I have been a monger for about 19 years, in those 19 years i have had fun all over the world from South America to South East Asian to Parts of Europe (even some Baltic countries)... Even did some play in Africa in 2010 WC.  I have been lucky to play and enjoy life. I had only been with natural born women for most of those years, i have gone from Vanilla to soft Kink, threesomes and orgies.. but then in the last 2 years something changed...

I got curious about TS girls, it started in a strange way... i was for lack of a better word "tricked" and it happened in the PI, I was out met this stunner we went back to my place and went for it... but he was a full she, chopped off and redone, I saw her 3 more times then the last time in bed she told me that she was a HE a few years removed she had Full SRS and was transitioning for a long time before that.  I was in shock i was pissed, almost kicked her ass but i still saw her as a girl so i didn't dare raise my hand... she left never saw her again.  

When i came back to the states, i found myself looking more and more at TS girls, the first girl i saw in the states was one that had also gone though SRS, then i found myself looking for some that had not transitioned fully. I started with massages then eventually went for full on provides.  I've met some that are in the business now (porn), they tell me because i have done so much that sex is now just dead to me and i am like the addict that is looking for his next high.

I dont know, i have never been a bottom & never sucked one off... so i ask myself why? if the allure with being with a TS is having them top you and yet i've never had that why do i go to them... wouldn't being with a girls that do Anal enough? Why does it have to be a TS? I have had some rub our cocks together and cum and that was new to me. As of now i have been with TS/CD girls, i enjoy the company of TS girls, when i've seen a CD girls sans clothing without breasts it just didnt feel good to me. If a CD keeps her clothing on its ok... odd huh.

I guess the question and i am venting in a safe place is, have i exhausted sex with natural women that i dont get my high unless its something totally different than the norm?  

What is your attraction to TS girls?  I have not found the meaning of what it is to me... just would like thought if possible... thanks.

Women are emotional, men are more visual.  I'd venture to say that some TS girls look better than genetic girls, with the advancement in technologies, surgeries, plastic surgeries etc.... I have seen quite a few that would put genetic girls to shame.  I think that sex is sex, and visual wise, most men want a pretty face, a nice ass and nice tits.  Besides the cock part, it is quite easy to get lost in the fact that you're banging a really hot girl.  Opinions may vary, I am more into the feminine TS girls, I have never been topped and don't want to.  Hobby wise, it is very easy for a guy to try out their fantasy and if they don't like it, not do it again or vice versa.  I would say to anyone, you don't know what you like until you've tried it.  Overall I think that people in general are sexual in nature, and only societal norms make us feel like X is wrong over Z.

I had my first TS experience in the early 90's. I picked up what I thought was a very cute little Puerto Rican girl at a bar in The West Village. We got back to my apartment and she was a TS. I played around with her and she sucked me off, but that was my only experience with a TS for many years. I've always enjoyed fucking lots of women but am also attracted to dick and find them really erotic. I've had sex with guys, but I've realized I'm just not attracted to them so haven't pursued it. I started looking at TS porn in the early 00's and decided to see a TS escort. I've been hooked since. It truly is the best of both worlds. I was like you, only played around and did oral or topped. I bottomed a few times but didn't really understand it until fairly recently. I like TS girls as a whole. You can do things with TS girls you simply can't with a gg. Strap ons or toys are not the same as getting fucked. Getting fucked is intensely erotic. Now that I have the hang of it, I love it and I feel like I realize the true potential of a TS. Honestly, I recommend you try it. As Voltaire said "once a philosopher, twice a pervert". You should find out if you're a philosopher or a pervert. I'm a pervert. And I relish it!

I've always been a straight oriented anal loving "ass man" who got started on a steady diet of porn very young. The TS interest began in college and was a strictly a guilty porn taboo for decades. Vanilla scenes eventually got old, then came gonzo and anal. Although I have had a couple girlfriends who (with some alcohol and coaxing) would agree to anal on a special occasion (like once a year), I'd never been with a genetic woman who actually wanted and asked for ass play. My experience led me to believe these anal loving women are few and far between and maybe just a porn fantasy. Eventually I came across a vhs tape. It was amateur, just 1 scene, and real low quality, but the girl was this lean pale blonde knock-out. She bottomed like a champ. The cock reveal was right at the end. I was intrigued. That led to seeking out more vhs tapes (most produced in Rio or Sao Paolo) and this idea of Shangri La where there are these rare exotic women who crave anal and look hotter than most "real" girls ( and live in this far away tropical fantasy on the beaches of Brazil) began to emerge. Of course for many years - there was absolutely no good information available about trans-attracted men. Early theories suggested that us trans-attracted men were closeted homos. I've never been attracted to men, but put a penis on a women (real or plastic) and visually I get turned on. After 18 years of only watching videos, I decided to contact my first trans-escort. It was a bait and switch. She was black, about 6'4 with huge boobs. She was super cool, but I was freaked out by the whole thing. I don't even think I touched her. I just dropped my pants and rubbed one out on her tits and then asked her if I would get an STD from shooting all over her. Looking back - highly comical. My second encounter was a couple years later with a famous TS porn star. I was nervous and couldn't relax, but she was spectacular. Just a bit of foreplay. Left feeling disappointed with myself for being to scared to go for it. I had a couple more bad experiences after that (another bait and switch and a girl who didn't clean herself) and I decided to quit seeing escorts. Years went by...and then I moved out West where there are lots of options. I decided to try again, had a few missteps and lots of learning about what I am and am not into, but eventually I found my groove with a petite bottom Navajo girl. Things just clicked and I was hooked. I prefer to top but on rare occasion, I will flip. I seek out versatile girls as I seem to have my best times with TS girls while flip fucking. I do not seek out Cross dressers. The idea of a gay man dressing up to fool a straight man does not appeal to me whatsoever. Also, I'm not a fan of "top only" girls. From my point of view, the "top only" girls have more in common with a dominatrix and a gay top man than they have in common with 95% of the rest of the women in the world. In the so called "straight" world, what woman would seek out a man who only bottoms? What kills me is that I've met some gorgeous top girls. My analogy for these girls is that it's like going to a restaurant for dinner and there is only breakfast on the menu. If you wanted breakfast, great!, but if you were hoping for dinner maybe dessert, disappointment is likely. My advice - just be careful, continue to explore, and don't worry much about what the attraction means other than you are a normal straight male.

One of the things that defines us as human beings is our curiosity.  I would venture that most, if not all, women have at some point wondered what it feels like to have a dick and penetrate someone, and us men have probably all wondered what it feels like to be penetrated.  Psychological studies have found that transsexuals tend to attract straight men...probably because the trans woman comes across as sort of a "loophole," in effect, where straight men can find out what it's like to suck a cock or be penetrated.

My own "trans awakening" was very swift, and a little bizarre.  I went through a "deconversion," where I stopped believing in christianity, and became an atheist.  One day while looking at online porn, I casually wondered (since I no longer have a religious problem with it) if I might be bisexual.  I looked at some gay porn, and got sick.  Nope, not bisexual.  In my haste to leave the gay porn site, I accidentally clicked on transsexual...and the next thing I knew, I was jacking off.  Apparently, I want to do things forbidden by my former religion, but I definitely need that "loophole."  Anyway, the next step was the "Trans Exotica" night at my local gay bar, where I found that many of the dancers were also escorts.  I went home with one, and am now hooked.  I need both natural-born and Trans women in my life.  31 flavors all the way!!!

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It's been a taboo fantasy for a decade now. I've never been with one, but am getting very close to trying it out.

My fetish has always been oral/hands/breast/teasing/edging ... and there is something about knowing that the TS has more insight on exactly how to pleasure, and they seem more sexual to me, which is a big turn on.

They're a lot of fun brother. Whatever is holding you back, let it go and jump in the pool.  Although I stopped counting last year, I think I've been with around 42 TS girls. Obviously you are doing your homework on TER, and that will help. While it is true TS girls have more insight as to pleasing a man, don't discount chemistry. I've gone to get a $60 massage and ended up fucking and sucking for 2 hours straight, and I've spent $400 on the so called 'VIP treatment' and the girl started complaining and asking me when I was going to cum after topping her for 10 minutes. If you are lucky, you'll have chemistry on the first time but don't get discouraged if you don't. This is a journey; learning what works for you. Aim for the first timer with confidence angle. It can be a big turn on for the girl knowing that you're a newbie provided you don't show up shaking and scared from nervousness. If the girl has been hustling for awhile, chances are -she's done more than you could ever dream up. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want, and definitely take time to find out what she likes too because finding a sweet spot can pay big dividends. Good luck!!!

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Hey All just want to thank you all for your insights... I will continue on with my sexual escapades and see where it leads to... I really appreciate everyone's insight.. I am not really able to talk to most of my monger traveling pals about this portion of my lifestyle... well not yet anyway. So thank you all again.

Two things turned me into a TG Lover.

One was stumbling into TG porn.  At first it was just finding some TG masturbation videos on some website, finding them fascinating.

Second came via occasional Kink/SM with a couple of GG providers, and eventually trying out the strap-on experience.  Very uncomfortable at first, yet still erotic and stimulating.

Eventually started checking out ads and took the plunge.

Nowadays find myself hanging out on AShemaleTube, mostly in the "Shemale Fucks Guy" section.

A sordid tale of being lured into disgusting perversion

Another factor, I suppose, is age; getting less virile and energetic, having a hot chick do all the work via prostate balling works well.

Still go for GG providers about 2/3rds to 3/4ths of the time when the Provider Piggy Bank is sufficiently full, happy to have the TG option open.  Variety is Spicy!

I am 100% I love girls but I was always attracted to cocks.  Growing up I was always trying to sneak a peak at my buddys.  As we got older looking at porn and jerking off.  Then one time while watching Girl on girl porn my buddy started talking about why it's ok for girls to do girls but not guys.  Before I knew it we were sucking each other off.  I knew instantly I loved this.  This went on for awhile and then he wanted to be topped.  I found that exciting too but there was still a void.  I soon discovered TS porn and it was like a light bulb.  

Years went by of jerking off to TS porn and occasionally fucking and sucking my buddy.  Then the day came I went to Vegas.  I done my research found an asian ladyboy and set it up.  Went to her place and all I can say is wow.  I found the perfect girl.  All woman with a cock.  I'm not into bottoming but everything else is a go.  

Haven't been with one in almost a year but the last one I saw had was a tall leggy blond who does porn.  I have gotten to see a few TS porn gals in my day.  Very found of Asian and latina ts gals

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Hi Luv, are you still interested in pursing this?