On TER, most of my performance reivews are 8 (Went the extra mile), but I have yet to get a 10 and would at least like a few more 9s. How do I make this happen?  I think a lot times I get a bit nervous when seeing a guy, so maybe this is the reason for the eights. And when I read some of the reviews of girls who regularly score 9 or better for performance, their styles are more tomcat or PSE than my own. I like a bit of tenderness and sweetness. So does this make me destined to be an 8 provider? Any advice???

Nothing wrong with 8 or 9. Don't worry your pretty head over those reviews. Don't let them drive you. Keep to your style and they will come(9/10).

Really - there is nothing wrong with 8's...  Keep your style - unless you want to make this change for other reasons - such as slow business or goal setting. Of course - there are several here including myself that would be willing to volunteer and work on the technique for completing all the TER requirements of achieve the 9's and 10's.

But, you should be happy with the 8's.

Remember, 9 is 'forgetting its a service'.  It's hard for me to forget!  I think it's just chemistry between me and the girl - if I think the chemistry is real...that's the beginning of a 9.

You have great consistent reviews and, for me personally, the GFE tender, sweet, romantic session is more appealing than PSE.  If you stretch out of your own comfort zone to achieve something different you might end up missing the mark.  Be proud of your "marks" because you're clearly a desirable woman.

If you read the TER policy and info section you will see that the highest review allowed is a 7 unless the provider provides the following "Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, Anal Sex, or More than One Guy" The review can be 1 point higher for each service provided. If it is not stated in the review you can not get a point for it and TER will lower the rating the guy gave you. I don't agree with this policy but its their policy Pattaya

Vanica,

First, let me say that you are a beautiful woman!  I hope to meet you some day, and this question you posed just might prompt me to see you sooner than later!  I post and review infrequently, mostly based on the requests of the ladies I see.  I agree with the other posters -- an "8" is definitely a complement -- and a big one!

I'm definitely into the "tenderness and sweetness" part of a session.  When I've given a 9 or 10 (either in writing or in my head of the lady asks that I not post a review), here are the "tiebreakers"...

1. DFK!  There is simply nothing more erotic than a lady who enjoys kissing -- pure & simple!

2. Responsiveness!  I desire to make every encounter a "GFE" for both me and the lady.  If you tell me what sends you into orbit, I guarantee I will do it!  There is nothing I like more than to make the lady very happy.

Wow!  I just may try to get in contact with you this weekend.

It is well appreciated!

8's are very good, so you shouldnt worry, when I see that someone has has 8's pretty much across the board that says to me the woman seems like she is not a YMMV provider and pretty consistent with her performance and thats a very good thing.

I checked out your site, you look very nice, if I ever had the chance I would love to see you. Yes, I love a great PSE, but nothing wrong with a nice GFE either.

B-Pop

On the super-secret Client Review board (which I know you've sworn never to admit exists), my performance score averages -4... or so I've been told.

slipry; you old sly guy, I bet you are willing to volunteer and work on technique..

Err uh..

I volunteer!

It's all for a good cause, of course.  Totally selfless.  You believe me right?  

Edited to add:
Seriously though Vanica - you seem like a great woman - and an 8 is not bad.

-- Modified on 2/19/2005 8:25:19 PM

And there you go Lex doubling your score again.... just like I'm wishing to double mine...  

sometimes TER changes review numbers? For example, a gentleman that I recently saw gave me a 10 for performance but the powers that be changed it to a 9 before approving it.  That could be the case with you where a man is giving you an 9 or a 10 and because you don't perform certain activities (in my case it's Greek) TER will adjust the score.

I have an 8 too and men don't seem to mind because they still email and ask for a date. Sometimes I think that it would be great to have all 9's and 10's but on the other hand that might be a lot of pressure for me and I would hate for some man to be disappointed expecting to see some beautiful super model, when I am not that at all, but just your average-pretty-girl-next-door type.  I'm more like you: sweet and tender and a PSE I am not.

Vanica,

I echo Max101 exactly and that's why I've given you a 9 on one of the other review boards after seeing you in Baltimore in Dec. and then we had another awesome experience in Alexandria in Jan. that also rated a 9.  If you continue to provide the wonderfully sweet GFE service that you've provided me, then I'll continue to go back and I'm sure your other "regulars" will do so also, so what more can you ask.  You're one of my ATF's!

Hammerin

...You seem familiar to me. Have we met on some distant field?

I seen her post on the National Board...Is she new Lex ?

I usually post on the NY and General Discussion Boards but do visit and read the others and from time to time.  Mary Catherine is an alias name, I don't post under my provider name anymore (some men on TER have been very rude in their PM's and posts).  But I still enjoy all the information I can get here and if I can help someone else out then all the better! I could hear Vanica's frustration so wanted her to know that sometime TER changes review numbers and that might be the case with her. She seems like a cool lady.

And yes I am fairly new to all of this... just a few months now.

Jeopcon, sorry but I never tour so there's really no point of posting pics or giving you a link to my website. If I did have the time (I have a full time job) I'd love to visit DC but unfortunately I have to keep my cover, errr I mean real job with health benefits and pension plan. Thanks for asking though and have lots of fun!

No I have never had the pleasure of meeting you. We've responded to each others posts here a few times. Think nun habit and ruler.. my other Alias for when I am feeling goofy and silly. LOL

I've been on TER a few months. Just lurking from the NY board. Read my above post for more info.

I lurk on the NY board all the time.. The provider that wanted to give out personal information on clients was the latest drama. Crazy..

...so when and how do I get to meet you?

Her name was Angie Renee...

I am not Angie Renee.  I rarely post using my real provider name anymore so I doubt you would even recognize it.

...I'm not Angie Renee either!