I know the risk of living with a provider, you always run the risk that the provider will meet someone, and you are
The odd man out. In my case, we sat down, for what's it's worth, and discussed the boundrys. Things like how many times a year, for how long, no out calls, no dinners out with clients. We both agreed to these and for the most
Part both accepted the conditions. The lady who lives with me, was there when the shit hit the fan this last week. In fact she probably was the last person to see chris. He stop by her room to pick money up at around 9 and the bust took place around 9:30. Well she met a guy and broke the conditions and spent two nights with him, and dinners. Came home and says he and her have lots in common. And that she is leaving in two weeks. The guy is telling her in e-mails that he is in the middle of divorce , and wants her to be with him. Problem I have is he is now sending pictures of his children to her. To me that's not right. I don't think a custody judge would think it cool to be sending pictures of his kids to a working prostitute. I'm angry at both of them. Leaving me, is part of the letting her work. I totally understand that. It's that I have children, and in no way would I have ever ever jeprodised not seeing them for a prostitute. Anyone think like I do, and any ideas. Do I contact this guy and say what the hell are you thinking of. Or just let the guy figure it out, that he runs the risk of losing custody.
Let it go.
You got involved in a dicey situation in which there was a high probability of things not working out and, lo and behold, things didn't work out. It's not your problem that he is sending pictures of his children to this woman, it's his problem. If you contacted him, it would not be because you care about him or his family it would be because you are hoping to scare him away so that your gal comes back to you. But even if you did scare him away, which you probably won't, all you will be doing is postponing the inevitable. If she has reached the point where she is considering other options besides you, there's no going back for her. Even if you get rid of this option, she'll find another because she's clearly open to another opportunity. It sucks and it's painful, but you should just move on.
The odd man out. In my case, we sat down, for what's it's worth, and discussed the boundrys. Things like how many times a year, for how long, no out calls, no dinners out with clients. We both agreed to these and for the most
Part both accepted the conditions. The lady who lives with me, was there when the shit hit the fan this last week. In fact she probably was the last person to see chris. He stop by her room to pick money up at around 9 and the bust took place around 9:30. Well she met a guy and broke the conditions and spent two nights with him, and dinners. Came home and says he and her have lots in common. And that she is leaving in two weeks. The guy is telling her in e-mails that he is in the middle of divorce , and wants her to be with him. Problem I have is he is now sending pictures of his children to her. To me that's not right. I don't think a custody judge would think it cool to be sending pictures of his kids to a working prostitute. I'm angry at both of them. Leaving me, is part of the letting her work. I totally understand that. It's that I have children, and in no way would I have ever ever jeprodised not seeing them for a prostitute. Anyone think like I do, and any ideas. Do I contact this guy and say what the hell are you thinking of. Or just let the guy figure it out, that he runs the risk of losing custody.
Who is Chris and what bust are we talking about?
1) A companion who was working for Classy was actually living with this guy as his GF.
2) Terms of their agreement stated that she could not have extended dates with her clients.
3) She met someone else and spent two nights off the clock with the guy
4) The other guy sent her pics of his kids
5) OP seriously thinks that no prostitute is allowed to see pictures of someone's kids
6) OP got dumped
7) OP is contemplating the revenge.
8) Pretty soon we will witness a train wreck of gigantic proportions.
2) Terms of their agreement stated that she could not have extended dates with her clients.
3) She met someone else and spent two nights off the clock with the guy
4) The other guy sent her pics of his kids
5) OP seriously thinks that no prostitute is allowed to see pictures of someone's kids
6) OP got dumped
7) OP is contemplating the revenge.
8) Pretty soon we will witness a train wreck of gigantic proportions.
Completely irrelevant to the story. OP just had to demonstrate how well he keeps the info private.
it having a negative impact on her....aka: make her look bad.
Guess he's mad the FREE P*SSY has ended.
The Gravy Train has ended....awwwwww
she was his girlfriend. Now that she ditched him, all of a sudden she is a prostitute who should not ever lay her eyes on pictures of children.
Really? Some dude's kids are going to be scarred for life because he emailed her the pics?
When major life choices are made they come with requirements that supersede your preferences. Which is why I'm single, childless, and don't get seriously involved with escorts. Your GFs decision to make herself scarce is a wise one.
Move on. If you deeply care for the girl, you will let her go. Count your blessings that she didn't get caught up in the bust. Cherish the time you had together, but it sounds like she wants to explore what else is out there. Maybe she is trying to move on from the hobby world and start fresh. If that is the case, can you blame her?
As for the guy. Don't be revengeful. Going through a divorce can mess with your emotions. It probably isn't the best idea to be sending pictures of your kids...but it shows he loves his kids a lot. As a father yourself, why would you want to take that away from someone else? If he gets caught up in this on his own, that is one thing....but leave him be.
You sound like a good and caring person. Think about yourself as well, you are connected to the girl who was connected to the bust. You don't want this coming to bite you in the ass later and have it affect your relationship with your kids either.
I have heard in quite a while. You got dumped by a prostitute.....BFD! That's the chance you take bro. And the new man sending her pics of his kids has absolutely nothing to do with anything. She's his problem now and will most likely suffer the same fate as you down the road.
Nut up and move on!
Ok, I appreciate the commits. Some I really sisnt like to read, but needed to read, other people gave me some comforting
A dive. To those people, I say thank you. Yes, I kmew what I was getting into, yes I thought that we had a life together, for many years, yes she will now be someone else's issue. I will get over the hurt, I will grow from this. I promise to move forward and make choices that may be better for me. As for the bust that took place, I feel that is is. Tragedy for the girls that got wrapped up in it. I promise to move forward.
Classy (sorry for the pun) response man....best of luck to you. good to see someone with their head on straight and not get caught up in drama.
the old 'I'm in the middle of a divorce but you are the one & I really want to be with you now!' crap line. Really that is so lame! If the lady in question hadn't treated you so dismally, I might recommend you help her see what a sucker she is being. But you should probably take comfort in knowing that, if she will fall for that line, perhaps you haven't suffered as great a loss as you might be feeling right now.
But that's just me.
Getting emotionally involved with an escort is kind of like an unwanted pregnancy -- taking seriously something that was just poked in fun.