With a crowded GFE market, the little things often overlooked become more important. Some of the observations listed I've encountered with providers over 30, but more often in the 20-30 age range. Ladies, if you find yourself doing more than one of these consistently, you may want to consider changing. These are posted in the hopes that those who it applies to see it. (My experiences have been with providers who frequent this area, but some also travel to NYC, NJ, and Phila as well.)

1. Do NOT use your phone other than to call in to check with a safety contact. IT IS A TURN-OFF. If you say you are GFE, do not read text messages, check email, etc while we are there.

2. Please keep the bathroom countertop clean. We don't need to see your toothbrush laying there, or make-up, or other toiletries in various stages of use. Take pride in the presentation of the setting.

3. Have a towel and washcloth ready for us. Don't just tell us to find one in the bathroom. Too detached. Pamper us if you want to be known as a top GFE.

4. DO NOT just sit there after we've cum and expect us to figure out how to clean-up. (We know how to, but if you want to be real GFE, we want you to do it.) Get up and get a warm washcloth, and some tissues to put the condom in.  

5. Ask us what kind of music we like. Most of you travel with an I-pod type device that has more than enough memory to create5 or more playlists an hour long. Have a classical one, an Oldies one, maybe something from the 70's, another from the 90's, and more recent. Don't assume we like the music your peers in their 20's likes. Music is very emotional. A good song mix can make a man feel like a man. I hear too much music that must come from strip clubs or clubs where people don't interact so much as scream above the din.  If you are not familiar with good music from the eras listed above, ask the guys. We're happy to give you some ideas. Trust us, it does make a difference.

6. See us to the door. You can say the goodbye further in the room, but at least see us to the door. You can put your finger to your lips as you walk to the door, but, see us to the door. Nothing says 'business' and 'lack of interest' in seeing us again as you just staying in bed, or starting to look at your phone or computer as we are moving to the door to leave.

7. Help us undress, and when we are getting dressed, assist where you can. It makes a big difference. Again the pampering angle. It is noticed.

There are a couple of ladies that if they had done the above, I would be seeing again. People see my reviews and send me PM's asking about you and I have to let them know your 'mechanics' are fine, but the refinement is lacking.

Know the difference between DFK and D!-F!-K! I can usually tell if I'll be repeating with a provider after that first DFK. Nothing shows someone's sensuality like a DFK!

that i didn't get my pants off quick enough. She took that matter into her own hands.

I agree. I'm not looking for her to flick my uvula with her tongue, but DFK means more than one quick tongue touch. I haven't had any providers fall short in this one, but a good one to add. I wonder if this is more common with younger providers growing up where sex and making love are not linked. In the old days, you had to 'touch each base' before getting to 'home plate'. If you were a lousy kisser, you might not get to have sex with her.

Maybe to add on to yours. If a provider does BBBJ, and allows you to DATY, then she shouldn't have any problem with you coming back up to DFK after some juicy oral sex.

I've seen this girl who was really attractive and good performance...But, it changed my mind quite negative side when she threw me a towel to clean up my self and didn't wanna touch condom after 1st pop......I was super clean and chemisry was fine...I went back home and read all of her reviews and she cleaned up everybody except me...WTF....

something wrong with me?? or her??

I never had issues with girls until I met her...


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I had that happen too. After one of those I learned to always carry a lint brush in my car since I had found some blonde hair, probably due to static electricity, on my trousers. It's great to be 'taken'. Although I do think sometimes when they start doing that and I am seeing them at the end of a workday that they don't need me as squeeky clean as their website says they want guys to be. Some provider's websites make it seem like they want every guy to shower just before arriving, or else.

and while her looks, attitude & performance would have gained her top marks anyway, one thing that got my attention was the way she helped me undress. We were on the sofa DFKing & making out, & she not only helped me gradually out of my clothes, she took every item of my clothing (including t-shirt & briefs) & neatly folded them & stacked on the nearby chair. Later when I was dressing to (regretfully) leave, she handed me each item & helped w/the buttons. What a great GFE touch!  And so little extra effort.

It seems there may be a few providers that might view this as a subordinate's checklist. Others may appreciate the nature of the business and take note. I like all the things mentioned and certainly appreciate a providers un-asked for extra attention.

One of my favorite providers was a former geisha...listening to her describe the geisha's role and the care they take to pamper their man is very impressive.

I certainly don't mean that providers should be servants to a hobbyist, but extra attention and care will certainly make you memorable.

-sobaka

that they provide the ultimate GFE experience but dont. Most in our area that i know of do. And they have excellent reputations with not only the gentleman but other providers as well.
I like to think i fall into that category. I believe we should pamper and cater to our gentleman. My desire is always to leave a strong lasting impression. Often times its only an hour we get to spend together. Within that hour you should feel as if you've been transported to another land. And while there you are King. I in fact prefer to be in control throughout our time together. Usually you are coming from somewhere in your life that is full of stress. Work and home life depend on and look to you to take care of everything. This is your time to be taken care of and I intend on making it the best ever.
On my page under Q & A, i encourage you to make requests whether they be wardrobe, music, ambience, beverage etc... unfortunately not many utilize this option. But i think they're quite happy and comfy once they have spent time with me so few feel the need for requests. I would like it very much every now and again though. I love new experiences and want to know what you enjoy and what turns you on too.



xo
Mea

You make an excellent point and observation Government

I have never would even think of seeing a lady without taking a shower right before arriving especially if she has went to the trouble of mentioning it on her website.  As for my definition to a GFE, have clean towels available for a shower if needed (before and/or after), mutual undressing is nice, and cold refreshments available.

I'm paying for this hotel room right? Sooooo because of that I can damn well put my fucking toothbrush on the counter, along with my make up and my lip gloss, and my anal ease if I feel like it. You don't like seeing my bottle of lotion? What, my hairspray offends you? Really? That's the most retarded "suggestion" I've ever read.

I keep the bathroom tidy with stuff arranged and in place not strewn around like a college dorm counter top, but I think being turned off by seeing her "things" on a counter top is over the top and ridiculous.

Just where am I supposed to put my stuff? Back in the bedroom? What about if I want to put a little powder on my face after you've cum on my cheek and I've had to wipe your cum + my make up off? Should I ask permission before I go get my make up so it doesn't offend your sensibilities?

When's the last time the state of the BATHROOM COUNTERTOP prevented you from fucking like there was no tomorrow? Last time for me was, well never.


Being a good gfe does not mean having nothing on the countertop. It means having a clean and presentable counter top. Everything arranged, neat and tidy, but well, WE'RE WOMEN. I mean, you can fuck us, lick our pussies, ram our rear ends and french kiss us until we're blue in the face but make up and toiletries in sight is a no no?

Laughing. AND sorry if I am coming off peeved. I think guys have some really ridiculous ideas about what GFE means.

I agree with every single other point but that one. That being said if you're that concerned about it please don't ever book me because I am a girl, with a lived in hotel room, girly stuff everywhere, and I like it that way.

~Love Rae

My best providers have never had a problem going from DATY to DFK. A sign of true GFE if ever there was one!

Some interesting ppoints, thank you. Some of this things I noticed intuitively - like, with that very well reviewed exotic provider, "GFE" all the way, reportedly, but she pretty much acted like I should be happy just to be with her - no helping to undress, BBBJ by the mirror like "look how good I am"... To make it short, I lost my wood!
There are these things we feel before we even can rationalize them.

thats certainly true, I do all of the above mentioned, and have a refrigerator stocked with drinks, even tho most will take ice water.

I will mention its not much fun to dfk a man who has
just finished a cigarette out in the car tho.

Good points and things to think about! All I know is, when I see someone I am giving them the GFE..or a hell of a good time! I am myself in my appts, I am fun to be with, I will put you at ease, and we will just go at it and have a ball and get to know each other, and it will be an all around good time!

I know how to treat people and make them happy, and I do my best.  I love what I do, and I think it shows. I dont put on an act, I just have fun and its natural and real.

Lol rae I just looked over at my counter like damn, maybe ill leave some dildos up there : )

Note to self...never get Rae pissed...oh no, definately not a good idea.

PS I'll never give a rats-ass about what is on your countertop.

Cheers,
Sky

Yeah, nothing says lover like leaving your signs all around the sink.  Just don't use my razor on your legs (that blue strip is a giveaway now)