So I love older women and I love red heads. Any variation of the two works for me but love it if combined. Haven't really seen any providers that fit this criteria but if y'all have any suggestions I'd appreciate it. Trying around noon tomorrow
just my thoughts... i'm only as good as the person i'm with. and more often than not, i'm good with the over 40, over 50, 60 crowd. perhaps because they "let" me, and aren't afraid of me. perhaps it's because they are confident & not cocky (at least with me)
i dunno, if you're under 40, and you wanna meet me, you'll have to be communicative and not a deer in headlights on another note... check in with kaylie. she just jazzed up her blonde hair to red! and damn! she's delicious
you are absolutely 100% correct! except one lil thing...ya got say so and make it believable! so after all, if you put an analogy to things... as an older, open to seeing youngers ya gotta make ME not think you're faking it and about to chew your arm off to get away now if you have a hot open minded girlfriend...well, that's a different story she doesn't even need to be terribly hot;0 lol hahahaha I probably should be sleeping by now so be nice i'm a bit of a lush lol
I like people closer to my age because I simply relate better to them. I offer true companionship, not a wham bam experience, and for that, I cannot relate to someone that much younger than myself. Also, until you get into your 40s (and beyond I assume), you simply do not know what the mindset is like. Since you have not yet experienced what you will be like in your 40s or beyond, you cannot know.
Posted By: RodTidweLL
Me and my college buddies grew up in the hot teacher, milf porn explosion era. In real life women in their 40's seem to like guys 50+ no idea why?
I find that mature men, in the 40+ age group, and preferable 50+ are much much more respectful. They've had life experience and that really REALLY counts. You cannot say because you are (1) not in that age group, and (2) you're not a woman who has experienced it.
There is someone out there for everyone. I don't complain when I see a man posting an ISO thread that says he's looking for a young spinner. Why would I bother? He's free to enjoy his life as he wants. I'm not giving anyone a hard time, as the term was used up this thread, either. I just don't see people under the age of 40. I relate well to people who have more life experience, period.
Darling, your reply is so typical of those in your age group. LIfe experience is not relative, no it is not. You can't say that because you have not lived into your 40s or beyond yet. There is a lot to be said for having life experience--and that can also mean adversity. I've met people who have lost children, lost spouses, survived prostate cancer, had other very serious health issues that are more common as we humans age.Those things, along with career and family, are not relative.
They are to YOU because you have not reached that age. Get back in touch with me when you are 45, okay? I have one guy who is in his mid 20s who emails me twice a year, like clockwork. He just emailed me again. And he's always got his reasons that I should make an exception for him. That's just not going to cut it. That sense of entitlement gets a little smaller as people get older and experience more of life.
Posted By: RodTidweLL
I know a ton of guys in there 20's that would treat a beautiful mature woman like a queen. Just saying. I mean appreciative in a sense of "made dreams come true way" the original poster seems like one.
You're just not cognizant of the fact that I am older than you, that I have had more years on this planet experiencing life than you have.
I believe pretty much anything anymore, so if by your comment you mean to be telling me that you've had some outrageous or unusual experiences, no, you will not surprise me. And if you are still in your 20s, well … honey, you are very very young. You will remember my words. They will ring in your ears many moons from now. There is no reason to take offense at age preferences. We can't change our ages. Why feel bad about it? Time runs only in one direction ,and really, at your age, you ought to be having the time of your life not hanging out on discussion boards bemoaning the face that women many years older than you are not attracted to you : ) You ought to be happy to be yourself. That is one of the best things that Father Time can teach you … love being exactly who you are.
That's a good way to word it, or a couple of good ways. Don't be a deer in the headlights, and be confident but not cocky. That's a tall order in someone who just has not had the life experience yet.
I agree with Missy here. I love men over age 40. They've got great life experience and that's such an attractive trait. That's not to say that I mean there is nothing good about people (men) in their 20s and 30s. It just means that for me I prefer to spend time with men I relate better to. There is someone for everyone, which is what can make this so much fun.
Posted By: missymore
just my thoughts... i'm only as good as the person i'm with. and more often than not, i'm good with the over 40, over 50, 60 crowd. perhaps because they "let" me, and aren't afraid of me. perhaps it's because they are confident & not cocky (at least with me)
i dunno, if you're under 40, and you wanna meet me, you'll have to be communicative and not a deer in headlights
on another note... check in with kaylie. she just jazzed up her blonde hair to red! and damn! she's delicious
You go to my website. Go the Proust Questionnaire and answer every question on there. Just for fun. Oh, regarding the 20-somethings. I got another one last night. "Miss Fletcher, is 28 too young? I am very mature for my age and have a lot of life experience." I really don't mean any disrespect. I am flattered to a certain extend that much younger men would be interested, but it's a preference for me. Some people like redheads (OP;does ; ) Some men are really nasty and ridicule women my age. That doesn't feel great to see, but who am I to tell someone to change what they LIKE? You can't. We like what we like and that's that. PLEASE do not PM me. I am traveling right now and it's hard to get to PMs. Use email : ) I honestly mean you no harm, and I do hope that is obvious.
Posted By: RodTidweLL
But if you're interested about the life experience I'm talking about pm me. I will tell you, I checked off most of that list you have written plus some.
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