It's pretty much listed on every website. Now, what does it take for them not to see you again? Skipping payment, rip-off, shorting the envelope, abuse, etc.

The list from most websites; bad-hygiene, overstaying time (women will be polite, but doesn't mean they don't care), negotiating on site, smokers, etc.

See privateliasons.info and click on any provider. There is a list of likes and dislikes.

Odd, you say "they list it"...yet, in practice, that is almost never how it plays out from the people I talk to and the stories I hear. What if the guy has done none of those things and the woman flips out on him and blacklists him?

Maybe I'll just never understand...and life isn't logical. The world around us is so irrational...being logical doesn't always get people what they want.

Suppose the gent is in his 30s and is an 8/10 looks wise.

I assume some handsome guys post on these forums and pay escorts for their services. Why do good looking women refuse them in the first place to the point where they pay for sex, when they would obviously rather save their money and have it for free with good looking women? That's a longer philosophical discussion that branches off into so many different debates..."how good looking is she?" "what is he looking for?" etc

I can't think what a female escort thinks, because I am not a female escort.

And in certain circumstances, there isn't anything to think about. The provider's behavior makes zero sense. I always expect people to have common sense. Maybe this shows my lack of common sense.

I don't put much thought into why a woman would "ban" me. It happened to me once years ago because of a last-minute cancellation that was unavoidable. I apologized, never got a response and decided the best strategy was to move on. And, in a way, I've done the same to one or two providers who canceled on me at the last minute, so no harm, no foul.

As for shorting a provider's payment or staying too long or having hygienic issues? Basically, you get what you deserve.

Social media? Nope. There is nothing to gain by posting anything negative publically. As recently as x-mas, I was stood-up by a well-known provider, (drove to her place and waited for over 45 minutes). Years ago I would've posted about it, but what would I have to gain? There was no money exchanged so I lost a little time and that was it. She has her crowd that obviously enjoys her company, and for whatever reason, our schedules didn't align, and I believe I dodged a bullet.

Bottom line, employ the "golden rule". If being banned is something that is repeatedly happening, then a hoobyist needs to take inventory on themself. Just my .02

Be safe.

i wish we had choice to who we see

All i can say do not insult anyone that guy that he said to me i look like woman in walmart that is insulting dude in normal life i would not even say hi to you  

and yes i wish we could say stuff about guys that insult all woman  

here is lots of man and woman for everyone but insulting is last think you can do  

some woman like me in past 2year was sick could not do much because of health problem but i did not insult you because you are fat and your mouth smile like dead muse ...or your look hey we all human and love and respect is lot in this world especially in this hard time  

i am very disappointed from guys like him ..listin dude you cab change the body to be nice but you cant change your dark heart .....
Maybe some of you know this poem  

The sons of Adam are limbs of each other,
Having been created of one essence.
When the calamity of time affects one limb
The other limbs cannot remain at rest.
If you have no sympathy for the troubles of others,
You are unworthy to be called by the name of a Human.

What language is this ?  It appears to be some dialect of English.

I’ve been hobbying for a while and I’ve learned to accept most of the bullshit as a part of the game.  That being said, there are two things that will get a provider blocked. Poor hygiene. If her vagina smells of rotting fish...enough said.   Slow or no response to appointment request or last minute cancellation with lame ass excuse. I can’t tell you how many fathers have died or been sent to the hospital just before my appointment.   If you are going to cancel, just cancel in time for me to call someone else. I don’t write reviews anymore. No upside.

has to be the most annoying and will most definitely land you on my "do not see" list
 also, repeated inquiries and not booking or canceling.

My take

I blacklist for aggressive/abusive behavior, nonpayment, severe mental health issues, and chronic time wasters.  

I ban/block those who do not screen, hygiene issues to include body and oral care, time wasting, rude, overtly sexual, disrespectful, etc. just general red flags. This can also carryover to posts on twitter and boards. If I think you are an a** I don’t want to hang out with you paid or not.

I do not care whatsoever about performance, age, weight, race, education, disability or any similar thing.  

Some men and women don’t know how to stfu on social media/boards and/or don’t care how it effects their ability to book/business. But hey, anyone can post anything they want . Some guys won’t see them and some girls won’t want to see the guys. It goes both ways. I think this is something some people don’t understand.  

If you are being banned I’d consider your own behavior. If I’m not booked as much as I want, I look at my own and thankfully I’ve been around to know how to behave (most of the time lol)

Xoxo

People still on this "it's you" garbage, without even reading the post or considering what was asked...and why.