alright I'v been looking on this site and Eros for about a 6 months now and I have not been able to pull the triger, how the the hell do you guys take that first step(I'm maireed)to been with someone that is a guy and that you fantisize about all the time (does this make me gay). I need some one in chicago that can help me out with this, just to meet someone and get to fell comfortable with them.

Oh gawd, the "am I gay now" debate again...I won't answer that, but hopefully this won't lead to a flame session here.  (Frankly, I'm tired of explaining what being "gay" is...not that there's anything wrong with it.  And no offense, reedheer.)  Perhaps someone will chime in with a civil response.  Okay, I will say this: it depends on your definition of gay and how you perceive it.

What I will tell you is, you just dive in!  Watch a few TS dvds, see if it's what you're into.  Decide if you want to be a "top" or be topped by the TS of your choice.  Of course, it helps to pick the right one for your first.  As the adage goes: you always remember your first, so make it a good one.  Pick someone who welcomes first-timers; they'll be more patient with you and show you the ropes.  

And lucky for you, Chicago has one of the finest TS ladies on the planet who is also fantastic with first timers.  Look for Maizza (I'll put her link with this message).  She's beautiful, kind, understanding, patient, and sooo hot.  She was actually my 2nd, but still taught me well.  Highly recommended by all, just check out her reviews.  She would be an excellent choice for a first-timer like you.

Best of luck!  And yes, you are FABULOUSLY gay now...just kidding!

Gay is someone who likes to sleep with an other one similiar to him, Gays don't like to have sex with a TS, mos of the times they're looking for an other guy who looks like tough man.

If you like to fantisize with a TS is because you want somebody from your same sex who looks like a woman, or... do you want a real looking man?

So, you become to be a bisexual, but it's good to have clear that you prefer someone femenine.

If we the married people like TS'S is because we would never can have this fantasy with our wives, maybe we can feel sometimes that we lie to her, but when you have usually to see TS'S, then you will not feel guilty, so, it's a fantasy, we can't help it, and many times is fantastic.

Good Luck.

unlike you i don't see a TS as a guy to begin with..also being married doesn't differentiate a straight or gay male..possibly if you question your sexuality you might be closet homosexual..at the least a person with bisexual tendancies

Thanks for all the comments, I am just scared to make that first call and to release the flood gates. Maybe its the butterflys in my stomch and when my heart starts to race when I see TS online, Maybe this is the only part of my fantasy that I need. I have had the opporatunity to take that plunge but I cant make that call and this feeling of intersrest has been with me for four to five years now. Only recently found out that there was a TS escort culture(boy this sure threw me for a loop)I alwasy thought I was up on my shit.

 Thanks for your Help and I keep you guys posted (october, I have a weekend alone)

Better first time at my place or her's ?????
And what's the one thing a first timer should know or do when talking on the phone and when you walk threw that door?????

Thanks

listen man, make the call and you'll find out that tgirls are better in bed than GG's. this is my basic advice:
-read the reviews and go with a girl that has consistent REAL reviews. every time i used a review, i did fine. i had bad experiences with both girls that i saw that didn't have reviews
-dont discuss sex & $$ over the phone
-prepare for the date as if u were going on a date (look good/smell good)
-prepare to be hooked...LOL
good luck

reedhear:

I’ve been back over your posts a couple of times and I think you might be trying to pull our third leg here.  In case you’re sincere, here’s my advice (probably worth what you paid for it):

First – Maybe I am wrong, but you sound like you have studied the escort scene extensively but have little actual experience.  TS escorts are first and foremost ESCORTS – it all pretty much works the same way.  You seem as uncertain about the whole escort scene as you do about the something extra a TS has to offer.  My suggestion is to reduce the variables – go out and get some escort experience and then decide if you are still interested in that something extra.  That way you will be able to judge the experience for what it is and not be distracted by all the other factors involved in a first time escort experience.

Second – What’s up with your gay issue?  This has been discussed here many times – a good discussion can be found last year here:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13182&boardID=19&page=

One of the replies by marquis999 in the thread above talks about some very insightful comments by the comedian Ron White.  I’ll provide a more detailed quote from Ron’s act (courtesy of another source -  http://www.logoonline.com/news/story.jhtml?id=1537129&disableFeatureRedirect=true&contentTypeID=1301):  

…Part of [Ron White’s] act is mocking homophobic men.  In his act, White talks about a friend who is a homophobe.  He starts by asking the audience, "Is being afraid of gay people not the most useless thing you can be?"  White then explains how he informed the friend that everyone's gay to some extent.  Of course, the friend emphatically denies this, leading White to offer to prove it.  He does so by asking his friend if he watches straight porn.  "Yeah, I love it!" says the friend.  White then asks, "Now do you like seeing the guys in straight porn with small half-flaccid penises?" "No!" the doofus hollers. "I like'em big, hard, and..."

Finally, I agree with “broiled” – you’ve done enough homework, get out there and go for it (or forget it), but most importantly (assuming you go for it) report back and let us know how it all turned out, TS/GG or otherwise.

Regards,

TS Tempted