I would like to get an idea from the members/and or providers about 2nd cups offered.  My feeling is if I am paying for the hour or 2 I should not be limited to 1 cup.  The asian providers seem to have the one cup rule not all but most. What's the boards opinion should cups be limited how about on multiple hour dates?

A provider is paid for her time only & not a particular action.  Therefore, you should not be limited in actions, but only to a timeframe.  It is my humble opinion that the reason some providers feel otherwise is because they are looking for ways to get rid of you early.

Lizzy

Opiniions don't matter in this case.  This is totally up to the
provider's discretion.  Read reviews beforehand so there are no
surprises.

-- Modified on 12/23/2004 8:06:06 AM

Lizzy, you can always be counted on to shoot straight and call them as you see them.  Having had the pleasure of spending time with you once, you were gracious, sexy, fun and did not rush things along at all. To take off on your phrase, you were more cum in, cum on, and linger.

i think a second cup is more than appropriate, especially when there is an hour appointment.  if the provider is unaware of your desires, you might want to discuss it with her up front.  especially something of this nature because of the time factor involved.  if you wait until 10 minutes before the time is up to say anything ,you may either feel rushed or, worse yet, not able to obtain your freedom the second time.  i know when we have new clients, we really like to feel each other out (yes, pun intended) prior to getting down to business.    that way, the special time can go without interruption.

ummm.. as my name says.. BALONEY..

Providers charge for '1 hour' 2 hours, etc.. So, whatever you can get done in that time frame is what you're entitled to.  If it takes an hour for 1.. then.... 1 is it.. if you get # 1 in 10 min.. you should have 50 min to get # 2..

If she charges you for an hour and tries kicking you out after 15-20 min.. you should get 2/3rds or so of your $ back.  Providers offer something we obviously want, but we shouldn't be 'screwed over' either.. It's an expensive hobby.. We're entitled to the time we've paid for..

--JB

i realize this.. but...

if they only provide 1.. i'd ask them what they do for the rest of the time paid for.  if they say you're done when you're done, i'd say 'i think i'll find someone else' and hang up..

Yes, I know some make the 1 cup statement.. We also have the right to make the no thanks statement..

If i'm giving someone $$$ or more for an hour, it's 60 min.. not 12.. for those quick shooters, they'd be ripped if they're done and asked to leave.. i'd be owed an 80% refund..

--JB

If by Asian providers you mean AMPs, I've found some of them offer pop #2 but it isnt common.

Given the great value a good AMP visit is, I suppose the one pop policy isnt surprising....

i agree...i'm paying for the hour for sex, nothing more, nothing less.  if there's 20-30 mins left in the session, then i want to use that remaining time for some fun. i dont care to TALK about their lives, nor about mine. i have plenty of people to talk to, and sure as hell will NOT pay to TALK.

so it's best to do your homework before booking a provider.

Thanks for all of the very good feed back was looking for opinions and I got.  That's what the board is for.

I deal with facts, not opinions.  Do your homework and you won't
have to hang up on anyone or have a dissappointing experience.

'Nuff said.

-- Modified on 12/24/2004 9:15:38 AM

...after 20 years of practice at NOT having children without birth control of any kind, nothing's coming until I'm damn good and ready.

Sex is a roadtrip, not a race -- the fun lies along the way, not at the finish line. Heck, I'll even stop along the way sometimes, just to take in the scenery and revel in the hear-and-now of where I am and what I'm doing.

For me, the real "magic" lies in the union itself.

because every guy is different...some can only cum once, some cum twice, but there are guys who cums 3 or 4 times in a hour. Usually, at the begining of a first time session with me, I  will ask how many times he can go in a hour. If he says once, I will extend the foreplay for the most part of the hour and let him cum at the end. If he says twice, I will make sure he gets them. Now, when a guy says, well I usually cum twice but I want to try for more with you, then I will give him the "marathon" treatment and, at the end, he will be heading out with woobling legs. I think when you come to see a provider you want your time (and money) worth...and you want to leave drained. I guess that's the original idea right? Limiting cups or not providing what you advertise just makes for "one timers" kind of clients. They will not return to visit you. But, if you provide top notch service combined with his complete satisfaction he will look up for you next time he's shopping around  for a real good time.

couldnt have said it any better!!
i wish more girls would provide 3-4 cups/hr!!
i would definitely be a repeat client.

well said.. i hope other providers read what you wrote!  As we pay for time, not cups/explosions/orgasms or whatever term you want to use, we should get to use the time to do what we want.. Besides, those providers who offer 1 cup confuse me.  What difference does it actually make what we're doing for the time paid for?  

Although, may providers use the balance of the hour left over to clean up and get you out when your time is up.  It seems to me, and the best providers generally follow this logic, to spend the hour doing what you do, and the few minutes it takes to get out of there is after.  

But don't forget the 'talkers'.. The providers who use up your arrival time chatting up a storm about the weather, world politics, etc.. They're simply time wasters and will use up 1/2 your time gabbing instead of what you are there for, and by the time your hour is up, you've not really gotten all you expected.  I'm sure many ladies know exactly what their doing.. The top-repeat ladies like Betty, Lila and Sexy Sarah, etc, get you in the door and don't fool around.. There's time in between rounds to gab or rest up for round 2..

But Betty has it figured out.. Give the guy/client what he wants and he leaves with a big smile and the chances are he'll be back, and give you a glowing review..

Excellent ..!

--JB

jeopie.. i gotta tell you.. If a woman has the attitude you portray in the message, she won't last long in this business.. This is as customer service oriented a business as there is.. Bad reviews can make you find a new line of work..

But the bottom line is we pay for a block of time..If the provider wants to get us off and get us out the door in 30 minutes (HELLO, PK AND NL) we likely won't ever see her again. The ladies who aren't clock watchers, who consistantly give excellent service, give what's asked for, and don't watch the clock and in the middle say "times up, get out" will always do better than those who do.  The agencies who book 1,2,3,4 with no time in between cause some of the problems.  She's got to get you done and gone before the next..

Regardless of all that, those 30 minute hours won't work for long..

--JB