I know that many TS providers get a bad rap for lousy attitudes. And I will be the first one to step up and say, I've experienced this as well. I'm not sure where this comes from...the chicken or the egg. Girls have bad attitudes because the guys show no respect. Or the guys don't show respect because the girls have shitty attitudes.

I've always try to be a nice guy. OK, its just me. And many times, yeah, I've been screwed over. But I'm not changing who I am because there are jerks in the world. And every once in awhile, it pays off.

Here's a funny story that happened to me. I met a TS from the LAExpress. We had a crappy session. It went from the telephone "I like to do everything" to not doing anything in person. Literally. She wanted me to give a BJ while I jacked off. That's it. No more. Asked for anything more, and I got a "give me more money".

For some bizarre reason. Mainly because she was so damn f'ing hot, I called her when I got home to say I had a nice time and wanted to see her again. She said "thank you" and asked if I could give her a ride to an outcall appointment she had (she didn't want to call a cab). OK, I know this is going to sound stupid, but I was bored, and said OK.

I know why she didn't want to call a cab, it was like an hour away!

Her outcall was a nightmare. A guy on drugs who didn't want to pay.

Back home I drive.

She's pissed. She wasted about 3 hours of her time on this jerk.

But, guess who was the knight in shining amour? Guess who went from customer to friend really fast? Guess who never paid again?

Unfortunetly, we really didn't have much in common and our relationship never went farther than friends and booty calls. But I saw a whole different side to her than I had seen as a guy walking into her apartment for the first time. And in a way, its nice to see that a little kindness can be appreciated.

It would be even more knightly if you payed her for the booty calls, or at least offered. Friendships with a pricetag are not exactly chivalrous.

I'm not quite sure how you mean this? Don't you think that some providers would like to have a relationship once in awhile that didn't involve the exchange of $$$?

For me, if I had the choice of having a true friend, or a monthly visit from a client dropping $150-$200, I would take the true friend every time. Because in the long run, a true friend is far more valuable.

But then again, maybe I'm just weird like that.

temp - you're right. i'm married, so most of my action is hit 'n run. but there've been many times when i've had brief "relationships" with girls that could have developed a lot further if i were single and younger. i think the girls are lonely, notwithstanding all the guys they meet. and i think it's especially lonely as a tgirl. i'm not saying they're desperate about it or even want these relationships, just that there's plenty of opportunity to develop something more than just the business relationship.

My only point is that you "seemed" to gloat about not having to pay anymore. If a friendship truly developed then I think that is great and my hats off to you for being a standup guy. From the sounds of it it does appear that way. So I am sorry if I insinuated anything other then good intentions. I think though that most guys would take advantage and have a regular freebie for their own satisfaction rather than take it to a level of friendship.

No harm, no foul. I can see how you might have taken what I said the wrong way. But as a previous poster had said, I think many, if not most, of these providers are really lonely. And I think that many, if not most, of the clients are jerks. So, if you are a nice guy, it will pay off some times.

On the other hand, many, if not most, providers are jaded and hurt by the majority of jerks that treat them like sh*t.

My post was to point out to all the nice guys, the good guys, that you don't need to stoop to that level (of the jerks), sometimes, if you are who you are, and you are nice to people, that niceness, will be returned to you ten fold.

It's pretty hard for alot of the girl's to trust us.  It's true that many customers are jerks.  The girls have issues(TS, prostitution) that make it harder.  I have made two friends from the girls I been with and I value their friendships dearly.  The one thing that I've found with some of the girls is that they have many emotional ups and downs because of the nature of their lives and the issues they have to deal with(and the hormones!).

When I first moved to Houston, I was so fascinated with the TSs that were readily seen and available,I wanted em ALL.LOL! But that would cost a fortune I dont have.In due time I got to know who was who in the clubs as far as the "ladies" go.I had my faves like anyone else.One night while being nailed by a provider I knew who could lay the pipe,a gorgeous pair of legs walked right through the room to use the restroom.I had an immediate desire for those legs.(3 TSs shared that lil apt.) Given a couple weeks,I had em and the experience changed my whole being.This one and myself got real close,far beyond friends.We talked via phone alot.She stayed with me sometimes.Money never became an issue.Time has gone by and we have both gone our ways.Point is,yes we can have normal friendships beyond the "booty call/money" thing.