I just had an escort over the other night and afterwards I began to wonder (for no real reason really) if the person I was with was a female or a post-op transsexual. She seemed very feminine, but how can you tell for sure?

Funny you should ask. On the cable show, 'Nip/Tuck' they addressed that very question. The trick is, do you run out of room or do you go in all the way? Seriously, there are certain clues you can look for. The most obvious one is the adams apple. Men also have wider shoulders and larger heads than women of the same height. But the most important question is, why do you care? If it feels right then you have nothing to worry about.

When "she" has her dick in your mouth, or up your ass, that's generally a telltale sign.

Kinda hard is she is really "post-op". (unless she saved it and carries it around with her)

Thanks for your reply. I think I may have seen 'Nip/Tuck' once or twice. What channel is it on? do you remember? Can the adams apple be surgically removed as well? What about the inside of the post-op's vagina? That certainly must look different. I care because I don't want to have sex with a dude. Guys don't do it for me, and I certainly don't want to be tricked into having sex with one.

Well all the escorts I have been with so far completely disrobe before sex, so if they had a penis I would certainly notice.

One question AndreMuis

Do you hate Transsexuals?

I think you have all been drinking or maybe somking something. He wants to know how you tell after the operation if she was ever a male. You could say,"Hay you look a little like a guy, did you ever have a dick"? That could put a damper on the evening either way, but you can always finnish the date by yourself. Go for it and let us know how it turned out.

Come on now AndreMuis..... Let's take down our defensive shield and look at the real reason you are here.

What made you start thinking about Chicks with Dicks?
A repulsion of the male body, but yet a fasination by the cock?? Come on now big fella... You can say it.. We are all supportive here....

uhh, I think you missed the point Papa. Post-Op means the penis is no more,

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If they've had gender reassignment surgery, they're not "dudes" anymore so you don't need to worry. If they're masculine enough that you need to think about it, then I have two questions for you:

1) Are you attracted to their masculine features?

if not, then

2) Were they the only provider in town?

Seriously, if they're cute, feminine and post-op, then they're women. If they're not all of the above, then there's got to be some other reason you're interested in them. You do the math.

Just my 2¢. Peace.