I'm sure its been asked many times before lol. But since I'm relatively new to posting I figured I'd check in and see what everyone thinks.. that's right, the proverbial elephant (or shrimp lol) in the room... dick size! So I'm starting this thread as part of my own little study... what is the ideal size for you? And how much does a girls size factor into your decision to see her? Is there such thing as too big? Too small? There are of course no wrong answers!
For me, size does matter. I have ruled out several girls because I haven’t yet been able to handle anything more than 6” or so, with average girth. I should find someone to step up in size a bit, and keep working my way up. I can’t think of any other way. I can’t use poppers, either. Good question, though.
I totally get that... as a girl with a little more size myself I always wonder how many guys are scared off! But you know, you'd be surprised.. sometimes you can take more than you think! Especially if the girl is patient.
You’re right, of course. My concern is knowing who has the patience and knows how to do it. People are so variable, and it’s hard to know who can be trusted. I have a personal reason for getting trained this way, so it’s not just a whim.
I top only, so size is less of an issue for me. If you’re really big, as long as I don’t have to deep throat, we’re good. I have yet to meet a TS provider with a monster cock who assumes she can just slam my throat lol.
The bigger preference for me is that you can get and stay hard. This isn’t necessarily a deal breaker. Just a preference. If you’re hot enough, I can overcome this issue. And, I prefer you’re at least big enough while hard that you fit a decent amount in my mouth. This doesn’t take a lot though. Even 4 inches is good. 6-8 is the sweet spot though.
What irks me is how many times a TS provider says she’s verse, but cannot get and/or stay hard for a blow job. I get that it’s a tough industry and not being verse means less clients. But I work hard for my money. You’re basically scamming me if you lie about this detail.
I get that. Sometimes though a girl is telling the truth that she generally gets hard but with hormones she might have a random off day.. doesn't happen to me often but it has happened a couple times and sucks for both parties.
That's fair. If she gets normally gets hard and is cool with getting sucked off, and has an off day, there is no dishonesty happening. But yeah, still disappointing. What's the solution though if that's a major part of why a client comes to see a TS provider?
And, for me, TBH, if this is the only flaw, I can still really enjoy the session if she is GFE. If she seems forgiving/caring that she's not able to get hard, but still is into the session, I get past my disappointment rather quickly. It's when the hits keep hitting. Some examples are she also doesn't like to kiss. And, she also only gives a covered BJ. And, she gives me a one minute BJ and wants to fuck. At that point, I'm like hey I can deal with you not getting hard, but don't advertise GFE if you're really not going to make me feel like you're into it.
That totally makes sense. Like I said I've only ever had an off day a couple of times but I always try to be extra accommodating anyway so I've never had a complaint. Kissing, enthusiasm, etc... should be automatically part of the deal. You're paid well to create a wonderful fantasy. Some people sadly don't understand this.
It just depends for me. My ATF is Sonia, a Thai girl that's probably about 6.5 or so. We have insane chemistry and by the time we get to the main course, she feels really good. The buildup might have something to do with it. I've felt better with hers than larger ones.
That being said, the largest I've had is Carmen's and she had my legs trembling the entire session. That was a pretty amazing experience too.
I've also visited someone a few months ago that was a decent size, but she just rammed it into me and rushed the session so it didn't feel as good.
I think even women would agree, its not about the size, but how you use it and the experience you create.
Absolutely! I'm around 9+ and I've literally had guys tell me the experience was much better with me than with girls half my size. And as someone who loves to bottom too I have actually had smaller guys that were extremely uncomfortable. You have to know what you're doing!
It's not a 100% essential, but I find myself probably less aroused if she's like 5 or 6 inches - talent can override this. My ideal is 7 to 9 inches. I've not taken more than 9 yet; at 9 I find it "challenging". Maybe I'll try a 10" or 11" or more if an opportunity comes around, but I have doubts about withstanding it!
(In other only semi-relevant news, I am mourning the loss of the download feature at ashemaletube. I would regularly download a favorite here or there as insurance against it being removed sometime later, and it's nice to have a stash when secure wi-fi is not a good option. I'd guess that they got legal threats from OnlyFans or some such. "The download function is disabled and will remain unavailable due to technical and legal reasons. Sorry for the inconvenience.")
I would say there is a bell curve. Too small is just not fun and kinda weird when bottoming because the short length means no hardcore pounding. Too big is no good because it’s difficult to deep throat and anal hurts. Once you get to the middle of that bell curve it’s all good. Shape and bend matter too. A huge head or a severe curve can make sex harder and more awkward. Hardness is also important. I want a nice hard cock, and limp is a dealbreaker and rip off (as has been mentioned), but too hard can be painful too. At the end of the day, most dicks are pretty awesome.
A huge head or a severe curve can make sex harder and more awkward.
IIRC I've been with two well-endowed ladies who have sharp curves and nice, large cocks. One of them, Keyla in San Jose (TER ID: 194863) has a really sharp curve either to the left or to the right. I found it quite delightful, and I don't recall it being hurtful, though maybe it was more awkward trying to deep throat it (over 8 years ago, so the memory's faded.) Unfortunately, she's way more into being a bottom, and was quite rushed, so I gave her a pretty low score - but DDG with a DDG big cock.
I consider myself a size queen. I like em on the larger side. If a gal has a 5incher, its worthless. I wont bother seeing them if i am looking to bottom.
Ill fly long miles and put down good money for girthy and large. Think Lana Dallas.
The answer will always vary, different people with different fantasies who's fantasies evolve over time. In general those looking for bottom girls may not be that concerned with cock size. Those looking for a flip flop versatile experience may be looking for a cock that's at medium size, possibly bigger. Those looking to bottom will usually desire the girls with the biggest hardest cocks.
When I started seeing trans women I was top only, the entire "I'm gay" if I bottom thing, although ridiculous in hind site, took time to get over. When I began to bottom and then enjoy it more than topping, like most, the bigger the better soon became my thought.
Unfortunately it looks like your attempt to purchase VIP membership has failed due to your card being declined. Good news is that we have several other payment options that you could try.
VIP MEMBER
, you are now a VIP member!
We thank you for your purchase!
VIP MEMBER
, Thank you for becoming VIP member!
Membership should be activated shortly. You'll receive notification!
