Over the years I've found that I absolutely must prepare myself for a fucking.  Just going to see a provider and being a bottom on a whim is most of the time a waste of money.  I find that mentally, it helps me relax and I've also found that prepping myself can loosen me up and make sure things slide in easier back there.  Also it may be a mental thing, but I swear it feels better when prepared in a number of ways.  

I am lucky enough to where I can come by just being fucked and while it doesnt happen all the time, with the right provider it can happen and happen a bit more when I'm prepared. I just use a pure water enema and keep flushing myself until I'm pushing out clean water only. At this point I will get a lube bottle and squirt just a tiny bit of it inside me. Then Im on my way.

How do you get it done?

I do the same never tried the lube part though.

This subject is not approached enough and so many men come to a session totally and intentionally unprepared and I believe it is a sign of disrespect when they do. Not only do they stink up the place, but now they've made a mess on the provider's sheets (God help her if she's touring and it get's on her hotel sheets), and if it get's on her, it may take hours to get that stench off her skin. So she might have to not work after that until her room and her skin gets the "all's clear" ... haha. Nothing's hotter than a confident man who can take a good pounding and you can pull out and change positions without fear of all hell breaking loose. On another note, so many guys don't use a wash cloth when they bathe, not just the day of the date or if the provider is gracious enough to offer a shower when you get there (I offer one before & after play, since it benefits us both), but use one everyday and you never know maybe she'll pay some attention to your "two friends" when she's giving a BJ or evening start licking you in places you've never imagined. A soapy wash cloth helps scrub away dirt and grime that a sweeping hand will never do.  

Now back to the enema, Mellowsoul is very correct about the clear water use ... dump out the saline and only use clear water if you can not find pure water enemas, as you are only seeking to cleanse repeatedly until the water runs clear ... saline creates a laxative affect and that can come upon you in the middle of your play time ... YIKES

Thanks for mentioning a rather unpleasant topic, MS, and... Very Nice way of putting things, Rachel...  

 
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"This subject is not approached enough and so many men come to a session totally and intentionally unprepared and I believe it is a sign of disrespect when they do."

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"Nothing's hotter than a confident man who can take a good pounding and you can pull out and change positions without fear of all hell breaking loose."

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It does make one wonder sometimes... nothing worse than finding what you think is a truly nice fellow, but that shows up with what just seems blatantly or intentionally unkempt hygiene, especially in certain (rear) areas... and conversely, wouldn't that turn just as many of you good fellows out there off about a girl as well,  if faced with a similar ummm... predicament ?   : - )

 
i've even had the unfortunate experience of occasionally (not often, but it does happen) connecting with someone that actually "expected" to be touched, or even kissed there, or even more...  but yet, while smelling and looking like that ?  arrrgh.  

 
I don't wish to offend anyone, yet that is actually borderline blatant and i've even felt a vibe once or twice that seemed like it was some kind of odd challenge, just to see if we are actually nasty enough to go there with you in that state ???    ouch...kinda downright insulting to be honest... That's either almost actually mean, truly nasty, or maybe just very truly, oddly unaware, in some way or another...  

 
I know everyone has their own "tastes" so to speak, but um.... remember, people can also get ***really***  ill,  and I do mean quite sick from such bacterial contacts as well, if not safe and careful with things like those little nasties and such...  

 
So... to echo Rachel and others, please... this cannot be stressed enough... your good hygiene and proper cleanliness before coming to see one of us, is definitely one of the very *most* respectful ways of showing your appreciation for both yourself (you will get better results, gents) and of course true respect and good clean safe fun with,  and for,  providers everywhere...

 

....and out of true respect for all of you gentlemen with truly good intentions towards us,  we *do* know that there are  some/many  of you fellows,  that might come straight from long travels,  right off a plane,  right out of a day-long conference,  or straight from a steamy, grimy jobsite,  or even worse....  and you even may have little or no time to refresh beforehand... and that is always completely understandable...    

 

So ask, if you can (about showers and such),  or at least **please***  do *not*  be offended, if a lady offers to help cleanse and clean up things a bit...  Even if not a full shower (most preferable of course)...    but as Rachel said, a nice warm clean soapy cloth,  diligently applied,  goes a long way towards stopping to smell the roses instead of, well,  smelling you know what...  ; )

 
...not only that, but there are a lot of fun ways to use a warm (or even ice cold) washcloth that can be **very** exciting as well,  when properly and lovingly applied , caressed against, or otherwise used not only in good cleanliness, but also good/great fun...   : - )

 
Have a spiffy clean day, and come up smelling roses, before you play !

 

 
Namaste'

 
TheAngelaGrrrrl

 

 


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It is no replacement for all the cleansing tips previously mentioned, but as an added level of hygiene I like to use female condoms.  When we are all done I can retire to the bathroom and discretely remove it and tidy up any "surprises".

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Yes ... I have F2C brand female condoms to offer to clients as well, but sadly many are not open to using them boomer. I also love them for toy play.

I do not see the down side to using them. There is no decrease in sensation or pressure and they allow for multiple entries i.e. great for toy play. It can be a little challenging getting them properly in place, but as I recall, you are very adept at that as well :

Did I introduce them to you Boomer? haha ... I love using them with toys before the "real thing" as a sexy way to insert the F2C and to get my lover "open" and ready / relaxed for something larger and real (hint hint) and if they are really into toys we can go crazy and play with my extensive collection of silicone, glass, and surgical steel toys ... as long as they still let my use BBC whenever I so choose (don't want to get jealous) haha

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Yes you did and it was amazing.  It did get me ready for the "real thing" and it was an experience I will never forget.  I would have written about it in my review but I was introduced to the F2C after I had already submitted a review.  I would love to read and updated review about the F2C and toy play.  Another  plus is that the F2C can remain in place for the entire session allowing for lots of variations, position changes etc.