Because this is all new to me, I'm ot sure where to find a very passable provider.  I mean zero male features...other than the obvious.  
Where are they located?  I am still looking for first experience but i can't seem to find any around here.  
I'm sure some are saying just go get a girl...yeah, but no more fantasies there. Done that, been there, next(great HS and College life).  I want something different, I guess I'm going through my sexually defiant phase.  But I do want my first to be with a very fem, passable girl.  Any suggestions will be appreciated.

where are you located? or will you travel anywhere to find the perfectly passable girl?

I've been a hobbiest for the last eight years. I've been with and seen some girls that are better looking and more fem than most genetic girls. I've had to sift through some pretty ugly encounters too, that can be very difficult to end gracefully. Good luck, and be very aware of the danger involved in the game we play. I don't know if I could go back to a regular girl. I keep thinking "she's hot, to bad she doen't have a dick."
LOL

Just do a search in this forum and narrow down your choice of girls than ask a question. A question this broad will get few replies since it's been asked too often. Go see jennifer paris since location and funds are a non issue.