I find that mature men, in the 40+ age group, and preferable 50+ are much much more respectful. They've had life experience and that really REALLY counts. You cannot say because you are (1) not in that age group, and (2) you're not a woman who has experienced it.  

There is someone out there for everyone. I don't complain when I see a man posting an ISO thread that says he's looking for a young spinner. Why would I bother? He's free to enjoy his life as he wants.  

I'm not giving anyone a hard time, as the term was used up this thread, either. I just don't see people under the age of 40. I relate well to people who have more life experience, period.