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squagga 20 Reviews 2716 reads
posted
1 / 25
Question for providers

Hobbyists can weigh in, as well. What makes a guy ANNOYING? To the point where you refuse to see him? What factors weigh into your decision to see a guy or not?  
Do you care about his age/hygiene/appearance/performance?

What does a guy do to "deserve" being banned? Hassle over prices? Was he rough/forceful? Did he give you an STD?

Guys:

What do you think if a providers gets angry at you...
and refuses to see you (but you never assaulted or robbed her and...didn't really do anything to her?)

For guys and girls:

When, if ever, is it appropriate to "put someone on blast" on social media to criticize a client?
If he hits/attacks you...then go to the police, right? But what if you just don't like him and you think he's annoying...will you post something negative about him on social media?

Is this abused by girls...like "me too" stuff, when a guy is just being a guy and a girl is a jerk and a difficult escort?

I have watched and observed and thought about this a lot. I have seen a couple girls over the years and always wondered what each side thinks about this issue, and why.

Do girls post negative things about guys online as "revenge" for bad reviews? How do they know who wrote the review? This is anonymous...to an extent, and it depends who posted what and who knows who.

Black-Panther 120 reads
posted
2 / 25
List

It's pretty much listed on every website. Now, what does it take for them not to see you again? Skipping payment, rip-off, shorting the envelope, abuse, etc.

The list from most websites; bad-hygiene, overstaying time (women will be polite, but doesn't mean they don't care), negotiating on site, smokers, etc.

See privateliasons.info and click on any provider. There is a list of likes and dislikes.
Related Link: Privae Liaisons

squagga 20 Reviews 132 reads
posted
3 / 25
is that really how it works

Odd, you say "they list it"...yet, in practice, that is almost never how it plays out from the people I talk to and the stories I hear. What if the guy has done none of those things and the woman flips out on him and blacklists him?

36363jensen 4 Reviews 120 reads
posted
4 / 25
Flip it over and think about it

What makes you not willing to see a provider again?

There are some differences, primarily you are paying for a service, not providing it so apply some common sense but still you might come up with reasons that apply on both sides of the exchange.

At the end of the day, these are not designed to be long term relationship or require explanations from either side regarding seeing one another again.  Why not just chalk it up to a change in the weather an move on?

squagga 20 Reviews 141 reads
posted
5 / 25
...

Maybe I'll just never understand...and life isn't logical. The world around us is so irrational...being logical doesn't always get people what they want.

Suppose the gent is in his 30s and is an 8/10 looks wise.

I assume some handsome guys post on these forums and pay escorts for their services. Why do good looking women refuse them in the first place to the point where they pay for sex, when they would obviously rather save their money and have it for free with good looking women? That's a longer philosophical discussion that branches off into so many different debates..."how good looking is she?" "what is he looking for?" etc

I can't think what a female escort thinks, because I am not a female escort.

squagga 20 Reviews 116 reads
posted
6 / 25
I flipped the script

And in certain circumstances, there isn't anything to think about. The provider's behavior makes zero sense. I always expect people to have common sense. Maybe this shows my lack of common sense.

RCShobby 24 Reviews 103 reads
posted
7 / 25
Weighing in

I don't put much thought into why a woman would "ban" me. It happened to me once years ago because of a last-minute cancellation that was unavoidable. I apologized, never got a response and decided the best strategy was to move on. And, in a way, I've done the same to one or two providers who canceled on me at the last minute, so no harm, no foul.

As for shorting a provider's payment or staying too long or having hygienic issues? Basically, you get what you deserve.

Social media? Nope. There is nothing to gain by posting anything negative publically. As recently as x-mas, I was stood-up by a well-known provider, (drove to her place and waited for over 45 minutes). Years ago I would've posted about it, but what would I have to gain? There was no money exchanged so I lost a little time and that was it. She has her crowd that obviously enjoys her company, and for whatever reason, our schedules didn't align, and I believe I dodged a bullet.

Bottom line, employ the "golden rule". If being banned is something that is repeatedly happening, then a hoobyist needs to take inventory on themself. Just my .02

Be safe.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 114 reads
posted
8 / 25
Re: I flipped the script

As Voltaire said, common sense is hardly common....

36363jensen 4 Reviews 108 reads
posted
9 / 25
+1 on the last statement


END OF MESSAGE

ChanelLaBellexx See my TER Reviews 143 reads
posted
10 / 25
i wish we had choice to who we see

All i can say do not insult anyone that guy that he said to me i look like woman in walmart that is insulting dude in normal life i would not even say hi to you  

and yes i wish we could say stuff about guys that insult all woman  

here is lots of man and woman for everyone but insulting is last think you can do  

some woman like me in past 2year was sick could not do much because of health problem but i did not insult you because you are fat and your mouth smile like dead muse ...or your look hey we all human and love and respect is lot in this world especially in this hard time  

i am very disappointed from guys like him ..listin dude you cab change the body to be nice but you cant change your dark heart .....
Maybe some of you know this poem  

The sons of Adam are limbs of each other,
Having been created of one essence.
When the calamity of time affects one limb
The other limbs cannot remain at rest.
If you have no sympathy for the troubles of others,
You are unworthy to be called by the name of a Human.

EasyCompany 109 reads
posted
11 / 25
What ??

What language is this ?  It appears to be some dialect of English.

Jontomas69 80 Reviews 119 reads
posted
12 / 25
Re: i wish we had choice to who we see

Not quite sure what this is all about,  hope all is well.

Black-Panther 99 reads
posted
13 / 25
Re: What ??

Example #1 on how to piss off a provider.  :)

HubrisDeity 6 Reviews 124 reads
posted
14 / 25
Things that will get a provider blocked

I’ve been hobbying for a while and I’ve learned to accept most of the bullshit as a part of the game.  That being said, there are two things that will get a provider blocked. Poor hygiene. If her vagina smells of rotting fish...enough said.   Slow or no response to appointment request or last minute cancellation with lame ass excuse. I can’t tell you how many fathers have died or been sent to the hospital just before my appointment.   If you are going to cancel, just cancel in time for me to call someone else. I don’t write reviews anymore. No upside.

DrZoology 170 Reviews 113 reads
posted
15 / 25
Re: Things that will get a provider blocked

Posted By: HubrisDeity
Re: Things that will get a provider blocked
I’ve been hobbying for a while and I’ve learned to accept most of the bullshit as a part of the game.  That being said, there are two things that will get a provider blocked. Poor hygiene. If her vagina smells of rotting fish...enough said.   Slow or no response to appointment request or last minute cancellation with lame ass excuse. I can’t tell you how many fathers have died or been sent to the hospital just before my appointment.   If you are going to cancel, just cancel in time for me to call someone else. I don’t write reviews anymore. No upside.
Good ones. Also if a provider texts me randomly to chat after we've met. Once we're done don't use my cell number for chit chatting; we're not friends. I once had a provider who would text me randomly wanting to chat about life, or if someone posted a review about her she didn't like, etc....she lost me as a client after that as I'm married. A shame too because she was hot with some fantastic pussy to boot...

missymore See my TER Reviews 151 reads
posted
16 / 25
refusing to provide screening info

has to be the most annoying and will most definitely land you on my "do not see" list
 also, repeated inquiries and not booking or canceling.

Related Link: https://missywants.wixsite.com/more

ChanelLaBellexx See my TER Reviews 136 reads
posted
17 / 25
Re: i wish we had choice to who we see

Posted By: ChanelLaBellexx
Re: i wish we had choice to who we see  
All i can say do not insult anyone that guy that he said to me i look like woman in walmart that is insulting dude in normal life i would not even say hi to you  
   
 and yes i wish we could say stuff about guys that insult all woman  
   
 here is lots of man and woman for everyone but insulting is last think you can do  
   
 some women like me in past 2year was sick could not do much because of health problem but i did not insult anyone because you are fat and your mouth smile like dead mouse ...or  the way you look we all human and love and respect is lot in this world especially in this hard time  
   
 i am very disappointed from guys like him ..listin dude you can change the body to be nice but you can't change your dark heart .....  
 Maybe some of you know this poem  
   
 The sons of Adam are limbs of each other,  
 Having been created of one essence.  
 When the calamity of time affects one limb  
 The other limbs cannot remain at rest.  
 If you have no sympathy for the troubles of others,  
 You are unworthy to be called by the name of a Human.

EasyCompany 99 reads
posted
18 / 25
Re: What ??

With respect, it made absolutely no sense to me.

Posted By: Black-Panther
Re: What ??
Example #1 on how to piss off a provider.  :)

JustLayingLow 132 reads
posted
19 / 25
Exactly why my hobby phone gets turned off immediately

after an appointment, and put safely away until I'm going to hobby again.

HubrisDeity 6 Reviews 118 reads
posted
20 / 25
Re: refusing to provide screening info

I get it. I hate the screening but if a provider doesn’t screen it’s a big red flag. I’m sure that not wanting to screen causes great concern on the part of the provider.  That’s why I joined P411 and I make all my initial appointments through that site.   The site has all my references listed and the other screen info is usually attached to the request.

CalliaAlexandra See my TER Reviews 126 reads
posted
21 / 25
Re: Things that will get a provider blocked

It’s interesting that some guys do this to me as well. They will randomly text me after we have met and want to chit chat, I feel the exact same as you but if I express that I could lose a client. Kind of messed up.  

My number is only given out once meeting has been arranged to contact upon arrival.  

I literally had a guy start sexting me who I had not yet met (was scheduled) for over an hour 2 days in a row along with dick pics, wtf. Not discreet at all, I have a life at home. We can talk via email briefly or in person as much as you want. This imo is disrespectful. I did not blacklist him but I blocked his number and will not see him now, meeting canceled. He got himself banned for trying to take advantage of me and the dick pic was icing on his cake of rejection.

Providers have a home life too and I personally have a career outside of this, my time is not free hence why I am a provider and my rates, etc are posted to include texting and chatting which also must be scheduled.

CalliaAlexandra See my TER Reviews 121 reads
posted
22 / 25
My take

I blacklist for aggressive/abusive behavior, nonpayment, severe mental health issues, and chronic time wasters.  

I ban/block those who do not screen, hygiene issues to include body and oral care, time wasting, rude, overtly sexual, disrespectful, etc. just general red flags. This can also carryover to posts on twitter and boards. If I think you are an a** I don’t want to hang out with you paid or not.

I do not care whatsoever about performance, age, weight, race, education, disability or any similar thing.  

Some men and women don’t know how to stfu on social media/boards and/or don’t care how it effects their ability to book/business. But hey, anyone can post anything they want . Some guys won’t see them and some girls won’t want to see the guys. It goes both ways. I think this is something some people don’t understand.  

If you are being banned I’d consider your own behavior. If I’m not booked as much as I want, I look at my own and thankfully I’ve been around to know how to behave (most of the time lol)

Xoxo

squagga 20 Reviews 109 reads
posted
23 / 25
Re: Weighing in

Posted By: RCShobby
Re: Weighing in
I don't put much thought into why a woman would "ban" me. It happened to me once years ago because of a last-minute cancellation that was unavoidable. I apologized, never got a response and decided the best strategy was to move on. And, in a way, I've done the same to one or two providers who canceled on me at the last minute, so no harm, no foul.  
   
 As for shorting a provider's payment or staying too long or having hygienic issues? Basically, you get what you deserve.  
   
 Social media? Nope. There is nothing to gain by posting anything negative publically. As recently as x-mas, I was stood-up by a well-known provider, (drove to her place and waited for over 45 minutes). Years ago I would've posted about it, but what would I have to gain? There was no money exchanged so I lost a little time and that was it. She has her crowd that obviously enjoys her company, and for whatever reason, our schedules didn't align, and I believe I dodged a bullet.  
   
 Bottom line, employ the "golden rule". If being banned is something that is repeatedly happening, then a hoobyist needs to take inventory on themself. Just my .02  
   
 Be safe.
Ok, sure. That is a valid question/point. This cuts both ways, though. GIrls need to think about this, too. Why do they ban so many guys, or...why do they have a falling out with multiple men? It's pretty easy to Monday morning quarterback it and tell some guy out there he's "doing something wrong," with no details or information about the situation he is referring to...whether that involves himself, a friend, some girl he knows, etc. Things are not always as they seem. Many providers are volatile/unstable, and work this job to get the candy they want. That candy can be a dangerous thing...

squagga 20 Reviews 100 reads
posted
24 / 25
Re: My take

Posted By: CalliaAlexandra
Re: My take  
I blacklist for aggressive/abusive behavior, nonpayment, severe mental health issues, and chronic time wasters.  
   
 I ban/block those who do not screen, hygiene issues to include body and oral care, time wasting, rude, overtly sexual, disrespectful, etc. just general red flags. This can also carryover to posts on twitter and boards. If I think you are an a** I don’t want to hang out with you paid or not.  
   
 I do not care whatsoever about performance, age, weight, race, education, disability or any similar thing.  
   
 Some men and women don’t know how to stfu on social media/boards and/or don’t care how it effects their ability to book/business. But hey, anyone can post anything they want . Some guys won’t see them and some girls won’t want to see the guys. It goes both ways. I think this is something some people don’t understand.  
   
 If you are being banned I’d consider your own behavior. If I’m not booked as much as I want, I look at my own and thankfully I’ve been around to know how to behave (most of the time lol)  
   
 Xoxo
This isn't about me in particular. I know a lot of people who have told me the most bizarre stories, that seem so implausible...and then they have showed me their messages, and explained to me what happened...and I see it's true. People have lots of personas and fronts they put on and change up/are very different in different situations. I know 3 different guys who have complained to me about the same provider banning them for no good reason, over trivial/silly/imaginary reasons...none of which make any sense. I asked them some of the same questions...and they showed me their exchanges with this provider, and I just scratched my head. I have been banned by 2 providers, and it doesn't really matter. There are a lot of different girls out there I can see, to get my itch scratched. The first one asked me for tons of personally identifying information, which I (understandably) felt uncomfortable providing. The next one didn't like that I showed up 5 minutes later than I told her I would. That was the last I heard from her. Ok, easy come...easy go?

squagga 20 Reviews 124 reads
posted
25 / 25
the problem.

People still on this "it's you" garbage, without even reading the post or considering what was asked...and why.

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