I recently had my first private viewing session in several years.  I had stopped on my 58th birthday as I was concerned that as most of the providers are in their early 20s that they would not like seeing older men.  I relented for my recent birthday and had a good experience, making me think about trying other providers.  Are there any other older gentlemen out there who are still hobbying and have had good experiences with these younger ladies.

Older men are usually easier on a provider's body.  Not hopped up on too much viagra and wanting to "pound the shit out of that azzz!".  You'll even see a few ads on provider websites preferring "Gentlemen over XX age".

I doubt they see age, just green.

If you need inspiration, just look at Hugh Heffner, has girls under 22 years of age all the time and he's 80. Weird, yes, but do you think he cares

You might be surprised to know that the average client providers see is 45-55 years old. And the best sexual connections come from great intellectual connections so if you can find a provider you can click with (or maybe one who shares your passion for literature or muscle cars, etc) then you can build that into a wildly passionate time behind closed doors.  

Some of the best dates I have had were with men who were 55+ or even some who were over 300 lbs because they were intelligent, kind and giving sexually (just like me) which meant the fun went on and on!  

So don't be afraid, get out there an have fun!!

I think the majority of providers wouldn't have a problem seeing you.  

Saw a young provider (early 20's) a few weeks ago who said her oldest client was in his 80's. Must have been the time of his life lol.

still going strong and seeing 20 somethings.  Never been a problem for them or for me.  Go for it.

This morning I saw a regular, a lovely amazingly youthful, skilled and athletic lady with what seems to be an infinitely varied bag of tricks.  After taking a bit longer to reach the usual breathtaking explosion she induces, I said, "maybe I'm getting too old for this."  She knows exactly how old I am (at least 40 years her senior and she has a teen age son), but she said "don't talk like that.  I like everything about you -- your eyes, your ears, your cute face, your bod and even your ------- ," patting it gently.  Granted, she is a charmer and said exactly the right thing to make me feel good, but wasn't that a great thing to say?  No wonder i continue the hobby...

Hell, I'll be 54 in May.  I bet not be old!  But your point of sexual chemistry/wanting to be with you is moot.  As a previous poster noted.  The provider see's Green not wrinkles and a limp dick.  So don't make the provider/client relationship more than what it is.  

Yes, you want some level of "connection" with the provider or you might as well save your money and go jerk off as it's cheaper.  But to hesitate on seeing a provider cause you think they might not be attracted to you physically is a waste of thought.  How do you think the "rich" dudes keep a wealth of eye candy on their arm?  GREEN!  Do you really think the Michael Jordan's and Donald Trumps of the world would pull some of the women they have been seen with if the were Michael Jordan and Donald Trump the garbage men?!?!  HELL NO!!!  Trust.

Women, I've come to learn, are attracted more to security, kindness, "lovability/likeability" than physical appearance.  And in the Hobby game even more so..........along with the GREEN.  I'm a handsome dude but when I pull up to anywhere in my old beater versus  my "show car" I'm almost invisible to women.

I love a routine done by Dave Chapelle where he notes that if a dude can get some pussy living in a card board box he wouldn't buy a house.  But since women like nice things, comfort, etc we go out and get all this shyt.  When we pull up in a Porsche and get the women's attention it's like a bear trap....."gotcha bytch."   ROFLMAO.

END OF MESSAGE

Considering there are plenty of ladies in their forties that are available

I'm 58 and I feel like I just got started. And providers 20, 30 years my junior couldn't keep up with me.

Age is absolutely subjective. I've met young clients in their 70s and old clients in their 30s. Its mostly about a state of mind.

Beyond not minding, I enjoy seeing clients that are 60+. Despite the gap, me being in my early 20s, we never lack for conversation.
I think their age brings quite valuable... experience to our interaction, which is definitely advantageous to me

I can say for sure that after a great session I feel 20 years younger. And I just can't get that big ole grin off my face. As the old guy says on that beer commercial . "Stay thirsty my friend".  I'll be looking forward to your review.G

....... we LOVE ya! lol
It's actually unusual if I see anyone UNDER 35 so a gentleman in his late 50's is so normal for me. I'm perfectly fine and comfortable with that age ..... comfort depends on the provider but there are plenty of providers in their 20's (especially 25 and under/under 25) like myself who are far more mature than they are normal credited to be. And actually lol I have an age minimum not an age maximum.

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Yes I am sure many of you may differ because your body is yelling you " hey, you are not a teenager anymore". Lol But it's in your mind. You are as young as you feel and when you feel young it shows.  

 I love older men. I love men by age. I love younger ones too. I have had great connections with men of varying ages. Guess I am in the right field.

Thanks for all the replies---I don't feel like a dirty old man.

I didn't say anything about "dirty".