Visited with The Aviator at his "hangar" recently...

He's trying to get back on his feet (or so he says) but he is really showing the strain.

I last saw him about a year ago before all the "Christy Delight" nonsense happened and he seemed a normal, well-adjusted person. Today?
He looks haggard, acts withdrawn, and talks about "being isolated is good for you"....

He's gone through a lot, but now he's just STRANGE..maybe he IS "Howard Hughes"..

What I would like anyone who knows him on the board to do is to drop him a line,phone call or  PM. I have a feeling he's "losing it" and we need to help him out.

I have not have the pleasure of making his aquaintance, however I offer this advise. Everyone we meet in life, we learn from, good and bad. The secret to knowledge is to move beyond the pain into the light.
In short get over it DUDE life is to short.

If he's as you describe,  then he needs real professional help,  not attention here.  C'mon OCTgirlFan,  really.

Perhaps a vacation to Thailand or Brazil would help

Not wishing to make light of his feelings - for he has been quite open and candid on this forum - I might suggest a vacation to Thailand or Brazil as good therapy as well