Where are they at? This Type of Man is becoming extinct, gone are the ones who offer masculinity and treats a lady like a lady when he is being a man behind closed doors. Being a bottom (darn I feel so funny typing that lol) is cool for a guy I guess, but if that's your main goal or only one then maybe you should be seeing Gay or Bi Guys or even TV's for time.

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It's my understanding that the transgender community has traditionally resented the judgments passed on from society.  I find it ironic that you pass such a judgment on men who prefer to be the bottom when with a TS.  If we wanted to be with a dude, that's what we would seek... it is certainly cheaper.

I can't speak for all guys, but I am sure that I'm not the only one who prefers pussy when we want to top.

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Men who are into Trans women, would prefer to fuck pussy. Why bother with a functioning TS if you can't have fun with their extra parts.  

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I agree with MuggMugg (who is definitely ALL man when whenever we play) and LadyInWaiting. I prefer to TOP ... in my personal and professional life and present myself more ladylike than most born GGs (genetic girls). Though I do admit, when the moon is full, Venus is rising and Mercury is in retrograde, I desire a proper topping as well (oh the lucky chap in my presence at that rare given moment). We are all wired differently and I would never make a snap judgement on any gentleman because he enjoys pleasuring and being pleasured by a TS. Many come to me from having a wife, girlfriend or GG provider introducing them to the joys of anal pleasure, so they did me the favor. Now it is my job to train them on being properly prepared for clean anal sex like they watch in porn ... not to judge them because they want to be with me or another TS provider like me. Not meeting any gents coming straight from the gay bar looking to be topped by a TS woman. Negates my existence if I was to judge another about which makes them happy. As long as it is not bringing harm to another or against another's will ... GO FOR IT. I definitely know what it is like to be judged for my decision to live as I was meant to be, so I will never judge anyone for what they enjoy to do in the privacy of the bedroom. And the whole pussy rationale, fuck that ... I am here to make pussy obsolete. HaHa
 

I don't buy into the idea that all men prefer pussy when topping.  I know a number of gay tops who recoil at the though of pussy.  I also know straight dudes who say that fucking ass is the greatest thing since sliced bread.  People want what they want.  It doesn't have to be any more complicated than that.

To be honest, labels mean little to me.  I am what I am.  If by some peoples' definition that is gay, then so be it.

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As usual, you rock.  Perhaps someday you will visit Boston during a full moon when Venus is Rising and Mercury is in retrograde.  I wish I was equipped to give a proper topping, but as my old granpappy used to say, "If you can't reach the bottom of the well, bang the hell out of the side.".  

- as you said you preferred pussy when you topped in your OP. Wasn't trying to label you.
I'm not a label person either. But I believe all of us in the "Trans World" are probably "pansexual" which does sound better than Bi.
I can keep up with label and all the new PC terms. But was talking to a friend about "labels" and that word was the only one that made sense!
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sorry, your post has it (along with some bad grammar

i can be a total top, or bottom only, my overwhelming preference is a versatile session.  i like a functional gal, what she likes to do usually determines the encounter, but i seek out what i like.

Im pretty much vers, I like to bottom with TS women because its just a different experience than I am able to find with women and I enjoy it. I love to top as well, but, mostly I enjoy sucking and watching women finish (sometimes on face . I've never been interested in other women, I consider myself straight (although some might consider me bi) but I know what I like and for me it's all about different experiences. I'd be a total top with trans women as well, as long as i can see them get hard, suck on them and they'll cum for me, there's something about that feeling for me.

Versatility leads to a well rounded experience.  With a Trans woman, I can be penetrated AND I can penetrate.  I can suck a dick and guzzle cum, and I can get a blowjob and cum in her mouth.  I would never be able to do these things with another man, because I'm straight, IOW, I'm only attracted to feminine/girly women.  The Transsexual creates a loophole for me that allows me to enjoy forms of sex that I could never experience with "regular" women.

I don't agree. Offering my $0.02 and layering on what's been said before....

A client is paying for a service. That service could be anything from clipping nose hairs to clamping nipples with a battery jump starter. You, as the service provider, are either offering the service requested or you are not.  

Now if this "can't find a good top" dynamic permeates your personal life, I feel for you. That's a bummer. Personally, I have no interest in seeing a TS who is not submissive or versatile. To the extent that they exist outside of the escort game, I don't even acknowledge "top only" gurls as straight women. They are "other". IMHO, they are in the same bucket as a Mistress who only gets off through dominating. And these labels -top, bottom, verse - these labels were invented by the homosexual community. As a straight man, I don't even like to use them.  

As a person with a penis who receives pleasure from using it for penetration, my world view is that all peeps with a penis must feel the same way. It is hard for me to understand the straight "bottom" guy point of view. To the extent that these men exist outside of the client-provider relationship, I presume these men have some sort of dysphoria with their genitals.  

As others have offered, some guys see TS escorts primarily to get prostate love. I totally understand that. Most of the women I've dated were quick to judge and dismiss when the subject of prostate pleasure was brought up.  

TG women present a third option to the biological binary. Versatility presents a third option to the submissive-dominant binary. I'm glad I turned out verse guy who likes TG ladies. There's nothing  more satisfying than the finale of flip fuck frenzy.


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Very well said!

I agree with you wholeheartedly. Kind of f*cked up position to be in when you are bottom only , feel and think like a woman and to be slam with an ass in your face so that they can use you as a stepping stone for their dick satisfaction/female physique combine. The more I see why guys like TS and the more I see versatile and bottoms guy's point of view the more it encourages me to get SRS. On the other note, please don't forget that you are on the business and bottoms, versatile, cum-swallowers, couples, cross-dressers are more in need for their fantasies so you are subjected to experience or get more requests by these kinds of people. My final piece of advise is that don't take it too seriously, at the end of the day that demand is what is part of the business. If you look around you will see a lot of top men aside from this business. I respect bottoms, versatile, cross dressers and cum-swallowers for their preferences because we all have some but please don't ask me to respect you or see you as a man after being asked for certain requests because that's really hard to do for some vanilla TS women.  

Not to many places this discussion can take place in such an open and candid manner.
Labels suck mostly because they tend to pigeonhole one into a certain behavior. That, or they become punitive due to society's interpretation of them. Or some stereotypical connotation. But in the interest of brevity labels are to often used.
Me. I like it all. If it's fun and everyone (seriously, everyone) gets off I want to do it. I like being perpetrated anally by a woman with a toy but there is NOTHING like the raw energy of getting banged good and hard by feminine sexy transexual. Especially a girl who likes to top. That is truly the best of both worlds. I am rarely attracted to any man by himself on a sexual basis. I do however find myself acting the slut if he is in the presence of his girlfriend or wife. For some reason that is a game changer for me. I am extremely fond of kissing, sucking and getting penetrated by a hard cock hanging from a smooth flat bellied feminine T-Girl. Then you add breasts, soft feminine lips, smokey eyes and well styled hair, painted nails and I'm all in. I am equally fond giving oral anal sex. Again, as long as the butt I'm rimming and pounding is smooth and adorned with a thong or panties.
In the interest of complete disclosure I only really enjoy topping thin petite girls and that goes for GG's or TS girls. And when they stay hard while receiving then it's Nirvana. But when it comes to being topped or me sucking cock then the sky is the limit. And in most cases size does usually matter for me.
Call me shallow but I am in it for the intensity and having my limits tested by an assertive girl who's hung and likes it energetic. That is the Holy grail. I get all the soft cuddly stuff at home.

Keep it up people! This is some good stuff tight here.....
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Well i am in the minority... I actually am TOP only with Tgirls... I have not bottomed for anyone "yet" cant say never because i just dont know.  

That is the beauty of this hobby you can be what you want to be.. if some guys like to be bottoms then so be it, others versatile great, but me i am top only for now and having a blast (pun intended).  

The attraction for me is the taboo of it all but also some of you girls are dam hot, curves and ass for days.. yum.

So enjoy what u want to be..  

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I guess I'm also in the minority since I'm solely a top. Never will bottom, but will always play with a TS's fun stick when I'm topping them. I get dude's like to get topped, it's just not for me.

Well its all a matter of personal preference and personal opinion. I see a lot of responses, but sorry I'm not on here much or for long to I wont get to read them all. (my post, my opinion to all the others) its just a thought so don't take it personal. Hmmmm offering discounts to tops, great suggestion, however there might be a situation where Hobbyists might only contact me for a discount whom might not even be tops at all, just to hopefully get the discount. so I see this one as being counter-productive for me personally.  

Not to you per say, but to anybody whomever might have found this post to be judgmental or mean or whatever it as not intended that way, but as all things posted on boards go it will always get various replies from various peoples that have different opinions. Instead of picking the post apart, can anybody tell me where are all the top men?? There is nothing wrong with being a bottom, top, vers, sideways or upside down, however for some of us girly girls who don't post that way yet still are contacted by those looking solely for that. There have been men only looking for that which I have suggested call another provider or perhaps see a crossdresser or transvestite and yes maybe a gay male or a bisexual. I don't know why some men just assume that just because you have a certain part that you naturally prefer to be a top. Sorry fellows this is not always the case, if a tgirls ad doesn't heavily focus on her she-stick than likely she is more of a bottom or not into topping at all.