expire at that point.

My whitelist aids in my ability to quickly be verified.... I typically send my Date-Check, P411 and TER info to ladies I want to see and typically get through screening very quick (like within an hour)

Once you have seen a provider on here who has reviews, just send them a nice email after the encounter (never do it during the session, IMHO its tacky) asking if they would whitelist you...

I would never ask and have not liked it when Iwas aked (and it always ccame to no good) but I guess we are all entitled to our own opinions and perhaps if we had different experiences we would have different views.

That about sizes it up. I have talked with several ladies about White Listing. Each one had a different view. But most do not even think about it, unless asked. It's not like P411 or Date-Check where they can request as a member an Okay or recommendation and have it sent through the system. Are you a member or either of those? If yes, have you requested an Okay or Recommendation? If yes again, why is that any different then asking a lady to give you a WL here?

As for as ladies who ask to be reviewed, I have no idea why that would be any bother since you can simply say OK, or sorry I do not review.

I have no problem when a lady ask if I would post a review, of course I might ask for a date-check recommendation or a ter white listing in return.

But that was long ago and times have changed I guess.

To Each His Own

... and is really using the resources on TER. When I can see the wonderful ladies that have vouched for a certain gentleman it is an extra plus in my screening of him

Thank you for the replies. So far I haven't had any problem getting appointments. But one time a couple of years ago a lady asked for not only my 1st and last name, she wanted my work info and call  me at work to verify me. I was very uncomfortable about that but eventually gave in. I will never do that again. The last lady I saw recently also started out asking for, IMO, too much personal info. I cut her short and told her my membership at TER and the TER id's of the ladies I have seen. That got me through the verification pretty fast. So, I start to think that having myself some WL referrals here will be a good thing for me, especially since I don't have other membership, like Date-Check.