To answer your ?. No problem! First, I would say never say never...I hate to use such a common phrase but it fits. With that being said, it is 110 percent sexual for me, to answer your question directly. While I have developed some great friendships with TS girls over the years, I do not see myself getting married to one. Considering myself Hetero as well, I also don't see myself getting married period. Your statement is very true that the majority of clients are usually married men with children at home. I personally never want to be one of those married men doing things behind anyone's back. I enjoy relationships and sexual encounters with both GG's and also TS girls. For me, variety is the spice of life
be honest, how many of the men out there who enjoy this hobby are really interested in a real relationship or life partner, or is this just a sexual fantasy? and treat the girls as a sexual object, you can still treat the girls with respect and just see them as a sex toy to get yourself off with. most of the men who enjoy this hobby are married with kids and would never consider changing there lifestyle and would consider themselves heterosexual men, i am not proud to say i am one of the men who do enjoy this hobby and it is 100% sexual and would never pursue a real relationship,
I think I'm going to move to Salt Lake City, Utah and become a polygamist and have about five TS wives. The hard part will be trying to find five TS girls that can all get along.
so you wont be honest and answer the question? just make a silly joke? i would like a honest answer from you LATSdog.
To answer your ?. No problem! First, I would say never say never...I hate to use such a common phrase but it fits. With that being said, it is 110 percent sexual for me, to answer your question directly. While I have developed some great friendships with TS girls over the years, I do not see myself getting married to one. Considering myself Hetero as well, I also don't see myself getting married period. Your statement is very true that the majority of clients are usually married men with children at home. I personally never want to be one of those married men doing things behind anyone's back. I enjoy relationships and sexual encounters with both GG's and also TS girls. For me, variety is the spice of life
Here, here Dog. Preach the litany!
I would love to find a Trangender companion. Unfortunately, the opportunity has never presented itself, and I'm not sure if it ever will.
First off, there's not a lot out there compared to GG, and often times you wouldn't even know a person is transgender in passing. As acceptance grows, these factors will lessen, especially in the younger generations.
Another major factor is that I am an older guy, and even when I was younger, was never into the club scene. There are few social occasions where I knowingly mingle with Transgender people my own age.
Another major factor is both self inflicted and unfair is that I have much higher standards for Transgender women. I know it is unfair, but I have absolutely no attraction to men, and the thought of being intimate with one is not a pleasant one for me. As a result, a Transgender lady would have to be very passable and quite a bit more attractive than a similar GG for me to consider a relationship.
So if I ever stop posting here for a long time, I am either dead or found such a companion. ;
Forgot to mention, I've never been married or had kids.
I actually have had one to my home when my wife was out of town. I cooked steaks and we played in the pool. I was in heaven. Total time about four hours and I'd do it again in a heartbeat. It is strange, and I've told her this, when I'm with you all is right in the world.
Clothing optional.....
Having a ts hooker at your house for a pool party while your wife is out of town is just super-risky I would think...?? Then again I don't know your situation.
I'm with the Dog on this one. I love girls/women/ladies...with or w/o "plumbing". I'm not physically attracted to men but
have messed with guys and can kind of take it or leave it. As far as "relationships" go..to answer the original posters question. It would be pretty difficult for me to "come out" to my friends and family as "a guy who has sex with women who were born men"...
Kind of picking up on muggmugg's thought is 'yep, she'd have to be pretty fucking hot" for me to basically come out as
gay to everyone I know...but I definately would if she were not only hot but "cool" as well...if you get my meaning. I would have to love her so madly that I would be willing to "suffer the slings and arrows" that would be sent my way from my friends and family and society at large. It sux but that's the truth of it. I have a cpl. of TG friends that are seriously not at all attractive, that are super cool, but I am not attracted to them physically. And I know from stories that many of the "super-hot" tg girls (Ana Mancini comes to mind...or say Jennifer Paris) that are pretty much total bitches...so your basically looking for a needle in a haystack. Someone super cool who looks awesome in a bikini and might as well make her an awesome cook as well!
Whether she has a cock or not I'm gonna marry her! ![]()
I'm not saying that I'm looking for a 10. I would just require someone with enough femininity and attractiveness that I wouldn't associate her with being a man at all. I'm really not too concerned with what other people think about me. If someone bases their opinion on people based on something like sexual orientation, their opinion doesn't mean much to me.
Guys she is a doll. I was nervous about neighbors would see,but it was dark...I still can see her silloutte in the moonlight. It was awesome and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
I started this hobby in 2012 and have had quite a few (at least five) secret "girlfriend" relationships during that time. This all changed when I was finally "out-ed" by my then wife in front of my side of the family. This of course, then led to my divorce to her and separation of my children, but eventually it also led to my sexual freedom.
It was like a huge ton of bricks was taken off my shoulders and all of a sudden I was free to do whatever and whomever I wanted. The last two years I have had three different TG relationships that have been great. I would not say they are the easiest to date, but the amount of sex involved makes things very tolerable.
I recommend dating TG women and will only ever date them going forward.
Good luck gents.
G
I have experienced both men who seeing me is only sex and have built friendships with but I know 100% they would never date a woman like myself, and I have had boy friends who are 100% comfortable with me being transgendered but it just didn't work out.... it is hard to find a man who is genuinely interested in a ts and is comfortable with himself to not be bothered about what others think if someone found out that I'm a ts...but things will happen when they happen...
One experience that comes to mind for me........I met a TS girl years back who was just getting started. Over the years and through her transition, we became friends. As an example, I have written and posted almost all of her online ads. When her credit card would not go through, I used mine a few times knowing she was in a pinch and needed to make money. One time, she wrecked her car and asked me to come save her. I did, took a day off from work to help. Unfortunately, she got busted once and I helped there too. I also wired her funds while she was waiting to be released from the local pokey for food, etc..........I gave her tomatoes from my garden one time and have taken multiple pictures of her for the ads she has on the BP, Eros, and the local paper. I also gave her one of my older laptops that still worked very well.
All of that being considered, one time she came over and we had fun. She fell asleep and we ended up waking up together the next morning. While I thought we were more than just friends, she wanted to charge me an extra 200 bones for the full night. She stayed because she could not drive. And now I owe her money? While we are still friends, I was a bit irritated.
Another time, years back, a TS friend of mine needed a place to crash for the weekend. She was local to LA at one time and moved to NY. I said, sure no problem but only for a few days....she disappeared on me, left her male leg lifting peeing dog for me to take care of and took off with my Ipod speakers and a few other items she helped herself to stating she would give them back. She too was a TS friend who I never saw again. She stopped by to get the peeing dog and then never came back.
Taking the TS element out of it, anyone on hard times might act this way.....these are just a few of the relationships where it was more than me being a client and there was at least some sort if friendship there......
Like Bella said, if it happens it happens....and from me: It is what it is......
Over and out....
Dog
A relationship is two sided.Honesly when have you ever seen a tranny that was willing to give you something for nothing? Ask your friend or good tran pal for a comp session. You could of known this B for years,spent thousands of dollars on ? You've shelled out cash always to be around him.Has he ever cooked you a meal? bought you a bd gift? Christmas gift? Trannys are always on the take! Hey,just keep piping them down,or keep em on their knees or at your rear. They may say their looking for a serious relationship but once you run dry! POOOF! THEIR GONE.....I've never ever thought about something as foolish as that.Not that FN lonely or desperate!
All of that being considered, one time she came over and we had fun. She fell asleep and we ended up waking up together the next morning. While I thought we were more than just friends, she wanted to charge me an extra 200 bones for the full night. She stayed because she could not drive. And now I owe her money? While we are still friends, I was a bit irritated.
Another time, years back, a TS friend of mine needed a place to crash for the weekend. She was local to LA at one time and moved to NY. I said, sure no problem but only for a few days....she disappeared on me, left her male leg lifting peeing dog for me to take care of and took off with my Ipod speakers and a few other items she helped herself to stating she would give them back. She too was a TS friend who I never saw again. She stopped by to get the peeing dog and then never came back.
Taking the TS element out of it, anyone on hard times might act this way.....these are just a few of the relationships where it was more than me being a client and there was at least some sort if friendship there......
Like Bella said, if it happens it happens....and from me: It is what it is......
Over and out....
Dog!
I would say that the OP's mentality is much on the older generation not that the newer wouldn't be the same but times keep changing and will keep changing for the better or worse. In anything it goes both ways and the fair way for the position TS are in, is better to have a deal of give and take. We know your sole suppose and guy code. However, i hate generalizations, not all men share the same views or are the same as the OP but to know the percentage of who would marry or date TS or how many TS would consider a relationship is hard to tell specially on a site like this but it does exist out there. I would like to add and finalize that don't forget many TS fall into this position job not because of desire but for many reasons and the money sucks you right in also.
Yeah, I agree. We are talking about two different different things. When guys have become too good of friends with escorts, gg or TS, it's always the same story. I don't want to stereotype people in a particular profession, especially since I haven't had any problems myself, but the same story is way too common.
Good point... I rarely get a thank you. It does bother me...I guess business is business,but like I said I'd repeat.
All of that being considered, one time she came over and we had fun. She fell asleep and we ended up waking up together the next morning. While I thought we were more than just friends, she wanted to charge me an extra 200 bones for the full night. She stayed because she could not drive. And now I owe her money? While we are still friends, I was a bit irritated.
Another time, years back, a TS friend of mine needed a place to crash for the weekend. She was local to LA at one time and moved to NY. I said, sure no problem but only for a few days....she disappeared on me, left her male leg lifting peeing dog for me to take care of and took off with my Ipod speakers and a few other items she helped herself to stating she would give them back. She too was a TS friend who I never saw again. She stopped by to get the peeing dog and then never came back.
Taking the TS element out of it, anyone on hard times might act this way.....these are just a few of the relationships where it was more than me being a client and there was at least some sort if friendship there......
Like Bella said, if it happens it happens....and from me: It is what it is......
Over and out....
Dog!
I actually stumbled blindly into this (hobby?) with total ignorance, due to an obsession for a well known TS porn star. I had no knowledge of TS until I stumbled on her (revealing) photos. If I was a rich man I would drop everything to have her as my own. This, obviously, will never happen, but the point is that I would if I could. I would never rule out a TS lover, wife, etc; and probably would be a happier man if that was a reality...