I'm new to the world of escorts and still trying to decide if I want to go along with my fantasy of having a session with a TS provider. I've read quite a bit negative reviews of TS providers and it makes me wonder if it’s worth the gamble. I notice with some of the negative reviews the guy meets a provider that looks different from the pic and profile online and still decides to go along with the session getting burned in the process. I often wonder what's so hard about turning around and walking away if a provider has purposely deceived you and looks very different from their profile? Another thing I have read about is a customer having to walk into a dark apartment or hotel room to meet a provider getting fooled in the process. Maybe I’m a little bit too paranoid or security minded from my years working as a bouncer so there is no way in hell I’m walking into a strange place that is not sufficiently lit. Walking into a dark place you are not familiar with is an easy way of getting ambushed, assaulted, or robbed. Please help me understand, what's so hard about walking away if things don't seem right?

Guys think ...now that I am here let me go ahead with it. I personally have not experienced a situation where I had to turn away. i do a lot of research before visiting.
You should stick to the well reviewed providers. ENJOY

In all of my years as a hobbyist, I have walked away about 9 times.  That doesn't mean that I have only been hit by the bait n switch 9 times. When I walk, it is usually because the provider looks nothing like the photo and I am not interested in the service. I usually say very politely, "I am sorry, but you are not the girl in the photo, and I had my heart set on her." They usually say, "Don't you like me" or something like that. And I usually say "There is nothing wrong with you" I just had the hots for the girl in the photo, and I am not into surprises. It is better than insulting the person. I only had to fight my way out of an apartment once, when a guy came out of the bathroom to try and shake me down. I hit him as I unlocked the door, the TV backed away, I left and ran like hell. You take your chances with this hobby, especially when you are taking one for the team. I don't believe I have a right to write a review for these incidents, because I didn't actually do anything with the person.

if you are comfortable, i think you should at least post saying the photos were fake

no brainer! if you feel like somthing is not on the up and up run dont walk away!! and i think we should allways report a provider who is pulling stunts!!

I was on the fence for a very, very long time about meeting with a TS escort.  For many of the same security reasons as you.  I just kept looking at ads and reading reviews until I felt comfortable.  I made a great choice and had a fantastic experience.  I'm so glad I did too.  Just think before you do, that's all.  If you don't feel comfortable JET!

You have every right to write a review that says nothing more than you didn't go through with the session because the provider looked nothing at all like her photos. You will be doing the other hobbyists who come after you a big favor.

Tres

Hi Larry,
Welcome to the "world of escorts!"  The guys have made some good comments.

The first thing to remember honey is there are  "escorts" - professional courtesans, and there are ghetto girls, and everything in between. A lot of TS's are not living in the best circumstances, and this business doesn't always attract the best people.

But as the gents said, if you stick to well reviewed providers with a track record, you won't go very far wrong.  You may or may not click chemistry wise - but you won't generally have pimps jumping out of the closet.

As a ts provider I agree with the guys.  If you enter a situation that does not feel comfortable, leave.  That said, don't confuse first time jitters with something else.  But a quality provider is going to understand you may be nervous and she will do her best to make you comfortable.  She wants to have a nice time too.

It's not right though to treat a "date" as a looky-loo opportunity.  If the girl truly doesn't look like her photos it's one thing.  But if you just want to scope her out and leave that isn't right.  She will have set time aside for you and possibly turned away other clients.  So you should give her something at least.

This behaviour is why a lot of girls get jaded, and double book, etc.

As far as location security, if you date a girl who lives in the ghetto or at the no-tell-motel, guess what you are going to get?  A ghetto girl.

Quality providers for the most part stay in upscale hotels when on tour and live in nice  neighborhoods.  They dress nice, drive nice cars and blend in.  However many TS's don't enjoy this level of income or acceptance and there are many nice girls who live in poorer areas.

So as the others said, do your homework.  Talk to the girl on the phone - that should tell you a LOT.

Have fun, play safe,
TS Jamie

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I am also facing the same dilemma and very apprehensive as a first timer. Thanks for sharing valuable input.

TS Jamie,

Thanks for the advice. I will definitely remember your words of wisdom while deciding on the right escort.

Thanks again,

Larry

excellent, research is the key. i have been with lots of GG escorts but only a few TS. I have never been burned by a GG escort but of the 5 TS escorts i have seen i walked away twice and got burned BAD once. it seems to be the nature of the beast. TS escorts have an entirely different agenda than do GG escorts. as a TS searches and trys to achieve physical perfection they often get caught up in the wrong priorities, surgery, clothes, porn, money, just to name a few of the less dangerous activities. if you go after TS escorts you should be prepared to run into some situations that you had better be prepared for. one thing i realized is that if an escort, GG or TS, doesn't sound warm and upbeat on the phone when you call, in all likleyhood you are in for a less than stellar experience.