Hi - I have been thinking about arranging for a provider to do an outcall to my residence,  not my hotel. For the clients and providers who have done this before, are there any best practices to follow?  I am somewhat concerned about giving my home address , whether that info can be used for nefarious purposes later . Is this a legitimate concern?  Other less grave questions - should the bathroom be prepared for a full bath?  Any other ways to make the provider feel comfortable?  Any other ideas to guarantee a good time is had by all?  Thanks in advance!
- Peter

Pete, if you are a single guy with no baggage at your residence than I would say "whatever floats your boat".  Yeah i guess it would be nice to have it in your own bed for a change.   If you are married or have a live in I would punt the idea and just do an outcall to a local hotel.  Good luck with this though.

Thanks.  I just thought for a change it would be so convenient to have a provider come to yr house and avoid the hassle of paying for /checking  in to / getting settled in to a hotel that you're only using for the encounter anyway. And let's assume you are guaranteed to have the place to yourself for 24 hours
 Ive ready many reviews where the guy had the provider come to his place, so hoping to get some tips from those in the know.  

Thanks

-For the clients and providers who have done this before, are there any best practices to follow?
I only do outcalls to girls that you've seen before in the past. Usually I have to see them about 2 or 3 times. Why? Why risk it?  

-I am somewhat concerned about giving my home address, whether that info can be used for nefarious purposes later. Is this a legitimate concern?
I do not give them my main address but will provide them with a general address such as a neighbors address down the street. I will tell the girls about this ahead of time and tell them to call me when they get close. Usually I'll step outside and they'll tell me what car they drive and I can wave them in. I this this for several reasons. One reason is I want her to come by herself. I do not want to see other "passengers" in the car. I'm here to see her and not "them". Its what I do, and you are more than welcome to disagree with my practice.

-Other less grave questions - should the bathroom be prepared for a full bath?
Most girls do not need a full bath. They just need a shower and something to wash with. I usually have "feminine soap" (its soap specifically designed for the vaginal area for girls) and you can buy that in any store. I also go to Target or Walmart and get about 10 disposable sponges for one dollar each. Keep the tag on the sponge to let them know its new. Have clean towels.

-Any other ways to make the provider feel comfortable?
Offer them something to eat, drink, or ask them if they need anything. Relax, its your home and your demeanor should reflect how relax you are. Don't be pushy, demand certain things, or act weird. Its like any other guest and you have to treat them well by accommodating them. Oh, have KY and plenty of condoms, duh.

-Any other ideas to guarantee a good time is had by all?
Yes, follow the previous advice above and keep the temperature at a comfortable level.

Now, here are some personal advices. I always have sex in the guest room. If you have several guest room, make the bed look neat and presentable. Choose one of those rooms. The reason for a guest room? Well, too much personal stuff in the master bedroom such as pictures and things like that. It doesn't hurt if you have at least have a queen size bed in that guest room.

Girls always ask me if this is my house. I always say no, its a friends house and I'm only using it. I do this for security reasons. If they ask what you do for a living, then don't give them an honest answer unless you want to. If you can, park your car in your garage so they do not see what type or kind of car your driving. Or, park it down the street or something. Feel free to PM me if you have further questions. Yes, alias can receive PM's too.

Hi Pete   Having done many outcalls to a home address, here's some of my thoughts based on experience:   Always go with a well-reviewed provider OR a provider with a nice, well-written website and ads. Can she read and write her mother tongue with few or no grammatical or spelling mistakes? Then she is educated, possibly gainfully employed, and has as much to lose as you do. Even if the provider only has a couple reviews (I only have 3 here), quality is better than quantity. A less-reviewed lady with a rating of 7 and above is better than a highly-reviewed girl with a 5 or less. Don't just focus on looks and performance-- was she punctual? Professional? Gracious? Friendly?    Rule of thumb-- you get what you pay for. My advice-- always hire on the high end of your budget. I'd say in the DC area, don't go under 300/hr. You are more likely to get a college-educated (or at least in college) and professional lady with experience.   Same rule for your age preference-- always hire on the high end. If you want someone in her 20's, look at 28, 29 rather than 20 or 21. I actually advise to go for women in their 30's and up. They are experienced, skilled, and more mature.  And just as providers need references, why not hobbyists? If someone strikes your fancy, check out her reviewers and ask around on the boards.  Any provider who takes pride in her work will cause you ZERO trouble. That's just good business. A good provider wants repeat sessions, that's just safe, smart, and fun! I was recently with a gentleman who confided that his last provider tried to BLACKMAIL him! That would NEVER even occur to me to do that!!  Lastly-- this is just common sense. Put away ANYTHING valuable and lock it up. Jewelry, watches, power tools, what have you.   As for making her feel at home... when in contact, ask what she likes to drink (if she drinks). Or if she likes strawberries, chocolates, etc. I love when I arrive to a session and there's a rose in a vase waiting for me, how lovely!  Making an effort to romance her works WONDERS, trust me We love that. Whatever you can think of to impress a girl, do it.   Bathroom? Just make sure it's clean. She may want to jump in the shower afterward and rinse off. No shavings in the sink (ew), toilet clean AND flushed, etc.   Semper Discreti Et-- "Discretion ALWAYS."

I have two homes, one of which I hit most weekends and very occassionally get to myself.  Have always wanted to outcall/overnight as a new experience but never had the....balls.  Same concerns as yourself mostly.

Anyway, had the chance and pulled the trigger last weekend.  I even posted out to the Newbie Board when it came together as I was a freaking mess and looking for any advice.  While Ms. Sarah's advice did not apply to me, it was nonetheless very good advice:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=115397&boardID=33&page=1#115397

Additionally, I would put the wife's jewelry in the safe just to be certain, even if you knowthe provider and even if not overnight.  That would just be too hard to explain, I mean fake police report?  You don't want to go there bud.

Clean whatever bathroom she will be using.  Like really clean it.  Have antibacterial soap for her to use if you don't already.  The cocktail shrimp (realy the whole meal, but i am thinking of you - shorter visit) was a nice hit as was the bottle of wine.

And the best advice of all of course came from several people:  Just relax and enjoy it.

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Ivy, Dollar,  and FER - Thanks for taking the time to reply.  I'm already feeling less anxious and now excited.

Also if anyone had any creative ideas on how to enhance the experience, that would be great (e.g. What cool things can you do at home that you couldn't do at a hotel)

Thanks!

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If you have digital cable at home then you have aout 100 music choice channels.  I let her pick the station for the evening, and reminded her that it was not EXACTLY the same as ceding the remote control....

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after she leaves.  Long blonde hairs hanging around when the wife doesn't have.....long blonde hair would be problematic, for example.

Not to mention her scent will be on those sheets.  And pillow cases.  And anywhere else you may be having your sexy time.

Put the comdom wrappers in the fireplace (assuming) and let sparky fly, DESTROY the evidence.  Just going through my own procedure from afterwards last wekend bud.  I would do it again, but it was a lot to think about during and after.  She was a siren with each orgasm, we are rural at that house but that just means her screaming was carrying for fucking miles....probably too late to sound proof your place

Others have posted some good suggestions for you. Another thing to consider is nosey neighbors. Schedule your outcall for a time that minimizes exposure to prying eyes like during the day when most are at work or later in the evening when they're "in" for the night. Also, be sure to ask the provider to dress casual.

Good luck and enjoy!

I just saw this the afternoon that I was going to have a provider come over.  She turned out to be the most wonderful person, from an agency, and all went well, but the suggestions above were really helpful and also helped me realized how stupid it was to do this and how lucky I was that I got a really good provider.  I dont think I am going to do this again, even with this provider.

I have done many Outcalls, and I am always respectful to the clients house and surroundings. When I pull into the driveway the lights are immediately turned off, and I dress conservatively to clients homes. Usually the outcall is at night where the neighbors are most likely in bed already or reclining on the sofa watching the boob tube.  

  Many of my Outcalls are to homes of those which are married and many, married with children. The client will usually wash the bedding afterwards or change it so that the wife doesn't spot any loose long hairs or doesn't smell an unfamiliar scent such as parfume or lotion.

  I arrive to the house, get in quickly and make sure nothing is left behind. After its all said and done the emails and texts are deleted and to this day I do not remember the addresses of my clients. There is no reason too.

If you want to make us comfy coming to your home I would suggest... Clean sheets and pillow cases, especially if you have pets, a clean bathroom and fresh towels and a nice comfortable temperature.