I recently googled some providers that I see and some that I want to see. I was absolutely shocked at some of the stuff that is out there on these girls. Not sure if it's true, but certainly enought to make me look elsewhere!

i have personally had other girls write bad reviews and spread negatives things.
or their pimps start problems in other ways.
can't believe everything you read.

There is shit about us hobbyists out there also that is far from truth.

there's plenty of people out there with nothing better to do than start problems & gossip.
small minds, or rather BORED minds...

This is our business. Our bread & butter. Its your hobby. Big difference baby.

Just sayin!

For example, I googled a provider I had seen and saw all kinds of arrest records that really made me wonder how a person with such stellar reviews could have all this shit going on. Then I googled some of her clients and that was even worse. One guy had posted pics of some of his bisexual encounters, barebacking other men for example and he wrote a review of this girl. I am concerned now. So, googling providers and hobbyist is a double edged sword and you never know what you are dealing with. Life is not always what it seems.

How the heck were you able to get hold of her real identity? When you made the original post, I thought that you googled her screen name (business name) and saw that some other person claiming to be a hobbyist, posted a bad review of her.

i agree that this is OUR BIZ and its important to us! on the other hand this is entertainment (hence:adult entertainment industry) ....i dont think men should bash what they play with anyway...its hypocritical to put yourself above providers especially when you par  take in the hobby

I just googled the handle that posted the review. I guess some people use the same handle on many different discussion boards and in this one particular case, this person wrote about his session from his end.  That really freaked me out.

Yes but unless there was specific information that verified it was the same person, how can you tell if it was just someone else using the same handle on a different site.

But I have only gotten to know a couple of providers well enough to know their true identity.  One was on parole from federal prison and the other had six outstanding warrants from felony level to an infraction.

If you are looking for Miss Goodie Two Shoes in this area you are looking in the wrong place.  Come on now guys, really.

So it does go both ways. The life of the hobbyist would fall to pieces if too much information is spread out and gets to the wrong people, no job, no money, no hobby.

The ladies risk the same exposure and trouble when family and friends find out. And when busted, the record last forever, so with a hobbyist. But the difference here is the ladies I've know to get busted for this start right back at it. Where the guys I've know who got busted, lost there jobs and were unable to get it back due to security issues.

What bothers me is the OP apparently knows too much about the providers he's seen, such as their real names in order to find criminal records on them. Now what is questioned is how he came upon this, they were too trusting and gave it to him, or someone he stole the information.

In either case I think it's bad, worse if he stole it.

I'm just saying

So I would say it goes both ways, just saying

Creepy is an understatement.

......not knowing any background unless it is volunteered as the relationship grows.  I am certain that providers and hobbyists both come from many backgrounds.  Of course the ideal provider to most of us is the hot college clean girl making some cash for herself, but this is very much the exception.

Give me a genuine person in a provider with whom I can enjoy mutual respect (and ideally, mutual orgasms!) and that is not only all I need, it is all I want. And yes, the chase to replace my ATF who retired continues.....

How would you find out about a provider unless they gave you their real name? Or a hobbyist from a handle or nickname on a board like this? I'm not sure which is more disturbing that it's possible to get info on providers and hobbyist or that there are people out there with nothing better to do with their time than to research it.

for one reason or another, or he came across her name accidentally.  It has happened to me in the past, but its completely different if he invaded her privacy, one way or another, to get her name.

I am more and more inclined to believe that it was latter, since he hasn't really given any clarification one way or another...

Just saw a girl the other day who before excusing herself  to the bathroom to freshen up, turned on the computer because it was too dark in the room and up pops her real facebook page. I couldn't help but google her afterwards. f

I goggle pretty much every provider phone number, especially BP girls.

I hope to find ads in various cities (therefore not local LE), and consistent amatuer pics.

Also... Nothing particularly negative in reviews, etc.

For one provider, I found her actual professional (non-hobby) resume, with home address, etc.

I waited until after our session, so as not to creep her out, before telling her - for her own safety.

She knew, and didn't particularly care.  Oh well. I tried.

I googled the providers "work name". I do that as that is part of my screening process. Don't want no drama. What came up was an arrest record with her alias "work name" along with her real name. Also, there were many interesting posts on this board as well as other boards. Because you cannot believe all that you read or hear, I googled her real name. That's when things got interesting.  OK, so this well respected provider, with almost 30 stellar reviews, apparently has a very colorful past (to say the least; specifically, married to a violent criminal felon). I don't want no drama. So all of this peaked my curiousity, so I googled the last 5 handles of her reviewers. That's where I came across the bisexual. Apparently some people use the same handle on multiple board. Bad idea?

So in other words she's been busted? Thats the only reason her working name would be associated with her real name. It sort of sounds to me like you are trying to "out" her here on the board, which is why you are giving details as to how many reviews she has as well as to outing her "last 5 reviewers". Not cool.

I am not trying to out her at all. If you can figure this provider by "almost 30 reviews" then go for it. And I wouldn't have found out all that I did if she hadn't been "busted" nor if the other hobbyiest hadn't used the same handle on other sites. My point is merely an illustration of "reverse screening" in this case and what was gleemed from this. You cannot always trust what is posted in reviews. That's all. Nothing more, nothing less.

I rarely believe the crap I see written in reviews or in ad copy, especially in ad copy. But reviews aren't about her personal life, but about what she does BCD and what one feels like when spending time with her, so it shouldn't be an issue. There are nefarious types in every corner of life, even those with outstanding reviews or who are vocal on the boards.

I hear what you are saying. In this particular example, this provider is married to a hardened criminal (aggravated felon). I prefer not to see someone in her situation. You never know when the her husband decides it's time for her to quit her job and come busting through the door!

did you look up the docket for the case as well? Do you know the details? Personally, I am more afraid of the providers that are clawing their way to the top than I am of a husband, who is probably out of work due to the unemployment situation in our nation and his record. He is probably thankful that there is an income coming into the house to keep a roof over his head and food in his belly that isn't cheese sandwiches on stale bread and even more afraid of the bi-sexual client who is probably at a higher risk level of disease.

God, you've got plenty of time on your ends to devote to the hobby and being a PI.  I will bc you the names of ladies I am most interested in seeing, give you a good fee and you tell me what you turn up on them.  Just joking.  I am NOT saying you are, but no wonder why people that fall prey of stalkers can't shake them sometimes.  Orwell was right about the future lol  Proble is, it's NOW