Why does it seem, that in reviews on here, and even on porn titles, that the action seems to have guys performing oral or getting fucked by the TS, instead of the other way around?

For the most obvious reason: thats what guys want from a TS.

if you wanted to suck cock or get fucked by one, why would you need a TS to do that, instead of a regular gay man?

A TS resembles a woman, so to me it seems logical to assume that.....................

It's just a personal preference thing.  Some guys get into the fantasy of genderbending with a cute tranny, and that generally means playing with the cock.  Without that part of it, you're just buttfucking a hot girl, and while that's certainly a good thing, it's not *different*, by any means.

It also has to do with more of the TS escorts not really wanting to bottom for multiple clients in a day, I think -- their asses would probably get pretty sore.  

I guess I can see that part of it...   hmmm, thanks for the feedback..


but what about the oral part?

like everytime I looked at a TS porn, it had some regular guy sucking the TS, instead of the other way around..

I don't know, but from what you're saying, then what's the point in becoming a TS then?  Why not just be a straight (no pun intended hehe) guy?


Excuse my ignorance, but my little pre-conceived notion, was that TS were dudes who liked other dudes, and wanted to play the role of a woman...

I guess I just expected that to be more of the "norm" (there go those puns again).


When I checked out some reviews, it seemed like the TS giving oral was a pretty rarity, and almost an afterthought.


Ok now I understand about the fucking part, but what about the oral??

Genderbending is a funny thing.  Some people get a rush out of looking as much like a woman as they possibly can -- dressing, makeup, hairstyle, breast implants -- and yet they still like to keep their cock and balls, and get a lot of pleasure from using them.  There are other people who consider themselves women who were born in bodies that don't match up with their self-image, and they're trying to mold their bodies into something more like what they want.  These folks don't have as much use for their packages, and since many of them are already taking hormones, their cocks don't get a lot of use.

Some guys, no matter what their gender presentation, are more interested in sucking cock than in getting their cocks sucked.  Other guys are exactly the opposite.  There are also guys who enjoy getting fucked; there are guys who don't care for it, too.  Guys can have any combination of the above; speaking for myself, while I'm not averse to sucking a nice juicy cock, I generally prefer to be the one getting sucked, and even though there's nothing I love so much as fucking a nice tight ass, I have exactly zero interest in bending over myself.  I know a guy who loves getting fucked, but putting a dick in his mouth makes him gag.

Don't let a few reviews and some porn be your only education about what things people like doing with (and to) each other.  Some guys get off on both the "I'm pleasuring a beautiful woman" headtrip, and the "I'm sucking a fat cock" headtrip at the same time.  It's not really my bag, but it doesn't have to be, after all.

Reepends on the individual, I suppose.

wow good feedback..

i guess it seems like common sense to some, but coming from an outsider who knows practically NOTHING about all this, it was a pretty big mystery.

like i said, i always had the assumption that TS were trying to look like women in order to get guys, and for some reason i just assumed that they would be submissive and be all about pleasing that guy.

another thing i noticed was when i would call chatlines, there would be feminine sounding TS on the line, who would say that they are just looking for an open-minded guy who wants his dick sucked.


well you have just educated me -

thanks!

because we don't want a man, dude.

why do guys like girls in nurse uniforms?
domination or defecation?

Its the human experience man.

Reepends on the individual, I suppose.

insightful response.

First off, it's nice to see people actually having a DISCUSSION about this and not a firestorm about "well, if you like this or that, why not just be gay, straight, or whatever?"  There has been some good insightful responses and kudos to you Nitescape for wanting to educate yourself on this.  Here's my $.02:

As far as your "oral" question goes, like others have said, it's personal preference.  I think it all depends on how you perceive your cock, the cock of a transsexual, and the cock of another man.  I happen to love my cock, I mean come on, if I don't love it, who will???  But seriously, I appreciate it's size, it's shape...and thusly, I can also appreciate other cocks.  So, when I see a beautiful cock on a transsexual (i.e - porn stars Vaniity, Carmen Cruz, and Yasmine Lee), I would have no hesitation to sucking that shemale cock.   I would not, however, go down on any guy because I'm not into men; more specifically, I'm not into having sex with the masculine form.  The "novelty," if you will, of being with a transsexual is kinda having the best of both worlds...you get the femininity, the body shape, the breasts, all that's great about a woman, but you also get a beautiful cock without all the "gross" manly-ness that would come with it.  When it comes to oral, again, it's preference: if you equate sucking cock to being gay and don't want to be considered gay, then don't do it.  But if you can accept that being with a transsexual is being with a woman with a cock, then you've just opened up yourself to a whole new world of pleasure.

Oh, and in your pursuit to understand all this...let's set you "straight" (now you've got me doing the puns!) on transsexuals.  For the MOST part, TS's are men AND women who feel they were born in the wrong body and take measures to physically change themselves to the opposite sex;  they're not just "dudes" who want to be with "dudes" by looking like a woman.  You can have a guy who wants to physically change himself into a woman and still want to have sex with women, and vice versa.  It's not about who they want to have sex with, it's about their own gender identity.   Let me reiterate that: it's not about WHO they want to have sex with, it's about their own gender identity.

So now I'm curious...if seeing transsexual porn, or more specifically guys sucking on tgurls is confusing you, why are you watching it in the first place?  Why not stick to watching straight porn, men with women?  My common sense would say if you're here or watching TS porn, you would already have an interest in all this instead of questioning why a guy would want to be with a TS, right?  Or are you spying on us???  

"So now I'm curious...if seeing transsexual porn, or more specifically guys sucking on tgurls is confusing you, why are you watching it in the first place?  Why not stick to watching straight porn, men with women?  My common sense would say if you're here or watching TS porn, you would already have an interest in all this instead of questioning why a guy would want to be with a TS, right?  Or are you spying on us???  "


Hi,

First off, I am not watching TS porn, but I DID checkout some of the covers while online with my normal straight rentals.


The reason I checked those out, as well as read a few of the reviews here and then created this post, was because.............   well actually TWO reasons -

the main and first reason, was because when I would go onto phone dating/chat lines, there would be a very feminine sounding TS from time to time, either trying to play the role of a woman for phone sex, OR offering to suck a guy who was "open-minded" (hehe).

I admit that I had played with a few of them over the phone (unknowingly), because they did not say anything about their being TS...

Some of the TS on the line sounded VERY feminine and some sounded very attractive and pretty!  


Anyways, after seeing how persistent some of these TS on the chatline were, and how submissive and feminine they were, I wanted to investigate more, for curiousity sake; However as I said, when I researched a little, I found most TS were nothing like the ones on the chatlines.


As for the secondary reason I checked out the reviews and posed questions here, is because it's a great way to get a clear view into what it is all about, and what people are thinking.  

Seems like a great opportunity to me, to be able to learn about this, which probably would be very difficult to gain any insight anywhere else, without actually going out there and getting involved.


To share a little bit from my own self, here is my personal thoughts -

when lusting or thinking lustful thoughts, it is like anything else of a similar adult indulgence, whereas the more you play, the more you consider...  doesn't mean you are going to do any and everything, but you most likely will at least consider.

Take smoking week..  a lot of folks don't go any further, but many do.


Anyhow, like I said some TS can sound VERY feminine, pretty and attractive.   They can also LOOK very feminine, pretty and attractive.


Personally I do not think it is healthy for a man and his manhood to cross the border into connecting with other men in this manner...  (don't really want to explain any deeper than this - sorry)

so even though I think TS can be sexy either on the phone or in person, it's that manhood spirit that personally, I just would not want to engage.


Yes in the heat of passion in phone sex, I considered playing with some when they were on the chatline (knowingly), and even explored........  but I found that the spirit of a woman is what ultimately attracts and completes me as a man, and anything short of that is just a lustful unnatural fix, which is kind of like an unhealthy drug, that has an unhealthy side-effect -

kind of like a drug that might feel good right after you take it, but then afterwards you might feel really sick and damaged.

I'm glad to see that actual discussion is going on here.

 Someone asked about men wanting to be topped.  My question about that for the guys who like being topped is, do you do it/enjoy it for the prostate stimulation?  Is that the major reason, or is it a variety of reasons? (kink factor, etc)  No judgement here, no worries.  Also please comment about the stimulation of a cock vs. that of a finger or toy.

 Another question:  Do most of you maintain an errection during anal play (on you)?

 One last thing.  I had a civvie experience once with what turned out to be a post-op hermaphrodite (she had her male parts removed).  While I went through with it, I wasn't really turned on by her.  She was attractive and had a big set of fake boobs, no adam's apple.  While I'm sure there are multiple explanations for the lack of heat, I was wondering if pheremones might have also played a role.  What are your ideas on pheremones with TS girls.

Thanks for whatever feedback you care to give.

Wow...GREAT point about the pheremones!  I've been with 2 insanely hot TS girls and while it was fantastic, I have to admit I wasn't completely into it like I am with women.  I assumed it was nerves getting to me, but now that you mention pheremones, it's got me thinking.  Don't get me wrong, I still love the idea of being with a TS, but perhaps it explains the lack of "intensity" for me, personally.  I know a lot of guys out there get more out of it than I do, so I'd also like to hear what you all have to say.

Cool, I see where you're coming from.  You have some legitimate questions and hopefully some have been answered.  I'm not here to 'convert' you and I'm glad this hasn't turned into a straight vs. gay brew-ha-ha that can typically happen.  So far it's been nothing but an intelligent conversation, so thanks for your questions and input.

As for being with a TS, for some it's an obsession, for some it's fantasy...but we're all free to indulge in a little sexual curiosity as long as it's done safely.  I think TS girls are getting a lot more attention now with advances in medical science and the fact that sexual boundries are breaking down.  As for myself, if anything, being with a TS has affirmed my desire to be with a woman, strange as that may sound!  It's been fun to indulge in the TS fantasy once in a while, but I know now that I have a much more intense and pleasurable experience with a woman. And again, that's just me.  Someone mentioned the lack of a woman's pheremones when with a TS ; it's an interesting point and I'm waiting to see how others feel about that.

I suppose I could think of it this way: your interest in phone sex is something that I would never get into, but I can respect that that is your thing, just as TS girls are mine.  I'm sure you'd agree that if we can all accept each others differences, we'd be a lot better off.

gawd, now I feel like hugging a tree...somebody get me a stripper, stat!!  =P

yeah, I totally feel you...

i don't need to agree with someone else, nor like everything they do, in order to show them simple respect, and not take it upon myself to judge someone.

i may have OPINIONS, but there is no need to put yourself in the place to where you think you are fit to judge someone else.

that just isn't my place, nor anyone else's, except God.


*hey that's MY tree!

Even if humans transmit pheromones, no receptors or carrier proteins that carry them to DNA have been discovered.  A tranny would transmit the same pheromones as any other male.

Great insights, rbinsd!  Thanks!  I think you've helped to clarify my thoughts and feelings for me.  My little pea brain has been trying to sort things out on this topic, and you've done the work for me!